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wat can i tell him


Question Posted Sunday November 28 2004, 8:11 pm

hey.. about 3 months ago i got out of a 2 yr relationship.. i thought that i would never be in love again or it would be hard to find a guy. Ive been eying this guy at my church for a while and about 2 weeks ago i went up to him and said hi and introduced myself to him. I come to find out that in middle school he useto be my friend. it was one of those hi, bye things. But till this day i dont remember. Today i saw him at church and i said hi and i gave him my number to go out this weekend. He is the cutest thing ever. The thing is im not sure if he has a girlfriend and hes a senior this yr and hes leaving to orlando this summer. but i dont know what else to talk to him about and im not a shy person anymore, i could pretty much go up to a guy i like and talk to him. and i did that with this guy but its been so long since ive done this and i dont know what to do around him.. any advice?.. tanx

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Additional info, added Sunday November 28 2004, 8:14 pm:
like i said i gave him my number so he can call me to go out this weekend and im scared he's not going to call.. i know that if its meant to be itll happen but i get excited quick and get disappointed even quicker...

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SmoothiesFknRock answered Sunday November 28 2004, 9:41 pm:
Wait and see if he calls you. If he does- he's probably interested! Strike up a conversation about how you're single- and try and figure out if he is. Like you said- you're not a shy person so this shouldn't be a problem for you. If he doesn't call you, then maybe somehow try getting his screen name and talk to him online or whatever? He could be really shy about calling you too! Good luck hun and if you need anything else- don't be shy to leave something in my inbox! I hope I helped some-what!
-Jennifer

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BballMeggs935 answered Sunday November 28 2004, 8:43 pm:
Well talk to him about what he likes to do and ask him if he has a girlfriend i am sure he wont mind, you just want to know stuff whats the big crime in that?? Talk to him about college and why he is going to Orlando make him feel comfortable and make your self feel comfortable. Let me know how it goes!

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sunshine1030 answered Sunday November 28 2004, 8:26 pm:
it's always hard to try and start dating again after a long relationship. if he doesn't call you this weekend, maybe try and arrange some plans next time you see him at church, or maybe see if he wants to go get some coffee or lunch or something after, that way you get to go out with him that day. then just talk to him as you would any guy, regardless of whether you like him or not. talk to him about school, sports, music, movies, and, casually, bring up the girlfriend thing, because it's always going to be helptufl to know. then if things go well, hopefully he'll call you for a second date! but just a piece of advise. starting a relationship now with someone who's leaving in the summer is tough, specially if you last that long. but if you really like him, then don't let that hold you back. it is only november after all...best of luck.

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DevilChild answered Sunday November 28 2004, 8:20 pm:
well ask him next time you see him if he has like aim or something or get his number and call it and talk to him and ask him become friends and then ask if he has a gf or something you know

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