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I'm 14 and a female. i have been liking the same guy for a little over a year now and he likes me too but we havent dated becaues he said his dad told him i was too young, (im 14 and he's 15) but he said when i was in high school we would date. He told me he loved me and i said it back because i meant it and thought he did too.Right before high school i heard he did things with another girl and confronted him when i called his cell phone and she answered,so we didnt talk for a few weeks. Then, he began to talk to me and began to act really nice and told me how he regretted what he did and how sorry he was. So, we started talking again and it didnt feel like it was working out. THis was after homecoming, which i went with a senior who now likes me. Well me and this 15 yr old were supposed to date after homecoming, but it didnt happen because he hardly called me and it felt awkward, so we called it off again. recently he has been calling me a lot and inviting me places, like to his house and to a wedding, and he told me the song my boo reminds him of us and he's really serious this time , but we still are not dating and he hasnt mentioned it, i know it sounds crazy of me to still like him but he says he loves me and he means it and that he wishes he would have done things differently, so what do i do?
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If u dont like it tell him that, or tell him to tone it down in your "relattionship". Try to explain to him your feeling now instead of them. Tell me how it works out
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hmm - another predicament here. I don't mean to sound nasty, but I think you'd be better off without this boy. It might not be that he is hurting you delibratly, but it seems that he's doing so and not realising. Girls mature faster than boys, and this boy in particular isn't on your wavelenght yet. He doesn't understand that you're nto a toy that he can put down and pick back up whenever he feels like it. Why not take a break for a while and look for somebody else - or even just wait for this guy to mature a bit (I for one matured a hell of a lot, very quickly when I was around 15/16) Hope I helped you!
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Feelings are difficult to understand and so are teenage boys. Although you might like him a lot, be careful especially if he has led you on without coming through so many times. Talk to him to make sure his feelings are true and see if this is really going anywhere. If you find out it's not, then although it might hurt and you might like him for awhile, move on. If he did stuff with another girl, he could always do it again. Have faith in him just be true to yourself. You don't need a guy to define yourself. If he's really the one for you and worth the trouble, you'll know in your heart.
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