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MASTURBATION: i walked in on my boyfriend
yesterday i was at my parents house because my dad was fixing my car. well my boyfriend went home for lunch, which is about two minutes from my parents house. he calls me and asks how my car is coming. i tell him that my dad is still working on it, because i was going to surprise him that it was finished. he says he is going to eat something and go to the bathroom, then he would go to my moms and see me. the night before we had watched scary movie part 3 and pamela andersons boobs are popping out of her shirt. these kinds of things in movies upset me and he knows it. well i head to our house, i open the door and what i see shocks me! he has a sock on his penis and is getting off to pam, the same movie that we had seen together the other night. i feel betrayed and i feel like he has hid this from me, what else? i have asked him before if he had done this and he said no. i lost his trust. am i overreacting? whos right here? and what should i do? we have a baby and i am pregnant and 19. PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Don't worry about it. You were just in the wrong place at the wrong time. Theres nothing wrong about what he did. Most guys do it anyways. Perfectly normal stuff. Don't overreact too much and hurt your relationship. That could be a bad thing... most definately. Good luck with the baby!
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it is normal for men and women to masturbate if you have not had intercourse lately and i know ur pregnant you shouldn't but he could have had a little wild fantasy of u in the "Pamela Anderson" form. masturbation is nothing to worry about and a lot of men dream about "Miss Pamela Anderson" us as women do not know whats so special she ain't even real all over don't worry.
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I am not clear on this. You caught him doing this at home, or at your parent's house???? If it was your parent's house, you have a problem. If it was at your home, I think you are overreacting.
I think all men do this some time. Everyone needs a little privacy sometimes. It is not the same as cheating on you. It is just a fantasy.
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So what, you caught him. Big deal! Most guys do it, as well as a lot of women even if they are in healthy relationships. Don't be so hard on him. It's human nature. Personally I would apologize for getting so mad.
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Almost every guy does it. I don't blame him for lying. I would definitely not leave him for it. Only eunuchs don't think of other women. However, he should at least try to stop, since he knows how much it bothers you. You two have a family together, it's not worth tearing it apart.
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I have to answer this in three parts. 1)If you are mad about boobs popping out in movies, well there is not much we can do about that because, as much as we hate it, sex sells. 2)If it's the masturbation, most men don't admit to masterbating to anyone. They don't like anyone thinking they aren't having sex! He probably hid the fact that he masturbates because he's embarrassed and didn't want you to judge him. 3)A lie like this was probably created to avoid this very situation. He's wrong for not telling the truth but you are overreacting a little. This should be an opportunity to get all secrets out into the open and resolve them like the responsible adults impending parents should be!
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you are very much overreacting! every guy masterbates whether they have a girlfriend or not. a guy knows how he likes it which means he gives the best hand jobs, im sorry to say they are better then yours, thats how every guy is. think about this its not like he would ever meet Pam Anderson and they would hook up....just dont worry about it every guy does it and evern if the perfect girl was with them and fulfilling every one of there fantasies they would still do so dont worry!
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