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Best friend
I am a 16 yr. old female and I have a question to ask you.What sould i do if my best friend has told a total private secert about my childhood and private life that she wasn't suppose to tell anybody?
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calmly confront her. ask her why she told. if its bothering you like, maybe its caused teasing or something by your peers, then play it off i mean people look for reactions if you act like its no big deal then it'll fade out. remember though everyone makes mistakes and alot of the times theyre big ones so try to forgive and forget if you cant then i dont know what to say
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Hey, I not sure she is a best friend then. Is it something that someone hurt you and you hurt yourself? if so then she was doing that right thing. But other than that I would ask why she did that and what she was thinking.
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You'd have to talk to her about that and make sure she doesn't do it again. That's pretty unacceptable of her.
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ask her why she told someone something u asked her not to...and then talk to her about it...or just not talk to her anymore lol good luck sweetie
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confront her about it.. and if she tries to give you attitude about it, then open a can of whoopass on her
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You should confront her and talk to her about it. She needs to understand how important it was for you to trust her and how she has broken that trust. It is possible that she will never regain your trust and your friendship with her will suffer because of it. There isn't really much else to do because once something like that happens it happens. It depends on the people involved on how it will be resolved.
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Tell everybody it was just stupid roomer your friend was spreading around. Was she mad at you??? Its ok just tell them that she know nothing and its a stupid roomer and if she says know walk away and say i thought uwere my friends
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You confided something totally private to your best friend, and in return, she tells it? First things first are you 100% sure that she told it? Like maybe a chance that while you were telling her this someone overheard or yall were talking about it on the phone and someone picked up another phone line in her house? {have to make sure, best friends are hard to come by and not so easily replaced} If she is the one that told it, then I would invest my time in finding a new best friend.
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what's the secret???
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Well, you can't take the secret back. Ask her why she did it. People do stupid things. I've done a stupid thing like that a time or two and I'd had NO intention of opening my mouth. I still feel rotten even years later when I knew I had no mean thought, or thought period, in my head when the thing slipped out. Like a great friend of mine always says, "Two people can only keep a secret if one of them is dead." I learned that lesson almost 20 years ago, but you two are still young.
Of course if she did it just to hurt you... Drop that b--ch like a hot coal and don't look back.
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you should talk to your friend. let her know that you really really don't appreciate her telling private secrets about your life to other people, because you trusted her enough in the first place to tell it to her. make sure she understands that what she did really hurt you, and be cautious about what you tell her in the future to make sure she doesn't tell anyone else. everyone tells other people things about other people that they're not supposed to...it's a fact of life. but if they're a really good friend, and if the secret really was private, they should be able to know what is "ok" to tell other people, and what they really should keep to themselves. hope this helped!
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