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My names Amanda im 17 years old! I live in a real small town--bracey,va. i live in an even smaller neighborhood type thing so its just me and my friends. Im single but im basically in LOVE with one of my best friends, yeahh that sucks. Ive been through it all..bad relationships, asshole boyfriends, backstabbing best friends you've been friends with all your life, alotttt of stuff. I can't exactly explain me in a paragraph but i can promise if you ask me anything i will do everything i can get give you the answer or the best advice that im capable of.
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I am 14, in ninth grade, and I am female.

Okay, first I'm going to give a little backround information.

I had a boyfriend that tried to cheat on me with his ex girlfriend. I knew that I couldn't trust him ever again, so I broke up with him yesterday. Don't worry, I feel really good about it.

Well, a few days ago, I found out from one of my friends that another friend of mine, Ricky, likes me. At first, I wasn't sure I could trust the friend that told me, T.J., because T.J. is weird like that. Then, my best friend Megan told me yesterday that Ricky has liked me for a long time.

My question is, is it okay to go ahead and date Ricky so soon after dumping my previous boyfriend?

~ClarinetKtM (link)
yes as long as your not doing it to get back at your ex! good luck!


Ive been dating my girlfriend for 10 months now. The last few months have been a bit rocky, but things were really starting to get alot better, atleast on my end. Not on hers though. She wants to take a break, because shes starting to fall out of love with me. I don't think there is really anything that I can do to change her mind...its all up to her..She says there is a possibility that things will get better, and that she may fall back in love with me, but I dont really know....Is it possible to fall out of love with someone, then fall back in love with them? (link)
well either she never did love you or shes scared to be in love with you because you might hurt her.


What types of paint colors would make a small room see bigger? (link)
i have a small room...and i painted it Carolina blue and my room looks bigger you could try that or light colors r the best to use


I cant stand my family anymore .. I just got into a bad car accident a couple days ago on this one road where someone before me wrecked n died so i was lucky i made it.. well i came home n layed down on the sofa n my mom told me to sit up .well i was n pain and she didnt care she didnt even wanna leave work to come see me n my stepdad told me he didnt care i got into accident. i dont wanna be here anymore my mom wont even talk to me she just walks away.. (link)
i was in the same situation in june..well it probably is because they were scared because parents get freaked out by that stuff...give it some time they might come around more often...if not then maybe you could move in with close family members or have a counseling session with you and your mom and your stepdad


I know when you like someone you are supposed to go for it, but I am to shy to even express my feelings to my friends sometimes. I just wanna know to over come it. I hate being shy. I really wanna ask this person out before its too late. Please help me not to be as shy. (link)
well take things slow...start out a conversation and then go farther each day...that will make u more comfortable to ask this person out ...hope i helped!
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Hi My name is Nicole, Well most of my friends do drugs and well i dont because i have head on my sholders.Anyways so i told my bestfriends boyfriend that she was still smoking and later on she came up to me and yelld at me. And well her and her bf broke up because she lied to him and i guess there was more to the story so yea.....anyways so now she got allof myfriends agenst me for some stupid reason and i dont even know what i did to the rest of them....Do you guys think i made the rigth choice by going to her boyfriend and not teacher because she would be grounded for the rest of her life if her parents found out..... so what can i do to get my friends back..
PLEASE HELP PLEASE (link)
yeah! you did the right thing!. Ok well first of all theyre not your real friends because they got all pissed off when you were trying to help! Start hanging out with other people sooner or later theyll realize what they did. GooD luck!


I have a xanga right now and i was wondering what were some cool things you could do it you dont have premium besides music and a cool background. Also is it possible to have pictures on your weblog entrys w/o premium, if so how do you do it? Thank a million! I rate high :) (link)
hey! ok wen ur writing an entry at the top it should say pic in gray just click there and put in the website ur gettin it from...and somebackgrounds u can get at blogring.net hope i helped!


i'm 17/f and i thought that i was pretty smart when it came to guys, but on two occasions i became the victim of a guy that wouldn't take "no" for an answer, i didn't get raped, more like pressured into doing something that i didn't want done, it's made me really self consious around other guys, i feel like i'm just an object and that i'm never going to get a good relationship because first off i had a bad experience with guys in the past and i was never close with my dad, and when i was 7 i was molested by my brother, so i've got to ask, am i a whore?? (link)
um...actually you were sorta raped...because you didnt want to do it and he pressured you. no youre not a whore..it happens to ppl


Hey,
Whoever reads this, can you tell me if your related to Hillary Duff, you know the singer or not. Thanks a billion- (link)
um why you gonna ask some1 if theyre related to hilary duff? thats gay shes gay!


does anyone know a website that can help me with translating french to english?!...or if there is anyone on this website that can help me!! (link)
http://www.systranbox.com

thats where i go!


Christmas! Omg... Its just around the corner. Its coming faster, then light. I have this boifriend. I LOVE HIM TOO DEATH!!! But i mean this is our first Christmas together. What should i get him for christmas? I need help. I Love him sooo much. I want it to be something special. Truly special. Please help!! ME!! Ill rate you VERY HIGH 5 Whole BIG POINTS! Avice Columnists help me!! Im just lost!!! ASAP! Quick help me... I have only a week to get his present cause im busy with other stuff til x-mas!! Thankss!!!! soo much...
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dude calm down..take a breather...ok..how bout including some info on your bf about what he likes n stuff that might help us jus a lil


how do i get rid of weeds in the patch on front of my house and stop them from growing back through decorative stones? (link)
uhh..cut em? haha i dunno


HeY..
This week it started getting freakin cold in texas *where i live*. And my skin freaked out, it has these spots where it's dry i guess but it looks like my skin's peeling. Ha ok it doesn't look as bad as that sounded, it's really not noticable but it is in my magnifying mirror! Ne ideas of what i can use to make it go away, or not show temporarily? Foundation just makes it look worse! (link)
um try lotion..or cocoa butter its supposed to help keep your skin from being chapped or anything to do with warm/cold weather.


Okay - lol - I know this is probably a stupid opinion/question/thing, but I wanna know what you guys think. I think it's funny. It's one of those "kids say the darndest things" moments.
Okay.
My guy and I are pretty much engaged, but none of our acquaintances know. His little brother (sam) asked "are you two gonna get married?" and my bf answered in sort of a sarcastic tone "yes. Yes we are, Sam." and we just kind of laughed it off 'cause it's the second time Sam's asked us - and his mom was there, and we're keeping it quiet - and Sam said "I thought Shanna (one of my guy's friends) was your girlfriend." Everyone, including me, laughed. Shanna's one of his closest friends. Doesn't bother me in the least (my closest friends are guys), but I'm curious as to where Sam got that idea...Lol. Thing is, I almost think I should be more concerned than I am (like...I'm not.) about the fact that Sam thought Shanna was my boy's gf. We've been together for over a year. But Sam is only 7. I shouldn't be worried, should I? (link)
Well from the sounds of it, i dont really think he is. Kids say the wierdest things sometimes just to keep the conversations going and to be in the middle of attention.but if your really concerned then you could just ask your bf be like remember when sam said he thought shanna was your gf? any idea why he said that? Just ask him dont be shy to ask him youve been with him for a year! good lucK!


Well, I like this kid named Eric, hes so sweet nice n incredible and EVERYTHING, but my friend erika always seems to get jealous when me n him talk and stuff if its like not about her.. erika asked me to ask him today who he liked. and he said me and it was like the best thing ever and hes like do you wanna date me? and i said yeah but i dont wanna hurt erika, because i know if i date eric erika will like be mad at me or treat me differently.. but i really really really like eric!! what should i do?? would u date eric and try n find erika a boyfriend? or would u jus stay friends with eric? i rate 5z! (link)
Date Eric...and try to find her a bf hey maybe eric has a friend for her or something. Shes gonna have to get over the fact that Eric doesnt like her. I'd say go for it! But just tell erica that you really like him and that shes your friend and all but you want something so your going for it!. GoOd lucCk!


Hey, I'm sorry if this grosses you out but it's just something that happens and I'm wondering if there is a reason why. Well I usually don't go #2 a lot, like people tell me you're supposed to go everyday but I only go like once a week sometimes longer, and it's not like I don't eat because I eat a lot and I don't gain any weight either, I'm 14 and weigh 100 pounds. So I'm wondering if that's normal or what I should do or any advice about that.

Thank you, I rate well. (link)
yeah i have that problem too...but i dont think your supposed to go everyday!...i asked my doctor she said it was normal just the way your digestive system works.


has anyone failed their permit test? i am going to get mine this friday and i was just wanting to know what i should expect. like, what kind of questions will they ask? i know people say they are just common sense questions and to choose the answer that they would think and not what you would think. lol..i know thats confusing but..i was just wondering what questions that it asks. thanks! (link)
OMGSH! i have the best thing for u to do...my dad told me n all of my friends and we passed wen we did this..he said stand back with your arms crossed n just look at it n relax n itll help! but make sure u study the book!and everything should be okay! good luck!it should tell u wut to expect in the book ours did but i dunno where u live so it might be different


Hey well one of my friends has really bad stretch marks on her legs and she doesnt know how to get themm away or w/e i told her to tell her mom and she said thta she is too embarreseed too..and i am the only one that knows so how can she get rid of them? (link)
my sis had that problem...she used cocoa butter n theyre gone!! she shouldnt be embarrassed because every1 gets em. even i had them n my legs arent even fat i used cocoa butter n theyre gone!


Hi can anyone help, I'm 26 yr old male and generally my complexion is ok, a few random minor zits but nothing terrible. However I have 2 reoccuring super spots. They flare up about every 2/3 months in exactly the same place (either side of my chin) and always both together. They start off as hard, sore, lumps under the skin and over a few days they become enflamed and red. Unlike other spots they don't eventually get a 'head' they just eventually die off, usually after 7 - 10 days. I wash with an antibacterial wash twice daily and use 'quinoderm' cream which is effective on most of my smaller spots.

Any ideas would be very gratefully received?

Thanks (link)
ok..well you could change the wash that your using but sometimes even washing your face doesnt help...but the best thing to do would be to go to a dermotologist or just your doctor they can tell you whats best.


ok so i really want a thong badly, but i have alot of problems
1. what if you have your period
2. my mom wont let me she thinks im not old enough yet, but im almost in high school
3. my friends tease me about it how i am not
wearing one
4. i dont want to sneak a thong in my bedroom i would feel so guilty
what should i do (link)
ok 1. by now you should kno wen ur going to have your period so dont wear one around that time.2 ur friends will get over it jus tell them your mom wont let you have one big deal n 3 just sneak one anyway everyone sneaks something now a days so just do it.




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