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All I would like to know is, what is your opinion on finding love online? It could be an actual dating site or just random falling in love, didnt see it coming. Do you believe it can be true love if you have never even met or talked to the person besides online? Or do you think that there is no possible way?
One more question...
Do you believe you can fall in love at any age?
Thanks!!
I think you can fall in love at any age, but there are different stages to love that come with maturity. I think it is possible to fall in true love if you have chatted with the person enough to get to know them on a really personal level. You can know a person you chat with regularly better than you know some of the people you see in "real life" because many times people feel more comfortable being themselves without the face to face pressure.
Hi, I need some advice...so anyone PLEASE HELP!!I love this guy named Matt...he's so amazing... tonight I am going to write a email to him( if my friend finds it) I am going to tell him how I feel about him... my friend is his friend on my space...she says he likes girls who mean it when they say they love him.I absolutely do!! I don't know what I should do when I go back to school Monday... how I should act...I'll be happy that he reads it..(if he does) but..I'll be extra nervous. I am so shy around him... I can't EVEN talk to him... so someone help me out...also do you think he'll not read it even when I say to?? Please...I would like ANYONE to try to help... thanks to whoever try's to help..
- Mattlover
I wouldn't tell him that you love him in the email because the first time you say, "I love you," it should be face to face. I am pretty positive he will read your email, even if it's only out of curiosity, but he may not want to admit he read it if you put him on the spot in some way. Don't write something like, "hey, do you really like me?" because he may not want to answer the question, so he'll pretend he didn't read it. You should tell him that you really like him a lot and have some reasons to back it up. You can tell him you're attracted to him physically, but also talk about some of the things you like about his personality. Make an open-ended invitation like, "Maybe we should get together sometime," or "I think I really want to ask you out on a date, but then I'd be the one who would have to pay, huh?" Don't ask him for a specific date, like Saturday afternoon, because that goes back to putting him on the spot. When you go back to school on Monday, you shouldn't put too much emphasis on the letter, or bombard him with a whole bunch of your friends asking him what he thought, etc. Your friend said he likes girls who mean it when they say they love him, so it seems like he might be more on the mature side, like he isn't into a bunch of games and gossip. If you tell him you love him now, and you haven't ever really had an honest conversation with him it is going to turn him off.
So a couple months ago I worked with a male employe at my job, at a very big corrporation food place, and another female. All that day he kept making very lewd ramarks about me and the other girl, we have to initial a cleaning list so he was taking each letters and making disgusting and very sexual sentences with our names. Then he kept mentioning how he really wanted to Fu** one of our female employes. Then when his shift was over he told me and the other girl that we should all hook up to have hot sex. He gave us his number and watched us for half an hour outside the store. I let it go, not happily but I thought at that time he was 16. Turns out he's 28. So the next day I worked alone with him and he insulted my religon and told a customer that my mom was a whore and he should go fu** her. In front of the mans six year old and wife. A day after I went and talked to my boss and it turns out this was his third sexual harrasment thing. So my boss grabbed the guy and had a half hour chat. Then he told me I'd never have to work with him again, and he used my name when talking to the kid and everything. However he screwed up and placed me and the guy to work together all night. So now the guy works with minors younger then me and now I'm close to b fired because I supposivly have issues with my manager who is OCD about everything and hates me since middle school. I really hate my job but If I leave the guy gets a clean slate according to my second manager. What should I do? The guys insaine and i don't want him getting away with more of this.
Sorry it was so long:()
First of all, this guy has no business working with young kids, and you don't have to, but if you made a complaint it would probably save some poor young girl from being taken advantage of. What this guy is doing is sexual harrassment. It is called "hostile environment," because he is creating an environment uncomfortable to work in. You have to back yourself up in writing. The first step is to write a letter, or even an email to your supervisor listing the things this guy has done. By the way, insulting your religion is just as hostile. Save this letter. It will serve two purposes. First, it will protect you, because if your supervisor decides to take you off the schedule, you have proof that you complained about this and then got taken off the schedule. I suppose you could say you already told your supervisor, but he can just deny it because there is no proof. Ultimately, this jerk should lose his job, but at the very least your supervisor is on notice that the pervert shouldn't be put on the schedule with youngsters. If the pervert doesn't get fired and continues to behave in this way you will have to go higher up than your supervisor, who will probably lose his job for not handling the situation. Companies take this sort of thing very seriously because if you continue to be harrassed, even one single more time, you could sue them, and they don't want that. The law is that one warning is enough, and the company is vicariously responsable, which means thay have to pay out a lot of money. Your supervisor might not know the law, but that is not an excuse. If you give him notice in writing about what is going on, he will take it alot more seriously. If you are under 18 you might want to let a parent know what you are planning to do, because if it happens to go to the authorities it is best to have a grown up backing you.
My best friend is trying to set me up with her cousin, but i don't know him . she gave him my number and he texts me everyday but I'm not sure what to talk to him about. We don't even go to the same school.
It is a good sign about your personality that your best friend thinks you're so special that you should go out with her cousin, but how is she going to feel if it doesn't work out? If she is really, really close to him she may take his side if the two of you get into a fight, and then you're stuck without a best friend.
Hahaha. i just read you're additional information and I got a kick out of it. it is like some comedy that should be a movie script. How in the world are you supposed to have a conversation with him? You don't know what he thinks you know, and he already knows a bunch of stuff about you that you don't know he knows. Whew! You are going to have to either look at the texts your best friend did while she was pretending to be you, or at least ask her what you guys have supposedly already talked about. She must really want the two of you together, bad, to be flirting with her own cousin for you, eeww. As far as what to talk about, well, you have already supposedly gotten past all of the formalities, so you might as well talk about important stuff, like how you feel about different issues, and what kind of things you feel strongly about, puppy mills, the new president, whatever is on your mind.
lol,well this might be long,depends on how ima write this haha.
well i would really appreciate it if you took the time to read it cause honestly, its very important to me.
ive been likin this boy since last year, all the way to last summer to this year, and we are still in the same class and stuff.. this kid seriosuly means so much to me, and i tried alot of things to get over him but i couldnt, well the thing is that if i thought he never liked me, im sure i coulda gotton oover him, but i think he does like me.
ok so you want signs rite
he constantly looks at me
not always but i do the same thing, i try not show i like him so i dont stare like all the time but my friends catch him lookin at me alot.
WE TAlk yesss we are close friends so its not like i dont talk to him cause i do,me nd him are pretty good friends this year, when he talks to me it kinda makes it seem like he tries his hardest to keep the conversation going haha.
and also he tries to impress me alot, he shows his muscles to his friends and he knows im rite there standing, and he jus keeps showin off i remember one time he showed off his arms he wuz jus sittin alone pullled up his sleeve and flexed then automattically looked at me right away after doin that haha eeveryone thinks he likes me when wer sittin next to eachother and a group of people are arouund uss nd everyones listenin to a story hes about to say he jus looks at me and tells the story,like all his attention is on me, and he teases me alot not like bad teasin like good teasin, he takes my water bottle haha or hes like do this now !
or in computer he;d take his jacket nd put it on my screen, also he wud do stuff like play aorund with my keyboard and stuff and yueah
my sister also caught him at the end of the day lookin for me in my bus and stuff nd then my sister jus wnted to bring me up and she was like "hey did you see my sister" and he looked around nd stuff nd then he couldnt find me so i think he was tryin to cover it up and was like ... "uh wat am i uh am i like her uh watch out? " and me sister was like ?
watchout? then whyd you look? hahaha
nd then the next dayy we wer in art class nd we wer talkin nd he kept smirking and i was playin around with him nd we wer jus jokin around and stuff nd i see him drawin something, then the bell rings nd its lunch time, and when i cmame up to my class i saw the paper he was drawin on and i wanted to take a lil sneak peak hahaa
so i did...and i found his name and then my name on the bottom but they wer both scribbled hehe
everytone was like oh my GOD. adn my friends wer like screamin and stuff but i just dont wnat to count on a paper,, i mean i dont know cause it ws my name! i swear haha and it was like scribbled but u could see the r and the a a
and all that stuff . and i could see the "o" on his name.but i dont know.. what do you guys think? do guys write girls names on papers and then scribble them haha?
It really does sound like he likes you. If I were you, I wouldn't go telling everyone about the name on the paper, just yet. If he were to hear that everyone knew about it, he might back off, and you definately don't want that. The way we used to find out if boys liked us when I was a kid was playing "Truth or Dare." Don't get one of your friends to ask him, because those things always seem to work out badly. The best thing to do is sit back and enjoy. Boys are just like girls, and I think what happened is that he got to thinking once you began to try to get over him. He was so used to you liking him that he didn't really think about it much, but once you started to get over him, he began to think about things. It sounds like he is on a mission to impress you, so let him. Yes, boys do write girls names down and all that mushy stuff, they just rip it up, throw it away, and make sure nobody ever sees it.
im so f*kin p!ssed with my mate right now... a couple of months ago he got back in contact with some girl from school (blah blah they had sex and wernt even going out with eachother and they wernt even going out and he ballsed it up basically) ANYWAY! last night he got all depressed about her not loving him back and other things besides (kus he says he "loves" her) and i got one of my freinds in a joint convo between me and him she helped as much as she could have helped over msn. and he started blaming shit on me! saying stuff like "Well if fatass here would go party with me i might actualyl meet more people" i got erally annoyed with that but i didnt say anything too bad just you freekin what mate you better shut up, what i really wanted to say to him was screw you its not my fault your a pathetic lowbie who cant find freinds by himself. (i should probably add that iv told him many times i DO NOT like parties at all.. im allways stuck in the back with no one to talk to) i would rather have quiet company with close freinds and he knows that, i know he knows that because i told him. he's starting to get on my rag with his problems now because all he thinks about is himself because of it, he sits indoors all day getting bored and trying to think of things to do but never actually getting off his arse TO DO ANYTHING god it annoys me... (everything iv said about him iv allready said to him niceley before iv tried to reason and help him but he doesnt seem to give an arse or care he just bitches on endlessly) GGARRGH....
what i wanted to ask you loveley people is should i just start getting more an more annoyed with his thoughtless bitching and aggravating comments about how "LAZY" >>I
There may be some good qualities about your friend, but he's got a real problem with blame. It is because this girl doesn't love him back that he's miserable, it's because of you he's bored, does he still dwell on mistakes his parents made whan he was a kid? He is kind of pathetic, right now, but in his defense, a broken heart really, really sucks. I have had friends in long term relationships who handled a breakup better. It sounds as if he might just want to be unhappy for the time being. It must be hugely draining to try to get a smile out of someone for hours only to have them blame you for their bad luck, which is why most people run for the hills in these situations. The best thing you can do is not enable his seclusion. If he wants to hang around the house and cry, fine, but you go out and continue on with your life. Hopefully he will catch up.
What are some songs about like messin around with someone that has another boyfriend/girlfriend. & you like eachotherr but they wont leave their other boyfriend/girlfriend.
haha, kinda like the sogn "cant let you go" by fabolous and lil mo
thanksssssssssss
I would like to reiterate the last poster's Atlantic Star. Also, there's this old school slow jam called, "It's Morning," by Shirley something-or-other. Stevie Wonder "Part Time Lovers" Sheryl Crow "First Cut is The Deepest" is kind of there.
my boyfriend and i were messing around the other day. usually, i just give him a hand job and he just rubs my clit.
well, the other day, he kinda rubbed his penis around my area. but then, i don't think he went in the vagina per se. just in the clit area. he didn't cum inside me either.
basically, he rubbed his penis inside me a bit, then he cummed outside then after a while he rubbed inside me again.
what are the chances that i'm pregnant?
btw, i haven't had my period even though i'm more than 18 years old. i talked to several doctors and they all said my ovaries and stuff were working fine. they tried to induce menstruation a couple of times and it did work but i never have a cycle unless induced.
There are spermatazoa in pre-ejaculate, not many, but it only takes one determined swimmer. Technically, you can get pregnant if sperm gets anywhere on your vagina where it could possibly make it's way. I actually met a woman about 20 years ago who claims to have gotten pregnant without having sex, and she was mature enough where she had no reason to lie. I don't know if the doctor will think the pill is a good idea, considering your circumstance, but if he doesn't have any objections you should think about the birth control pill. The nice thing about being on the pill is you never have to worry as long as you are taking it regularly. I have never met a person who got pregnant on the pill, though they say there is a 1% chance. To answer your question directly, the chances of you being pregnant are slim, to none, and I wouldn't spend a lot of time worrying yourself into a frenzy.
I'm doing a project for college on romantic relationships and their characteristics. As part of it, I'd like to ask the following question: Do you and your significent other have a song? If so, what is it and why is it important to you both?
Thank you so much, this will be really helpful.
I'm in my 30's, he's in his 40's, and we have been togethre for nearly ten years. We do not have one specific song, but there are a few that we always smile when we hear because of the memories. The one that comes to mind right now is Puddle of Mud-"Can You Take it All Away". I can only speak for myself, but it reminds me of the beginning of our relationship when we where both on the rebound from others, yet falling in love with eachother against our better judgement.
This questions for the girls and guys, mainly guys though.
Well, i was having sex with this guy and its not the first time ive been with him, but we didnt have a condom. He said he didnt mind and he would just go in me, and i am not on any birth control or anything and he knows that. He said it was up to me, and he said he really wants to. Other times when we've had sex, he would always hint it, or say something like, "I just want to go in you so bad" or something along those lines.
What does this mean exactly? Is there something he is trying to tell me? Were any of you in this situation before? Or guys, did you do something like this? Why did you?
Thanks everyone :]
He wants to do this because it feels better. Imagine how it would feel for you if you were getting ready to have an orgasm and all of a sudden you had to stop. It would seem like a real let down. That is how it feels for him if he knows he has to pull out. Another thing, when a guy is in the middle of sex, he isn't thinking clearly about pregnancy, he's only thinking about that very moment. Consider when he says this to you. If it is only during sex I wouldn't look for any deeper meaning, but if he says it when the two of you are talking about sex it could be that he is hoping to get you pregnant.
I just wanted to know whether you think I have mis carried or not.
Me and my partner have been trying to concieve for a while, then 2 days before my period was actually due, I came on with only light bleeding, and it was very light in colour, and quite painful, and only last 3 days?
I have read a few different articles on the internet and it seems that what I suffered was a miscarriage.
Whats your opinion? Heres some facts:
1. My period is always on time, never late or early,
2 . Always lasts at least 6 days
3 . Normally very heavy
4 . Normally pain free.
Please help me figure out whether a miscarriage was the case, it does say on a few websites, that many women mistake it to just be a period, but with the symptoms so similar, I beg to differ that its a period. Thank you in advance.
There is no concrete evidence, but doctors estimate 1 in 10 pregnancies end in miscarriage before the woman even knows she's pregnant. You are lucky because your cycle is so regular, so you should be able to predict the general time when you will ovulate. Also, it is possible to have breaktrough bleeding when you are pregnant, and the fact that your period lasted half as long makes me wonder if maybe you didn't miscarry. Why don't you take a test, or at least avoid alcohol or other things harmful to a baby until you are sure.
well I like this boy alot for like 4 years and my friends tell me i need to talk to him and make a move. But i dont know what to say to him. How can i start talking to him, or what should i say? Because im so nervouse talking to him and we dont really talk that much so how can i start a conversation. And plus he knows i like him.
If you have liked this guy for 4 years you probably know more about him than just about anyone. Before you begin talking to him you should think about what your expectations are. The best way to approach it is to think that he's a good kid who you want to be friends with. If you have that kind of a mentality he won't feel any pressure and neither will you. Watch how he interacts with his friends. Are they always joking around, loud, or serious and quiet. I wouldn't change your personality, or anything, but if you notice that he's a pretty quiet kid, don't go up all loud and rambunctious. Don't put too much emphasis on things. You have liked him for so long, you can't expect miracles in one conversation. You shoulld try to plan the basics of what you are going to say so you don't get too tongue tied. Any person likes to be asked for advice, so if he's happens to be into a sport, tell him that your brother/father loves it, and you want to get the rules so you can get into it with your dad. If he is smart in one subject, tell him you are having trouble understanding it, and maybe he could help you out. It is kind of a disadvantage that he knows you like him because that will be in the back of his mind, but you can turn that into an advantage. Think about yourself. If there was a guy who you knew had a crush on you, but then he approached you as if he was only interested in a friendship, you would be like, "hey, wait a minute, I thought he liked me, but maybe he doesn't anymore." Then you would actually start to wonder about the guy, what he's thinking, etc. One of the hardest things in the world is to put yourself out there, especially when you have strong feelings involved, but you have nothing to lose so relax.
Okay so me and my boyfriend have been together for over two years,we want to have unprotected sex this weekend. Don't tell me its not safe because I already no all about that. but if we do decide to, what are some major precautions to take. Like I said even if we don't id like the advice for future reference
thank you.
Two years would be considered a long-term relationship, and while all of the grownups will tell you to have protected sex, they are busy avoiding it if they can. I give you credit for using protection all of this time, and seriously considering the options beforehand. Number one, you should go on the pill, but that won't have taken effect by this weekend. The Plan B/morning after pill will keep you from getting pregnant, which seems like the major concern. Don't bother with the pull out method-after all, what's the point of unprotected sex if he's going to have to pull out, not to mention it doesn't work. A pharmacist should be able to give you better information about Plan B or morning after. Also, there are sponges with spermacide on them, foams, and other products in the condom aisle, but I can't recommend them because I have never used them. They all seem pretty messy, though. The pharmacist should be able to offer the best option.
do you personally think its slutty for a girl (age 17 if it matters) to have sex with a guy she is not in a relationship with? ...can you go too far on the first hookup?
I don't think you have to be in a relationship with every person you have sex with, but you should take care in who you do choose to have sex with. Only have sex when you are sure you want it, not because he is bugging you about it, or not because you are hoping for something more. Believe me, having sex with a guy too soon is worse than not having sex with him at all. Sex, for women, is invasive. By that I mean that a part of another person is actually entering your body. For men, it's all on the outside, therefore not really as intimate. Every time you have sex with someone for any other reason than you genuinely want to be close to that person, as well as share yourself with him, you are adding a little checkmark in your "Reasons I Don't Like Myself" column. You hold on to those experiences and use them against yourself. to make matters worse, other people judge you by your sexual activity. Let's pretend that tomorrow you meet the guy of your dreams. If you have had a bunch of random hookups, your having sex with him isn't going to mean all that much, and he's gonna know it. He will be embarrassed to have feelings for you because everyone will be talking about you like your nothing. And you can't even think about making him wait because he'll think "what the heck, she didn't make anyone else wait." This is not to say that your life is mud just because you mistakenly had random sex, but you don't want to make a habit out of it. Most girls who have sex with a lot of guys are doing so because they are looking for acceptance and affection, and the sad part is it brings the opposite.
But, if there is a person who you respect and he respects you, you know eachother, like eachother, but just don't want to be in a relationship it isn't out of line to have sex with him, as long as you don't make it a habit.
does anybody know of any good websites for relatives of veterans or cancer survivor scholarships??
fastweb.com is good because it asks you all kinds of questions about yourself and then gives yo a list of scholorships that you qualify for.
What can seriously happen if you get caught using a fake ID (with all your real information...not like identity theft)?? (I'm 18/f)
Thanks!
It depends on who you try to use it with. Most of the time nightclubs, bars, and liquer stores will just confiscate, but if you try to pass it on an authority figure it can be big trouble. Technically, it is a criminal offense to use a fake ID, a misdemeanor in most cases, which usually means a fine, an uncomfortable day in court, and a mark on your record.
17/f
So many people say I look 12 to 14 years old. I'd really like to look more my age but I don't want to over do it.
(I'm sorry, I have no photos.)
I have chin-length brown hair and bangs. My eyes are dark brown. And my measurements are 36-27-34. Bra size is 36D.
I'm not quite sure what kind of shirts I should be looking for. I haven't bought anything in a while. I mostly have tank tops that I don't wear outside. They show a bit too much. I often wear t-shirts (fitting or large) when I go out. If you can suggest anything, links please.
Also, I don't really know all that much about make up. If I wear any at all, it's a little bit of eyeliner.
I've tried so many brands, but it always smudges. How can I prevent that?
And do I go for natural colors for eyeshadow? What about blush?
Natural colors for eyeshadow are best. A little light eyeshadow right under the brow can be all you need most of the time. Whatever you do, keep it light because heavy makeup will often make you look younger. Blush is good, but stay away from anything glittery. Sometimes blush can make you appear younger, too. One of the best ways to look older is to concentrate on your posture. Think sophisticated, and make sure you stand with your shoulders back without sticking your chest out. Mascara is always good, but don't fall into the trap of letting it get clumpy. Even if you only just sweep it on once, it is better than overdoing. Smudgy eyeliner can make you look younger, too. Stay away from any of the wet and wild brand and go for one of the ones that advertises that it is long wearing. Another thing that makes people appear young is fruity cotton candy type perfumes. Go for something mature. If you don't wear perfume at all, you should give it a try. It gives people the subconcious image of class and sophistication.
Hey, I'm a 17 year old male who just today, asked a girl who I really like. Oddly enough she said 'yes' but there is one little snag. She is my best friend's sister. I know that if I talk to him that this would probably okay and i know that if he's not okay with this I wouldn't go through with this but how do i approach him about this, should she be there or no? I just need help deciding how to go about this, I don't want to hide this from him at all so soon would be better than later, thank you so much for your advice in advance.
The best way to approach it is by pretending that you are asking his permission beforehand. tell him that you really like his sister a lot and you want to have his blessing to ask her out, you value his friendship and all that stuff. Let him know that you and his sister might not be together forever, but you promise that you will not do anything to hurt her. remind him that it would be better if you were with her because then he can know for sure that his sister is going to be treated right, as opposed to dating some loser that doesn't give a crap. if he says yes, great. If he says no, well then you're going to have to make a decision. tell him that you're not sure what you're going to do, but you hope that your frienship will be OK regardless. I don't think his sister/your girlfriend should be there because he may feel cornered or act differently, besides, if she is there he will know that the two of you have been going behind his back. In the best possible circumstance he should think that you did not ask her out until you talked to him about it, first.
I just found out that my friend is bulimic. She threw up blood a week ago and got scared, and called one of my friends. she is not in avery good state of mind right now, at least i don't think so. because she had butt sex with some random guy, gave him her first blow job, got eaten out for the first time, and she told someone who told 2 of his friends, who told other people, so now alot of people know. I tried to stick up for her, and she would always go to the bathroom, and when I tried to go with her, the teacher wouldn't let me, and then she'd come back, saying she cried, but I have to wonder if she made herself throw up or not ... another wierd thing is that when she was dating my friend, he was about to finger her when he touched her stomach and she immediatley moved his hands to her boobs instead [from what he told me] and then she told him that she was bulimic and then he was the one who told the entire school she had butt sex. so now shes really mad and upset over that. and he said something about "pregnant" so she either was pregnant from the butt sex, only thought she was, got an abortion, or wanted to be. but i can't just ask her. i didnt even know she was bulimic, she didn't even tell me, not even about whatever the pregnant thing is. what do i do? she's the skinniest and prettiest girl ever, and she like hates herself. ou would never suspect it by just looking at her, but what do i do? what can i do? im so scared for her ... please help.
First, you can't get pregnant from anal sex, although if some of the ejaculate went near her vagina she could get pregnant from that. Second, there is more than one problem going on here. The bulemia and the sexual behavior are probably symptoms of a really, really low self-esteem. You can't even really be sure she has bulemia because she might have just been saying that to the guy for sympathy or attention. You should ask her about the bulimia, just to know for sure. If she does have bulimia she is going to need some professional help because it is a real illness that will need medical attention. You can't just tell her she's skinny and make everything all better because if she's bulimic, she is seeing her body in a different way than everyone else. Right now, for whatever reason, your friend is on a really destructive path. She is trying to hurt herself, I bet it all is really a cry for help, and she may be initially mad at you if you decide to tell an adult, but you really would be doing her a favor. The longer this stuff goes on, the worse she is going to feel about herself, and the harder it is going to be for her to stop. She is probably very ashamed about having anal sex, but it just goes to show you the lengths she is willing to go to in order to get the feeling of affection, or what feels like closeness at the time. Usually when a girl is in a situation like this it is because something terrible happened to her when she was younger, like molestation or something just as bad. I wish I could tell you that if you talked to her everything would be OK, but the truth is, you are in way over your head. If I were you I would get an adult involved. Is there a guidance counselor at school that you trust? Maybe you could go to them and tell them what's going on and they could talk to her without letting her know it was you who told. I have a feeling that once an adult gets involved your friend is going to open up and be really happy that she isn't so alone. If you don't feel comfortable about "ratting" maybe you could just take the time to learn about bulimia so that you can help her in the best way you can. I can tell that you are a really caring friend, but at the same time, if she continues to make bad decisions, like having sex with random guys, you might have to distance yourself from her. Good luck, and your friend will be in my prayers.
okay so since september ive had little red bumps on my forehead and their red.My first thought was acne but i never had acne really before only like a few blemishes here and there,but these are small and very tiny they itch sometimes too. I tohught maybe i was allergic to something so i stoped using this cover up on my face and it helped a bit but their still there.I work at a place where there's balloons so i thought maybe the powder in the balloons but i didn't work for about 2 weeks once and well they were still there.I always had very clear skin so im wondering what the problem is. I tried my brothers acne cream differin i think it's called for about a month and yup,no change! ugh im getting so impatient anymore, i dont know what's on my forehead! lol does anyone have any idea what it is? and the treatment to get rid of it might be?
thank you!
Two things. 1. the bumps on your forehead could have something to do with your hair product. Feel around on your scalp to see if there are bumps there. 2. It could be because of the weather. Cold weather brings about chapped, dry skin.
It could be stress related, too. Did you go through a change or a stressfull time in September?
As far as getting rid of it, you should stay away from acne treatments because it sounds more like zits than acne. If it is from dry or chapped skin the acne treatment will only make it worse.
I don't know if you are on the birth control pill, but a lot of times it can really even out your skin. you might want to try tanning, or even the spray on kind to see if it masks the breakout.