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im karlyn.
i love volleyball.
and soccer.
and my boyfreind.
people tell me im good at giving advice.
so i joined this page.

ask any questons you have. cuz i will answer.
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E-mail: karlyndarlin05@hotmail.com
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Location: MIchigan
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Age: 23
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Member Since: July 22, 2004
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when you ask a question but send it into a columists inbox can they see who asked the question?? (link)
when ever you ask a question on this site, it is completly confidential, unless of course u put ur name in ur question, lol
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do you think that it is weird that a 24 year old guy is dating a 16 yr old girl? i do but i need other opinions, the girl is my best friend and i dont like it. I need help on how i can be more open about the situation. please help!!! (link)
well i think that 16 and 24 is quite an age difference, and the girl is consider a minor, and the guy would be an adult so if they do any thing, then the guy could get in trouble. But, if they arent doing anything, then it really isnt a big deal. But also, think about this, as the girl's best friend, you should want her to be happy. Though you can be concerned, but dont try and control her life


Im going to a new school this year, and its my freshman year. The school that i'm goin to has a freshman building so it wont be as hard by bein picked on by older kids, but im still scared. i went to a private school for quite a while and now im not sure what to expect! And me and my best friend were both going to leave our private school and go the same public shcool , but at the last minute --7 or 8 days. her mom changed her mind and now shes not goin there any more with me so im really scared! Can you give me any advice to help out or anything? ive never really had problems fitting in but im not sure if i will. Thanx a bunch!! (link)
hey dotn worry about it, i have gone to a public school my whole life and every once in a while new kids from private schools come, they fit in perfectly fine. Just be your self and you will have nothing to worry about. Oh and dont worry about making new freinds....when you first come to a school, thats easy!
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is there good way i can lose some weight.. im not fat at all but i got some pudge in the middl of my stoamach... please help me (link)
ok well if ur not fat then dont worry about it, but you can run, eat less JUNK FOOD, dont go anorexic, bcuz sometimes it can actually end up making you fatter. But u can run at least 3 times a week, do at least 50 crunches a day. and on top of it all just dont sit around all day, get out and do something
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hey,
i am going to redo my room what should i do.
pick colors. (link)
i just painted my room yellow and orange,it looks great. Keep in mind that if you want blue or any other dark color you should tone it down a bit bcuz my sister just got her room painted dark blue and it looks terrible
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Ok this question is for all the sexy ladies out there. Why is it that when a guy looks at a girl and makes a sound or says something about it, we get yelled at or lectured? I mean you can't tell me that you girls don't look at guys and mention something to your friends everynow amd then. I'm single and I still get yelled at for looking. So please answer. (link)
well if ur single, then i dont know why you would be gettin yelled at...who knows, that lil comment could be the start of a great realtionship... and everyone wants a great relationship. But if u have a gf, as a girl i would be really mad. I mean you have a girl that you can look at, so you should be satisfied. once again if ur single i dont thinks its a bad thing, unless ur not showing respect...that should get you yelled at.
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Does black really match with anything? (link)
black matches with just about everything except any other shade of black


I'm 15, and I'm a 32D/DD. I wear a pant size 3 tho. I'm not FAT. I need to know if anyone knows any good stores for swim suits! I have a problem where I can never find a good suit because either the top is too small or the bottoms are too big. I like it when they sell them seperately. A lot of stores dont sell Xlarge tops too. I NEED HELP (link)
a lot of the stores like Kohls and JcPenny's sell most of their bathing suits as sererate pieces.


What is Down Syndrom and what does it make you act like because i think my friend has it!? (link)
unless ur friend has had this since birth, then she doesnt have it. down syndrome is a type of disease that causes you to be mentally retarded. if ur friend just acts really stupid sometimes, then she prolly doesnt have it.


what is the best way to lose about 10 pounds fairly quickly? i am 14 years old so i dont have acsess to many things (link)
go running....it will help


Is it good or bad to be sensitive? (link)
well if ur a guy then u dont want to seem like a sissy bein sensitive all the time, but u would want to be somewhat sensitive. btu if ur a girl, all girls are sensitive at some point in our life, so um yes it is good to be sensitive, but it can get annoying sometimes
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do girls like a guy to be to sensitive or not sensitive at all (link)
personally i like a guy that can be sensitive when it is right, but not all the time. but most importantly i like a guy who just be's himself. i dont like a guy who is always tryin to be sumthin he's not


ok im a guy and im 15 and i have sum question i have been in a 14 mounth realtionship wit my gurlfriend and for the past 4 mounths we have been breakin up and just fightin becuz the 1st time we broke up she thought i cheated on her but i didnt and the snd time i thought i wasnt gettin any attention cuz she was over her friends house allll the time for like weeks at a time and so we broke up again its been about 6 weeks since we broke up and now she wants me back but we have been findin out alot about eachother lately like she messed around wit a few boys and i messed around wit two gurls but she cheated on me like the last week or so we were together and got fingured by 2 other guys and me i....had sex wit this other gurl that was her "friend" she says but the gurl didnt consider her as a friend and i have a convo were her "friend" says shes not her friend and i made out wit another gurl the day after i was wit my x-gurl (sex). but i really really feel like im in love wit this gurl and she says shes in love wit me but i cant get over the fact that she cheated on me and i dont want to seem like a punk if i do get back wit her u no wat i mean (lol cuz of my friends)and wen we r togther it feels so right and i was her 1st and she was kinda mine cuz i have to tell the truth i believe that u should wait till u find who u want before u have that great 4 sec ya no so i had sex but "I" never finished till me and her made love and so i consider her my 1st but i never told her that. (should I?)but i love this gurl i really do and she said she loves me and i dont see y its not workin out PLZ HELP me!!!!! (link)
well it sounds like u both have cheated on the other one at sum point in ur realtionship. so if u both really love eachother, then i guess u could agree to just start over and forget all about ur past together. but if you dont think you could forgive her then i guess i would try and get over her.
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Hey! does anybody have any good activites to do with kids..ages..4 and 6??? im babysitting n lil n i want to do something fun!!!XOXO (link)
kids love it when u play games with them. i would suggest hide and go seek...but not outside, who knows where the lil kids would go at that age. wheni babysit we play board games alot...its not the funnest thing, but it keeps you busy! also kids arent to good at keeping secrets so if they luv it when u babysit they will prolly tell their parents...which is a bonus for you!


I'm going to get braces within a few weeks and I'm kinda starting to worry about playing flute with them. Do any of you have braces and play flute? If so, is there anyway you can position the flute so it's not right on your chin when you play? Also, will having braces dramatically change my performance? (link)
i have braces n' play clarinet...but i have a lot of friends w/ braces who play flute... they said it just basically is one lil thing to get used to, but u can still play...no problem
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k, me and my bf have been going out for 6 months, and we've had sex like...a lot. like every time we see each other at night, we get turned on. we've done it everywhere. now he's telling me that he's got another girl, and he accidently called me her name last night. i got mad, and he got mad too, and said that he didn't want me anymore and he was just using me for sex, and she was his real gf, and she fucked better than me anyhow. so what do i do now, i love his sex, and i love him. (link)
well if he was just usin you then i would completly forget about him bcuz if he had a girlfriend and was just ahvin sex w/ you then he prolly didnt really luv you so i would forget aboout him completly, even if u really loved him


im moving from houston tx to boston MA and i really like this girl. i dont know wat to do, and i know we cant get to together but i really like her. help?!?! (link)
well if you are already goin out w/ her then i would break up, just bcuz it would be hard to keep a long distance reltionship. i would get her phone number, email address, home address, screeen name or what ever else so taht you can keep in touch with her.
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See i liek this girl but she lieks another guy and i always try to tell her but she never liek answers wat do I do?
signed,
confused (link)
that happens a lot. well this might sound stupid and you might think its the worst advice but, if you really love her then let her be happy. let her love the guy she really loves. if she was with you who knows she might be happy but she mgiht not, keep that in mind!
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my boyfriend hasnt called me n like over 1 month n he has done it b4 n i dont kno 2 do
should i break up with him or stay!!
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well if he's done it before you've obviously stuck with him. so dont jump to conlcusions...maybe he cant talk.mayb eyou should try calling him. or first think about how much u enjoy a relationship with him. if u really luv it then i would say call him and find out whats goin on. if u dont really luv it then dont bother....if he calls you then i guess go from there

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does anyone kno any sites where u can make ur own profile like www.xprofilen.net somethin like that cause im lookin but i cant find any..... (link)
i have tried many and i think that www.buddyprofile.com is the best




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