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Q: i have a pimple in my ear and it really hurts. i know gross. i really want it to go away and i cant pop it or anything. has anyone ever had this problem and how can you make it go away?
Ugh i hate those kind of pimples! I usually use those uhm have you ever heard of blotting papers? they remove excess oil in your face? well i use them on the pimples in my ear to get rid of the oil around my pimple and the pimple usually goes away in about 4 days.I also use a q-tip and put rubbing alcohol on it that works as well.I found a website that might have some other good suggestions to help you out :]

http://www.dmt123.com/other-health/1090-2-dmt123-1.html

http://www.dmt123.com/general-health-care/4108-dmt123-4.html

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20061129125237AAHyjsd

♥ danielle

Q: I wasn't sure where to put this.

For those of you who have seen "Grease" would it be possible if you can find me a picture of the red dress with black polka dots that Rizzo wears at the dance??
Please && Thank You!!!!!!!!!!!!
I tired my best to find a real good picture of it and this is the best one i could find i hope this helps:

http://72.14.209.104/search?q=cache:0IEqe47Lw_UJ:www.sassybella.com/channelling/grease-rizzo.php+rizzo+red+dress&hl=en&gl=us&ct=clnk&cd=1


♥ danielle

Q: I have been in a serious relationship with my boyfriend for 4 monthes now. I think I am ready to have sex with him, the problem is, I am very self-concious of my body. I hate being naked, and I never am with him. I won't even take off my top. Even though I think i am considered "thin" (I am critical of myself, especially the flab on my stomach) and I am 5'9, I am just so self-concious and I don't think I will ever be comfortable being naked around him. Is there a way to get more comfortable with myself, naked?
first of all only have sex if your completely 100% sure you want to do it.And if hes pressured you in anyway to have sex dont do it.Not to sound mean or anything but,i think if your that self-concious about your body then maybe your not ready to have sex.You have too be 100% comfortable with yourself first before your ready to show him your body.But you really shouldnt worry about your imperfections they are what make you..YOU.I hate some stuff about my body too.My boyfriend at the time loved pinching my cheeks but i hated when he did that because i thought they were just the fattest things and i told him that a bunch of times but he told me that he loved my cheeks and that they were not fat and that i have cute cheeks.So see sometimes the things you think are "imperfect" end up being the things guys or other people love.If the guy truly cares about you then he wont point out the negatives about your body.Look at yourself in the mirror and point out the things that you really dont like about yourself and find something good in it for example say if you had a little lower belly flab on your stomach that you hate,look at it and say well maybe its not that bad its actually kind of a cute stomach lol I hope i could help.If you need anymore advice just leave one in my inbox :D

♥ danielle

Q: I'm looking for a my Sweet 16 Dress...can anyone tell me where i can find a cute one??? I would like a dress that's pink...or at least have pink in it...and above the kneee---the straps could eaither be spagetti strap, strapless, or halter...


Thanks sooo much!!
I love DEB dresses their soo cute! & they have alot of pink dresses there :] I also personally like macys and boscovs they have some gorgeous dresses,if you want anymore places let me one in my inbox ;]

happy sweet 16!
♥ danielle

Q: I might sound really stupid but
What is masterbation?
Masturbation is the manual excitation of the sexual organs, most often to the point of orgasm. It can refer to excitation either by oneself or by another (see mutual masturbation), but commonly refers to such activities performed alone. It is part of a larger set of activities known as autoeroticism, which also includes the use of sex toys and non-genital stimulation. There are also masturbation machines used to simulate intercourse. ...got that from goggle ;]

or in a more less complicated way it means:
Self-stimulation of the genitals to achieve sexual arousal and pleasure, usually to the point of orgasm (sexual climax).

♥ danielle

Q: There is a new song out & its a guy and a girl. I don't know alot of the lines but it basicly is like : "i gonna remeber you, if your gonna remeber me" something like that. Sorry I know not alot, would you happen to know what song I'm talking about ? If you do, what's the name & who sings it ? Thanks & btw, you give amazing advice
Aw thank you darlin ;]

I think im correct on this one..i think the song your thinking of is called "walk away" by paula deanda its an amazing song :]

i gave you the lyrics at the bottom just in case you want to make sure its right or not.If not,just leave me another in my inbox ;]

http://www.completealbumlyrics.com/lyric/130869/Paula+Deanda+-+Walk+Away.html

♥ danielle

Q: I'm not very familiar with sex or anything to do with it, and i just had sex for the first time. I was just wondering..is it normal if ur nipples dont get hard? because i heard that they r supposed to..and that they even turn brownish. but that didnt happen with me. so now im all nervous that i might be abnormal. thanx!
lol aw your fine hun,everyone gets turned on different ways during a sexual experience.Your NOT abnormal trust me ;]

♥ danielle

Q: what's roleplay?
Sexual roleplaying is the sexual behavior of playing some kind of character during a sexual encounter, in order to evoke a sexual fantasy in oneself and/or one's partner.

or if you mean "online wise"

Cybersex or computer sex is a virtual sex encounter in which two or more persons connected remotely via a computer network send one another sexually explicit messages describing a sexual experience. It is a form of role-playing in which the participants pretend they are having actual sexual intercourse, by describing their actions and responding to their chat partners in a mostly written form designed to stimulate their own sexual feelings and fantasies. ...


♥ danielle

Q: how do you get rid of love handless mine are driving me crazyyyy these days
Try looking at these websites:

http://www.military.com/NewContent/0,13190,Smith_051904,00.html

http://www.prevention.com/article/0,5778,s1-2-87-1-3534-1,00.html

http://diet.ivillage.com/tone/thips/0,,qdz,00.html

http://www.webmd.com/content/article/49/40169.htm

http://www.weightlossforall.com/exercise-love-handles.htm


If you need anymore just leave one in my inbox.

♥ danielle

Q: 15/f
Okay, so our party is on the sixteenth and i'm planning on wearing a long black v-neck top, a wide bronze belt, a dark-washed skirt and metallic peep-toe sandals or metallic flats....
Do you think this is fine?

By the way i'm 5'2 and slender.....
Well i think maybe a gold belt or gold highs would look better,but what you picked out would look just fine.Since your 5"2 do you have maybe metallic highs? if not the flats still work.I wouldnt wear any jewlary though with the outfit i think it would be just a little too much.

♥ danielle

Q: does anyone know of any good excercises to get rid of them?
Try looking at these websites:

http://www.military.com/NewContent/0,13190,Smith_051904,00.html

http://www.prevention.com/article/0,5778,s1-2-87-1-3534-1,00.html

http://diet.ivillage.com/tone/thips/0,,qdz,00.html

http://www.webmd.com/content/article/49/40169.htm

http://www.weightlossforall.com/exercise-love-handles.htm


If you need anymore just leave one in my inbox.

♥ danielle

Q: i want a flat tummy more than anything in the world. what are some good excercises?
Go to these websites:

http://www.weightlossforall.com/best_exercise_lose_weight.htm

http://dmt123.com/body-and-soul/361-dmt123.html

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20061112191539AABDOTW


Also,do cradio and pilate workouts you loose a lot of weight if you do it for about 30 minutes a day or 3 times a week but you have to watch what your eating of course along with working out.Also doing pilates improves your balance and posture.If you have "on demand" go to the fitness section and try some workouts there ;]

♥ danielle




Q: can someone tell me what the top 10 ranking college football teams are? i thought notre dame was 5 but this boy told me they were 13 so i dont know anymore.
http://chicagosports.sportsdirectinc.com/football/ncaaf-standings.aspx?page=/data/ncaaf/standings/2006-2007/league/standings.html

http://espn.go.com/ncf/standings/big10/index.html


your answers on those websites :]


♥ danielle

Q: My period hasnt been on for two months. I have not had sex with a boy, never. what could be my problem. Please help
well if youve had your period for 3 years or less,its normal for it to be irregular...for example one time when i first started having my period i didnt get it for 54 days until my next period so your totally normal your bodys just gotta get used to it.But if youve had your period for more then 3 years i would ask your mother,grandma,guardian or any other trusted adult and see if its serious enough that you need to go to the doctors or not.


♥ danielle

Q: What are the best products to scrunch your hair with? I have sorta wavy hair and its thick. thankss :]
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20061117211512AAOmxuT

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20061122055455AANPKxQ

http://www.hairboutique.com/tips/tip18011.htm

http://www.wikihow.com/Scrunch-Hair

those websites should help you :] i have thick hair also,but my hair is curly i use this mousse thats specially for my hair type...it takes away the frizz and gives me a good bounce it works very well actually...and i use this frizzz control hairspray along with made for curly hair gel lol.

♥ danielle

Q: There is this System of a Down song that goes like this,

"When we when we die' it goes on like that for awhile but its got a cool beat just need the name of it.
I LOVE SYSTEM OF A DOWN! great band :] im thinking your talking about question! but it could also very well be chop-suey look at the lyrics to the songs on google (type in the name of the songs then put lyrics at the end) and see which ones lyrics look most similar to the lyrics to the song you were thinking of.

♥ danielle

Q: in what grade do you have the class sex ed?
its different in different states and schools,but for me, sex ed was in 7th grade and i will get it again in 11th grade :]

♥ danielle

Q: okay, so when you shave your pubic hair do you shave against the hair or with the hair?
against ;]

♥ danielle

Q: hello.. i wasant sure of what category to put this under...anyways i have a problem with my breasts...the nipples are inverted and im scared that when i am with a guy they think its weird....is their any way to pop them out..i hear this is pretty common but im not sure...:/
thanks
Hun,i have inverted nipples and guys dont care about it..honestly,they are just happy to see boobs lol all boobs are different,and having inverted nipples arent that uncommon its very common.Theres really no way to pop them out only i guess when its cold outside or at like random times.But be happy with your boobs and be confident with them its no big to have inverted nipples trust me :]

♥ danielle

Q: I'm 14/f and I know that I should probably forget about it until later or something but this has been lingering on my mind for a while and it's bothering me.

Well, first I believed in staying a virgin till marriage thing and I still do but it's that when I think about that, that would mean having had sex with only one partner and that bothers me, you know? I wanna experiment with other people than just one person. I don't know. Right now all I can think about when I see a guy that I like is: hmmm, I wanna have sex with him. And I haven't even had my first kiss yet. >.<

Haha, anywhos is this weird of me and what do you think on my thoughts on whether to stya a virgin or not.

And please don't tell me the "folloy my heart" or "you'll know when you're ready" thing. i just wan't a really honest opinion b/c right now, I really wanna just have sex with all my crushes
your a teenager,ALL teenagers go through the stage your at where your hormones are raging and you pretty much want on every guy that walks by you.I used to think waiting for marriage was the best thing to do too,but my opinions changed and i think thats a little drastic to me maybe its because i couldnt wait for marriage to have sex lol but anyways,i think if both persons are in love and care about one another very deeply and your not married then i say sure go for it..just as long as you know the concequences (sp) of having sex too like pregnacy and stds.I dont think you should lose your virginity anytime soon your very young to be having sex.I would say your ready when your old enough to actually take care of a child.So i think between 17 and up is when you can start thinking about having sex.You have to be physically and mentally ready to have sex.I hate seeing girls my age pregnant and only have sex because its "fun" and they just do it because there way too horny.But basicallyt youll know when you want to have sex and who with,just dont do it with someone your not completely in love with and arent sure about..and dont let any guy pressure you into having sex if you dont want too.I hope i could help!

♥ danielle

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