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should i go for it, or not?
k, so here's my problem. it's prolly stupid but here goes. So, i like this girl, like a lot. but i'm not sure whether i should go for it and ask her out or not. I prolly don't have a chance, cause she's sorta out of my league, and she may only consider me as jus a friend. But i want to be more than that. BUT, that's not the complicating part. So i talk to her friend, whom we will call Girl B, who i've known for quite a while, and tell her how i like Girl A. Now background info: i did like Girl B for a lil while, and she knew that, but i didn't go for it for multiple reasons, one was cause she didn't like me. yet, wen i told Girl B bout my crush, she said that she was hurt cause she did, past tense, like me for a lil while, and she feels hurt cause i don't like her anymore, but her friend. Now, girl B doesn't like me, and i'm ok with that, but she's still hurt, and i don't wanna mess that up either. But i really like Girl A, wat should i do? help plz!!!
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Ok chief, first let's talk about girl A. Does she like you? Don't say no because that's not necessarily true. The answer is that you will NEVER know whether a girl likes you or not. What you should do is start making some moves, but if she shows any signs of resistance, disgaust, annoyance, etc. then you should stop. Girls don't normally change their minds about guys, and if they do, they'll come after you. Besides, it's a lot better to be just friends with a girl than to be in a relationship. That is my theory in because if go out with your friend and the relationship ends, you won't be friends anymore.
Now on to girl B. Don't pity her. Yes, I know it sounds cruel, but if she really DID "like" you then she should have made some moves herself. If she was too shy then she wasn't ready for a relationship anyways. Leave her alone, don't bring up the subject, let her be. She will heal herself as most girls do. If you need any more advice just mail me back!
~Joce
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