Shy when I first meet ppl, then I just can't seem to shut up after I get to know you. Love to listen to others though. Love to four wheel,hunt, and do anything that keeps me active with my kidos. Also I am such a sports mom!! My other problem is that I like to tell ppl how reality really works. I have a wonderful sense of humor and I don't think ppl understand that when you have a sense of humor, your able to get yourself out of alot of sticky situations. Use your head, and that small voice that tells you that your doing the wrong thing. When ppl ask you for the truth, always reply back "You want the real truth, or the truth that is a lie?" Then you save yourself from a headache when they quit talking to you! Trust me, know this first hand!!
As far as topics or categories are concern, anything if I have knowledge in it. If I don't I will look it up or ask someone about it. Email me if you have to and all is quiet with me! I really don't get on yahoo to much anymore, kids took over that. :( But I do check mail often.
E-mail: acerdj@myself.com
Location: In a region that seems that no one can find!
Member Since: March 10, 2004
Answers: 8
Last Update: April 7, 2004
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dear, any one
one of my friend is a gay/lisbaian
person i dont think its tht bad but it goes alout against my religion is it wrong of me not to care even tho my religon says that they will not go to heaven at least thts wat my mom says but im 16 and 16 a very confussing age
*The confussed 16 year old* (link)
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hate the sin not the person
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I have been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years, living together for 3 of them. In this time, he has never celebrated my birthday unless I specifically told him where to take me. He initially told me his family didn’t celebrate birthdays but I found that to be false. Every year he has a new excuse, even when I make it clear that I’d like him to celebrate my birthday in some way—even if it is just a card. This year was the worst. He started a fight with me and then told me he had planned to take me to dinner except the fight ruined it. But he never even made reservations anywhere. I just can’t understand why he insists on hurting my feelings like this or how to make him understand how important it is to me to be treated special for one day a year. We have his daughter from a previous relationship (who I have helped raise since she was 2) every weekend so we do not get to be romantic very often. It seems silly to me to break up over this, but I can’t take his thoughtlessness anymore. (link)
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Can I honestly ask you, why is it so important that he celebrates your birthday? I have a husband who is like this. He won't just go out and buy flowers, (they cost to much, even though a carnation is like a $1.00) and always ask someone that knows me well what I want for Christmas or Birthday. That use to irrate me like you wouldn't believe. I finally really realized that if he was going to do it, he was going to do it on his own time. He will someday suprise me with a mother's day ring and a wedding set. I also had to stop and realize that I did the samething. I always asked him what he wanted. I stopped nagging (not that you are doing that) and started to show him. I listened for what he wanted and bought it. If I wanted something really bad, I wrote it down and gave it to him. Not expecting him to remember to grab it when he went shopping. Then I told my daughter "if dad asks, this is what I want" I now can say I get what I want and plus some!! I also realized birthdays and christmas gifts/dinners is not why I love him. Guys don't get that whole gift/dinner thing. Cut him a break and fight for the bigger issues. You will find that a lot of married woman have this problem!! :)
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My friend *Jessica* wants to give her boyfriend head on friday. She's thirteen. And tehy've only been dating for three weeks. I think it's a bad time to do because she's not even sure she wants to. She's also going to give him head in the school playground.
She and her boyfriend haven't talked about it and she doesn't plan on it she's just going to do it because his friends told her he's expecting her to. And she wants to please him.
I just think she might be making a mistake and I want to get her to think about it first. How do I do this with out interfering with her life or getting her mad? (link)
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I would interfer in this situation. Not only is she 13 and doesn't have a clue (hopefully) what she is doing, how wrong it is for a 13 yr old to be doing it, but just for the mear fact that she will be setting a certain image for herself. You need to let her know that if she does this she will be showing the present and future bf and friends that she is willing to do anything for a bf. That is something that she shouldn't be doing to herself. Having respect for yourself will bring other respectful ppl around herself.
When you do talk to her, just simply say I don't want to be the one that always put a damper in your life, but this isn't right. Tell her why in the most respecting way. What ever you don't make her fill ashame of her thoughts, make where she thinks fully about the situation. She knows part way that it isn't right, she just needs some reassurance that it isn't. Then end it with (hopefully you mean it) I would want you to interfer when you thought I was about to do something wrong!
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I'm a 16 year old girl and I've been really good friends with this one guy for about 4 years now. But we've only been friends. Just a few days ago he started hitting on me. I still want to be just friends with him and I've already told him that I just want to be friends, but I don't think that he GETS IT. What should I do? He's a really good friend, but nothing more than just a friend. (link)
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The best thing you can do is just tell him that it irritates you when he keeps bugging you with what he does. Logic has it right, some men just don't get it or they just don't get it that they are crossing the line with you. In the end, you might have to be willing to loose the friendship if he doesn't stop. This is one of those raw deals.
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I have been looking on the net for software that can help me look for skipped tenants. I do not want to hire this out, I want to be able to do it.I saw that there was software named NetDetective, but I don't know if it is legite or what. Staples and Best Buy have not heard of it. So, does any one know of software that will help me look up people's credit history (for future tenants) and be able to track down skipped tenants???? PLEASE HELP!!
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Also if you look at the the home page for NetDetective.com. First thing it says is find out the truth about anyone. It is not illegal for me to do this
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I am curious about hospital records. I was born at Pasadena General Hospital in Pasadena, Texas. The hospital is no longer a hospital. I am trying to locate my birth record. I tried going through the Texas Department of Vital Statistics to obtain the birth certificate. Their reply was that they have no record of the birth. So I figure that if I can get the hospital record, I can get the Department of Vital Statistics to issue me one. Does anybody know where information for closed hospitals are kept or who I could possibly talk to? (link)
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Try to get ahold of the court house there. They should have public records there.
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Trichotillomania, a disorder where one pulls out their hair. I havent officially been told that i have it. But i also have never admitted to anyone besides my mom, dad and sister that i have a problem. It started when i was in elementry when i knotted up my bangs and tore away the knots. Now i just pull and pull, usually during class sometimes when im online, just when im bored. Trich is not about self injury, its something someone notices they do or they can do it without being aware. I pull my hair without the knowledge that im doing it. Its a very hard thing to deal with, its more of hiding it untill the hair grows back in the balding spots. I feel so ashamed that im not good enough to get over it, ive read that people go through their whole lives with it, i worry, i dont want to be plaqued with this curse for my whole life.
My habit seemed to have died when school started up this year but then recently it returned. It began all in one class period. I must have sat there the whole class and pulled and pulled untill the hair was very thin on one side. When it comes back it gets worse, because my self esteem becomes very low and that doesnt help the stress, if thats what triggers it.
I am considering going to a counsellor, but im not sure. I dont know anything about if they put that kind of stuff on a record when you want to join a college or get a job. If so will they turn you down because you have a disorder? Will they put me on anti-depressants? I dont want to be put on meds, i just want someone to talk to, maybe even ways to prevent doing it. Any help on how to prevent me pulling my hair out and what happens when you confront a counsellor about a disorder would being very nice. (link)
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I have a cousin that did this. She of course is very young and they got her to stop. Not sure how, but I can find out if you like. She did it when she was zoning out or just very bored, and most interestly was she did it in her sleep too.
Go to a counsler! They can help and give you advice for what you need to do. Colleges and employers can not open those records. They can only tell you no if you are convicted criminal.
acerdj
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i have been friends with these 2 for 5 years. he finally ask me out a couple months ago but broke up with me like every month and i kept going back out with him. well this time he said that hes not gonna break up with me again and that hes really dumb for breaking up with me. and now shes pissed off at me because she doesnt want me to cry over him again. which i havnt the last 2 times. why would i start now? shes also mad because i dont stand up for her when her brother(my bf) picks on her. all i do is laugh. i wanna say something but yet i dont. how can i get her not mad at me but stay with him. she wants me to break up with him but i dont want to. and also. when i go over to thier house to spend the night i always slept in her room. but now that shes mad at me i probably wont get to. i cant sleep in garys room cuz his dad would freak. how can i stay over there? ok this is 2 long. thanks everyone! bye (link)
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I have to agree with alpha! This guy sounds like he doesn't care about you. He enjoys keeping you on a string. As for as your best friend is concerned, stick up for her. You can always get your point across with out being a jerk to you bf. Trust me good friends are hard to come by and when you do have a good one, hang on! When you do get a descent bf, he won't mind you hanging out with your best friend at all, and won't always make her the butt of a joke!!
acerdj
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