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Need a B/f bad
im a 6th grade girl and i really need a b/f all the guys i like dont like me at all i want to ask them out but im afraid if they say no they will tell every1 that i like them and make fun of me. i give advice but i dont know wut 2 do. Pleez help!
Kate
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i think that having a bf is something that you need to do for yourself if you really like a guy ask him the worst he can say is no if he does say no and he tells everybody then just blow off what they say to you an example is: Yeah well i was to good for him anyway. If you really want a bf then go get one i am sure you can do it
good luck: Currlie
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YOU DO NOT NEED A BOYFRIEND. It's the 21st century, get with feminism!
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You don't need a boyfriend. It's not what it's cracked up to be. Case closed!
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hay i'm a fifth grade girl I know what you mean I have and will have that same problem try to talk to the boy you like most and tell him how you fell if that doesn't work talk to the person you like 2nd most and so on GOOD LUCK
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For one thing, you will never NEED a bf. Need is something that is necessary for your survival. You NEED air, food, and water. You don't NEED a bf. I would give you advice, but the best advice that I can give you is this: once you break up with your boyfriend, which is most definately going to happen, (note that you're only in 6th grade) you will wish that it had never happened. Forget about liking guys. Just look from afar... but never go near them. They're like poison ivy. Look but don't touch.
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Aww, honey. Don't worry so much about guys not liking you. I had the same problem when I was your age. No one really "needs" a boyfriend. The single life can be fun, too!
Trust me on this. I was very, very happily single for 17 months after one of my bfs broke up with me. Don't worry too much about looking. The good guys always come along when you're not looking, or even trying to avoid the whole "relationship" issue.
It's happened to so many people I know. Hell, it even happened to me.
However, if you feel that you absolutely must have a guy, ask one out as a friend.
No commitment. Just like "Hey, I wanna get to know you better. You seem like a really cool person. Wanna hang sometime?" More might happen; the guy might decide he kinda likes you. If so, yay! If not, move on. =)
Guys fear commitment. It's just a general rule. So give them an offer with no commitment and they'll be one hell of a lot more open. Good luck! I hope everything goes well. =)
-Siren
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well first of all i think u should take a deep breath and go ^ 2 them don't be a shame of what they'll say,if they say yes then good 4 u but if they say no don't start crying juz stay strong and say ok and smile.good luck holla back
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it is okay to be a columnist with a problem......Kate i am in the 6th grade and in the same situation i don't want to be embarrased because i like someone....if the boy u like is a close friend then ask him privately and secretly and ask him not to tell but if he does embarass him in front of his friends like he did u tell his friends one of his secrets but instead of me talking about revenge let me get on the topic......ummm.....if it is someone ur friend is cool with ur friend should ask for u and take a risk if u aren't cool and ask him in a private place if u can like exchange phone numbers or something but it is ur decision.......good luck!
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Well, if he gets people to make fun of you for liking him, it doesn't say much about him. If you feel you absolutely have to have a boyfriend, ask one out. I would recomend doing it in person if you really want the true answer. If you get a friend to do it, they'll say no for the same reason you're afraid to ask them out. You'll feel different in time. And someone turning you down is painful, but it's not the end of the world.
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