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hey! well there's this guy. he likes me and im not sure if i like him! he asked me to the dance and i think im gonna go w/ him as friends but im not sure if i want to dance with him.. wouldnt that be ackward? what would YOU do??
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p.s- i have never had a bf b4 cuz i dont want 1 and have never danced w/ a guy! so it would be a new experience!
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i woud go out with him give him a chance to get to know him
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if you want 2 dance tell him youve neva dun it b4
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DEFINATELY dance with him. Give it a swing, it should be fun n__n dancing isn't all that personal. Sure you will dance with him. No biggy. You'll dance with a lot of guys by the end of highschool. Don't think that everything is such a big deal, because it really isn't. Go out with him, have some fun.
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dance w/ him girl! if u like him as a friend and he is nice then u can dance w/ him as a friend and not a BF and he will understand. if he doesn't then just tell him how u feel. and if it is u'r first time dancing w/ a noy it sometimes makes it easier to dnace w/ a friend so if u do mae a fool of u'r self ( wich u probbly wont') then u will b able to laugh about it!lol
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I've only gone to a dance with a guy as a date once...
(there's only ONE dance a year at my school...SUCKS)
and it wasn't that bad, really. He really sucked at dancing wheras I'm not that bad (though I think I scared him a bit with the "dirrty" bit)
Just go with him, dance with him a bit, and have fun. If another guy asks you to dance, go ahead!
Most of all, remember to enjoy yourself, and don't do ANYTHING that'll get you expelled, or pregnant ^_~
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just go and have a good time. you two aren't going out your just going as friends.whats the worst that could happen?
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New experiences is what life is all about. You are going to a dance, so there is no reason for it to be akward to dance with the person you came with. And just because you are going to a dance with a boy, it doesn't make him your boyfriend. If your nervous because you have never danced before, ask your mom or dad for a few tips. I am sure many of the people going are in the same position. Go have fun, and dance the night away!
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From your perspective, it would be okay. A friendly dance never hurt anyone, even if you've never danced before. From his side, if you dance with him he may think you like him. Turning him down would be more devastating if he asked you out. On the other hand, situations like this are a good way of figuring out your how you really feel about him. I would make sure that he knows you aren't interested in dating before you dance with him. We're talking about a slow dance, right?
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Dance with him if you want to. It might be awkward, true, but it'll give you guys a chance to get to know each other a little more. Who knows? You might decide you do like him!
As for the never having a bf thing, you sound young, so that's not too much of a problem. ^_^
You don't have to have a boyfriend to go to a dance. This year was the first year for me I've ever gone to a dance with a guy as bf/gf, and I'm 16.
So relax and just have fun! Don't worry about the complications. ^_^
-Siren
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