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I am a 16 yr. old female and I have a question to ask you.What sould i do if my best friend has told a total private secert about my childhood and private life that she wasn't suppose to tell anybody?
Tell everybody it was just stupid roomer your friend was spreading around. Was she mad at you??? Its ok just tell them that she know nothing and its a stupid roomer and if she says know walk away and say i thought uwere my friends
im 14/female. i used to have this really good friend. we could talk about anything. he was like my big brother. well lately (in the past few months) we've grown apart so much. we can't talk to each other about anything and i get mad at him over little things. i don't know why our relationship is changing so much. i miss how things used to be. any ideas why things are happening like this? any advice on what i should do?
Does he go to a diferent school. Maybe he wanted to hang out with guys more. Keep in touch with himi as much as u can. Dont let him slip to far away. He could be really busy, this one is a mystery!!haha
Let me know how it goes please!!
i'm 16 and my lil sis is havin her 13th birthday on december 19th.. she is soo pumped and doesnt really have any ideas for one. i threw a surprise for her last year so i dont wanna do that again.. she has a lot of friends and i guess shes one of the popular girls in her school so i want it to be big for her.. any one got any ideas.. cuz im not doing to good and i want this to be the best ever! x33always! me*
Think of a theme like iceskating! Or a hawiann theme to get back in the season. Try something simple and easy for you! I am sure your sister will enjoy anything anytime! Think of stylish things a thirteen year old would like. Use you knowledge of being 13 again. Let me know how it goes!!
okay ive been dieting for the past like 3 dayz...ive been eating about 3 healthy meals a day and stop eating around 6. but today i dunno if i ruined it. I have an orange, an apple and a banana for breakfast, then for lunch i had a portion of turkey and a turkey sandwich with wheat bread, and then for dinner i had a bowl of chicken soup..But inbetween the meals i had another orange, a boiled egg, another apple, and another banana, and a bite of a pickle... it sounds like alot but it was through out the whole day..is this gunna affect my diet because i kinda over did eating the fruits?? thanks!
I could effect your diet but i dought it would! Just eat healthy foods and exersize. Fruit is very good and so is water, dont starve yourself but eat the right amount of food for you.
ok so my ex boyfriend and i have been on and off for a little over 4 years. i did see other people in between but its not the same. he has been my best friend for what seems to be my whole life. i have been able to go to him for everything. well a year ago November we got back together and things were great. he means everything to me. i love him more then anything and i know that he truly loves me.. however things got rough this past September and we broke up again. i dumped him. but we promised to be best friends still. for a while things were still great. like we still hooked up and kissed and everything but i don't want to be friends with benefits. but i cant help it when im with him. so last week the week of November 15th was great. we hung out Monday, Wednesday(what would have been 1 year) and then Saturday. Wednesday was the best. i mean he told me he loved me and everything but then Saturday he was a jerk. we hooked up and i told him i loved him and hes like i know u do. but was gay about it. he ended up leaving shortly after. then we didn't talk all week. till i called him Friday upset needing someone to talk to and he couldn't be there for me. then on Saturday i told him again that i really needed him and hes like well im busy. BLAH! i cant take this anymore. its like he cares about me but he doesn't show it. he never calls me anymore like he promised he would and like how tings were b4 we got back together. what should i do? im not happy anymore. i want to express myself to him and tell him how im hurting but i don't know how to. i don't want to stop talking to him cause he has always been my best friend but its like i have too. i don't know what to do. please help me!
Walk over to his house and sit down and tell him how you feel, and if u want to get back together tell him that. Try this time to stay more together and less arguments. Be kind even if he was acting like a jerk. Dont mess it up because you could never get him back again. Lemme know howo it goes
I'm 14 and a female. i have been liking the same guy for a little over a year now and he likes me too but we havent dated becaues he said his dad told him i was too young, (im 14 and he's 15) but he said when i was in high school we would date. He told me he loved me and i said it back because i meant it and thought he did too.Right before high school i heard he did things with another girl and confronted him when i called his cell phone and she answered,so we didnt talk for a few weeks. Then, he began to talk to me and began to act really nice and told me how he regretted what he did and how sorry he was. So, we started talking again and it didnt feel like it was working out. THis was after homecoming, which i went with a senior who now likes me. Well me and this 15 yr old were supposed to date after homecoming, but it didnt happen because he hardly called me and it felt awkward, so we called it off again. recently he has been calling me a lot and inviting me places, like to his house and to a wedding, and he told me the song my boo reminds him of us and he's really serious this time , but we still are not dating and he hasnt mentioned it, i know it sounds crazy of me to still like him but he says he loves me and he means it and that he wishes he would have done things differently, so what do i do?
If u dont like it tell him that, or tell him to tone it down in your "relattionship". Try to explain to him your feeling now instead of them. Tell me how it works out
Well here's my situation. My mother was seeing a man for awhile that seemed totally normal, well as time passed he began to become controlling and totally weirded out. He was suppose to be this guy living "the good life" with money ect. ect. Well things started to get weird whenever everytime we were suppose to visit his house the meetings would get "cancelled." After awhile he started to turn my mother against me. He convinced her that I was a hell raising child who needed to be locked up, and I needed help because I was "Ill in the head." All of this was far from the truth. Anyways, to make an extremely long story short, we found out he's not who he says he is, and he has a major criminal record, just got off parole for MURDER. He has an obsession over me (For God only knows what reason) and now the police are after him and he dissapeard before they got the oppurtunity to arrest them. This has brought so much strain on our family. My mom is constantly drinking, and I just can't look at her the same after the things she did to me because this psycho told her to. I was just wondering if anyone had any ideas as to what to do in this situation. I want things to be better in our house-hold after this, but I have no idea where to start to mend it back together. Sorry it's so long, thanks for the help.
Sit down with your mother and tell her u miss her the way she was. Tell her it wasnt her fault this guy was a criminal.IF THAT DOESNT WOR THEN find someone to hellp u guys get threw this
I have a sister that is evil.What is the best payback i could give her?
Lea
Trash her room with toothpaste throw all of her slothes on the ground rip up her horse posters and tell her your dog did it. Tell me how it goes
I have a friend who is being really mean to me just because I got a cell phone and her parents wont let her...she wont talk to me what should i do????
OK well tell her your parents think you are responsible and it was probably a good reason your parent got you this Cell Phone. Your friend shouldnt be jealous. Maybe you can let her use it(not borrow it but use it) Tell her maybe in a while maybe just maybe her parents will get her one, and they cost alot of money tell her. If she is your real friend she wouldnt have gotten made over a stupid ceelphone
well i broke up with my boyfriend in may and now i go to the same school with him and he still wants to be with me i dont even want to be friends with him and now he has a classes next to my locker and i see him everyday i dont want to talk to him and i told him i like another guy and he insists that we should get back together but i told him i dont like him at all and now he doesnt stop bugging me what do i do. or what can i do
OK well ignore him as much as you can!! If you really dont want him in your face anymore tell him that or make up a fib that you like another guy. Then if that doesnt work go to the guidence office and ask the guidance man that you need help, so what if you feel embarrased its a way to get rid of the kid that you dislike. LEt me know how it goes!!
I am having my 17th birthday party in like a week or so and I was wondering if anyone had any good ideas for games, thing to do, etc. Here are something that might help I want the party theme to be pink and silver and the guys can wear red and grey, I have a pool table, big living room. Any ideas will help or you can tell me something about one of your good partys and I can get an idea from that? thanks and there is another problem how can I tell my mom to stay upstairs since guys are going to be there I don't know if she will trust me and I don't want her to be there cause I mean I am going to be 17 she should be able to trust me and I know that everyone will feel really uncomfortable if my mom keeps watching or checking up on us so what can I say to her ? Help and if u have any other idea, anything for a good party tell me please thanks again.
For the party ideas maybe some movies, pool like u said, and some cool and funky stuff. For getting the mom to check this is what you should so: Have your mom pop her head down stairs maybe every 30'mins. No one would notice her head just checking. You two can descus the time limit but there a way where she isnt watching you like an eagle. SHe can come down to refill snacks something thats reanoble for her and you. Thanks tell me how your party goes o ya and Happy Birthday
I'm very overshadowed by my best friend. She's a very flirtatious, outgoing, redheaded vixen and everyone wants to be friends with her. Now, I don't mind it so much, I'm happy that she is well liked by people, but it's the fact that I seem to be getting less and less attention from her every time she meets somebody new. Especially guys. Every guy she meets has had a crush on her. (Except, thankfully, my CURRENT boyfriend...note that I said CURRENT..ex-boyfriends are another story) And often times she has crushes on them, but she still has to complain about them liking her. She seems to treat me like a child and she's the "All-knowing-one", especially when it comes to relationships, and it's really starting to piss me off! She steals my jokes and claims them as her own OFTEN and she says that I'm a bad friend because I once decided to stay with my boyfriend instead of going to hang out with her, while she has ditched me many a time to hang out with guys. (I can think of two instances from just last week.) I'm really bothered by her, yet I remain her friend and most of the time I really don't know why. And I want to talk to her about this, but I've tried before and she always apologizes and then forgets about it two days later.
And when it's just her and I things are fine! We have a great time and everyone's happy and once again I've become the comedian between the two of us, (material she later steals from me to use in front of her flirting victims), but when it comes to boys I'm completly ignored and she's off in the corner creating some sort of drama. It's weird for me, because before I befriended her I was always the center of attention among the group. I was the loud, funny, loving one who everyone wanted to give hugs because I would gladly dish them out. And now it seems like nobody has any time for me because they all want to be with her. Like she's taken all of my friends, but still claims that I'm her best one.
What should I do? I know the most logical thing would be to stop being friends with her, but we've been together for so long and we have most of our friends in common with each other, so there really would be no way to avoid hanging out with her.
This girl that is your friend i bet you is going threw a stage. SHe thinks she all that, but she will come around and soon enough she will miss u(hopefully. Friend Ship is a hard thing to deal with believe me, so if she keeps ignoring you and less talks to you talk to her online on the phone or something and tell her that you are being left out and you feel that she is ditching you and if that doesnt work i am sorry to say DITCH HER. Please let me know how this all works out.
hey.. about 3 months ago i got out of a 2 yr relationship.. i thought that i would never be in love again or it would be hard to find a guy. Ive been eying this guy at my church for a while and about 2 weeks ago i went up to him and said hi and introduced myself to him. I come to find out that in middle school he useto be my friend. it was one of those hi, bye things. But till this day i dont remember. Today i saw him at church and i said hi and i gave him my number to go out this weekend. He is the cutest thing ever. The thing is im not sure if he has a girlfriend and hes a senior this yr and hes leaving to orlando this summer. but i dont know what else to talk to him about and im not a shy person anymore, i could pretty much go up to a guy i like and talk to him. and i did that with this guy but its been so long since ive done this and i dont know what to do around him.. any advice?.. tanx
Well talk to him about what he likes to do and ask him if he has a girlfriend i am sure he wont mind, you just want to know stuff whats the big crime in that?? Talk to him about college and why he is going to Orlando make him feel comfortable and make your self feel comfortable. Let me know how it goes!