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Question Posted Friday January 9 2009, 7:32 am

lol,well this might be long,depends on how ima write this haha.
well i would really appreciate it if you took the time to read it cause honestly, its very important to me.
ive been likin this boy since last year, all the way to last summer to this year, and we are still in the same class and stuff.. this kid seriosuly means so much to me, and i tried alot of things to get over him but i couldnt, well the thing is that if i thought he never liked me, im sure i coulda gotton oover him, but i think he does like me.
ok so you want signs rite
he constantly looks at me
not always but i do the same thing, i try not show i like him so i dont stare like all the time but my friends catch him lookin at me alot.
WE TAlk yesss we are close friends so its not like i dont talk to him cause i do,me nd him are pretty good friends this year, when he talks to me it kinda makes it seem like he tries his hardest to keep the conversation going haha.
and also he tries to impress me alot, he shows his muscles to his friends and he knows im rite there standing, and he jus keeps showin off i remember one time he showed off his arms he wuz jus sittin alone pullled up his sleeve and flexed then automattically looked at me right away after doin that haha eeveryone thinks he likes me when wer sittin next to eachother and a group of people are arouund uss nd everyones listenin to a story hes about to say he jus looks at me and tells the story,like all his attention is on me, and he teases me alot not like bad teasin like good teasin, he takes my water bottle haha or hes like do this now !
or in computer he;d take his jacket nd put it on my screen, also he wud do stuff like play aorund with my keyboard and stuff and yueah
my sister also caught him at the end of the day lookin for me in my bus and stuff nd then my sister jus wnted to bring me up and she was like "hey did you see my sister" and he looked around nd stuff nd then he couldnt find me so i think he was tryin to cover it up and was like ... "uh wat am i uh am i like her uh watch out? " and me sister was like ?
watchout? then whyd you look? hahaha
nd then the next dayy we wer in art class nd we wer talkin nd he kept smirking and i was playin around with him nd we wer jus jokin around and stuff nd i see him drawin something, then the bell rings nd its lunch time, and when i cmame up to my class i saw the paper he was drawin on and i wanted to take a lil sneak peak hahaa
so i did...and i found his name and then my name on the bottom but they wer both scribbled hehe
everytone was like oh my GOD. adn my friends wer like screamin and stuff but i just dont wnat to count on a paper,, i mean i dont know cause it ws my name! i swear haha and it was like scribbled but u could see the r and the a a
and all that stuff . and i could see the "o" on his name.but i dont know.. what do you guys think? do guys write girls names on papers and then scribble them haha?


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tropicalbabe33 answered Friday January 9 2009, 7:32 pm:
I have to say, I would be very surprised if he doesn't like you. Everything he does suggests that he likes you.

So what are you waiting for? I would suggest trying to spend a bit more time alone, just you and him. For example, if you need to walk somewhere (anything, like when you're with your friends and you just wanna go get a drink etc.) ask him to walk with you. Make excuses for why you need to see just him (for example, you want him to help you with something he's good and you're clueless about, to work together on work for a class you're both in, or because you both share a love of the same tv show and you could watch it together at yours etc.)

After doing this for a while, TELL HIM YOU LIKE HIM. It is the obvious thing to do, you've liked him for ages and it seems that he likes you too, so there's no point wasting time. If you don't want to do it in person, talk to him on msn/aim, after talking to him for a while, say you need to tell him something, and then tell him how you feel. But don't say how long you've liked him, just in case it'd freak him out, you need to appear kind of casual about it. Hopefully he will then tell you he likes you too.

Don't expect that you will become boyfriend/girlfriend straight away, but increase the amount of time you spend alone together, and when the time is right, kiss him. And it won't be long before you are together.

I would be VERY shocked if it turns out he doesn't like you, but if this is the case, then you will have to tell yourself to move on. I know this is extremely hard to do, but it's better than pining over someone you can't have,

Feel free to ask any questions concerning the subject, x

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kristamikele answered Friday January 9 2009, 5:10 pm:
It really does sound like he likes you. If I were you, I wouldn't go telling everyone about the name on the paper, just yet. If he were to hear that everyone knew about it, he might back off, and you definately don't want that. The way we used to find out if boys liked us when I was a kid was playing "Truth or Dare." Don't get one of your friends to ask him, because those things always seem to work out badly. The best thing to do is sit back and enjoy. Boys are just like girls, and I think what happened is that he got to thinking once you began to try to get over him. He was so used to you liking him that he didn't really think about it much, but once you started to get over him, he began to think about things. It sounds like he is on a mission to impress you, so let him. Yes, boys do write girls names down and all that mushy stuff, they just rip it up, throw it away, and make sure nobody ever sees it.

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