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Falling out of love?
Ive been dating my girlfriend for 10 months now. The last few months have been a bit rocky, but things were really starting to get alot better, atleast on my end. Not on hers though. She wants to take a break, because shes starting to fall out of love with me. I don't think there is really anything that I can do to change her mind...its all up to her..She says there is a possibility that things will get better, and that she may fall back in love with me, but I dont really know....Is it possible to fall out of love with someone, then fall back in love with them?
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Well, it is very unlikely, but yes it can most definetly happen. Take her out to a romantic restaurant and greet her at the door with a dozen red roses. Tell her that she means the world to you and express your feelings. You can also impress her if u have reservations. Just remember to make sure she is having a good time. Stare into her eyes.Hope I helped!!Latas!!
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Kind of, I think that you think that you are falling out of love with someone when really you don't realize how much you love them until you take a break. Maybe this is why she is taking a break so she can realize this and realize how much you meant to her and no one can be as perfect for her as you are. Hope this helped. -Kayla
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hey hun, it looks like you're going through some pretty hard times. >TRUST ME...< I totally think that you CAN fall out of love then fall back into love. i went out with my ex boyfriend many times. i'm really not sure how many times that we broke up but trust me. i don't really know for sure but every time i see him i still know that i love him just as much as i did before we broke up. he and i had our moments that were good then we also had some that were the most terrible things ever. well i really hope that all goes well for you and your girlfriend! goodluck hun! >Rachel
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yes of course it is. i love this guy then we took a break, dated other people, and them i fell back in love with him the only problem he didnt fall bad in love with me. ~*L*~
PS if you both love eachother then you will end up together in the end.
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well either she never did love you or shes scared to be in love with you because you might hurt her.
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Sometimes a relationship can just suffecate a person. She may just need space, she may just need out, and she may just need to run from her own feelings if she thinks things are getting too serious for her. But as for falling out of love... Lots of factors can dim your sight to the love you have for someone. Time and thought and talking out issues can clear those factors and rebuild a flame brighter than before. But if someone has truely fallen out of love you can never get them to love you again. Hopefully your lady just needs some time. Luck and Love!
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It is possible to get the spark back, but you owe it to yourself to say that if you are both going on a break that you want to see other people. It won't do any good to force her to stay. Letting her miss you will help, but if she doesn't bounce back fast, move on. You do need to have a heart to heart about how she really feels. But sometimes if you let them go, they do come back.
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I think you have to sit her down and ask her "Do you really love me?" If she replies with "I don't know anymore" or "I don't know right now" I don't think it was meant to be, if you love someone, you know you do.
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i deffinatly think it's possible for that to happen. things may be going on with her that she hasn't told anyone, and when that happens, you can get really preoccupied, and maybe she just can see the fact that she still loves you. if you guys take a break, and if she does still love you, it will show her how much she really does, and then hopefully things will get better. i'm sorry you have to deal with that, because its hard and it sucks. but just stick it out, and whatever happens happens. there are other girls out there if things don't work out for you. good luck.
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