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hey, I have curly blonde hair, blue eyes, about 5'4. I love to debate, shop and shoes! If people are rude to me I am not the nicest to them, so stay on my good side! I have been through a lot and have plenty to share! I tell it how it is so...kind of harsh I know! anything ya need to know you know how to reach me!

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Last night I did my washing but I was really tired so I just dumped it all in without looking to see what went in. Then when I checked this morning, I had found that I had slipped a fur coat into the mix.

Things happen and bada bing bada boom,

The coat feel apart,

Well I'm not that upset about the coat falling apart (a bit but not much) but now all my other clothes that went in that wash have fur all over them. I have tried shaking them off but they are still covered- what would be the best way to get all the fur off easily?

hey, I would just wash them, but without the coat!! Or use a lint roller!!

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I have this one really good friend, and let's call her Jane. Jane and I met last year, when I came to her school for a gifted program. Jane and I became kinda friends, but I made a best friend that I'll call Kristen. It's a year later, and now were all good friends. But on the bus the other day, this girl I'll call Sam bad mouthed my friend. I asked Kristen if she liked Jane, and she said no not really. Jane is a really good friend of mine but I don't know what to do?

Hey, First of all, never say threesome again, that sounds so wrong!! but yeah just talk to your friends about it and see what each one thinks!!

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Hi, last year I read a short story in our 8th grade literature textbook called "Charles". I really loved the ending and the story itself, and I was wondering if anyone that has read it, knows the author of it. All I remember is that she was female, and she has written a lot of books. I've been searching for hours, and can't seem to find anything. Please help!

Hey, I loved that story!! I think the author was Shirly Jackson

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My best friend and I like the same guy. The thing is, he is dating my best friend. But she and he both know that he likes me also. He wants to be with both of us, but I don't want to hurt my best friend so I think I should back off. What should I do?? Thanks!

Hey, I have the same problem!! it drives me nuts!! I would just wait untill they break up. If he really really wants to go out with you then he will break up with your best friend

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My boyfriend and I have been together since the summer, I'm 15 and he's 16. He has mentioned the holidays coming up and he really wants to get me something. I never even thought about it because I didn't even know we got to the stage in our relationship where we buy eachother things. Now, I have no idea what to get him. We haven't been together for that long and I'm worried whatever I get him he won't like. How do I make something sentimental, without looking cheap or stupid and how do I buy something for a 16 year old boy?

Hey, I would get a cute picture of you and him in a frame and toss in a card, movies, whatever comes to mind!

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How do you update microsoft word? Because i have 97 and i want 2000...dont tell me to search google either i tried that...thanks

hey, all I know is you have to buy it you can get it at Best buy and all of those stores.

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my boyfriend of 9months has recently started smoking weed and hes always telling me how his parents dont trust him now because they are so suspicious that he smokes. and whenever he asks them if he can come to my house they say no because they dont even trust him. i love my boyfriend to death i just hate that he smokes. he doesnt try to make me smoke or nothing, but its soo dangerous and he knows i dont like it and he doesnt do it around me or nothing..but he talks about it and it just like kills me to know he is hurting himself...i tryed talking to him about it...what can i do?

Hey, my bf used to do that and I just kinda...I guess bribed him, and told him I would dump him if he didn't stop or I wouldn't kiss him or anything untill he stoped and it worked, it might take awhile but it still worked!

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Well okay, here's my situation... My parents work all the time and I usually need a ride... Well my friend opted for the position and I know I do at times get annoying and ask a lot of her parents to take me around and do errands because my own parents can't... So, I give her parents gifts and things like that to thank them for taking me around... And now my friend is really getting agitated about her having to drive me around all the time when her parents don't mind at all... So.. What should I do because I mean I'm always nice to her and her parents but she is just getting on me for asking her parents to take me around...

Hey, what you could do since her parents don't mind is to ask around for rides too so her parents are not always giving you a ride but can still get one if you need one.

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umm why are -YOU- out of ALL people giving addvice.....??? your making a mistake missy.

umm...what do you mean by you out of all people??? do you have a problem with me? and what would that mistake be?

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Ok, I just bought this new jacket..it's polyester..and everytime I wear it, it leaves lint all over my shirt (or whatever I'm wearing underneath it.) Is there a way to prevent this? Thanks!! I'll give 5's for every answer!! ;-)

Yeah sry about that! my computer messed up!! I'm sry!! Umm...if you just wash it every time you wear something new or if you have washed it enough it won't happen again!

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I am a 16 yr. old female and I have a question to ask you.What sould i do if my best friend has told a total private secert about my childhood and private life that she wasn't suppose to tell anybody?

Hey, I not sure she is a best friend then. Is it something that someone hurt you and you hurt yourself? if so then she was doing that right thing. But other than that I would ask why she did that and what she was thinking.

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I have a problem in the learning catagory. You see, I dropped out of school because of a few things, mainly panic attacks and basic miserableness (which I'm working on fixing now). Before 6th grade, I did great. Math, science, English... was all very easy to me.

Then in 6th grade things started going bad. I've been made miserble purposefully by most of my classmates for years. But I stuck it out. Then in 6th grade I started skipping because it was too hard around those people who hurt me all the time. And then I started enjoying the freedom and not doing all that work. So work started to become harder and I avoided doing it.

Now I feel useless and I actually want to get my education and go to college and all. The first step is to get my high school education. It's hard when I'm 18 and officially dropped out in 9th grade. (I hardly even did 7 and 8. I skipped a lot and they put me in 9th when I said I'd make an effort.) So I'm continuing my education through distance education.

I actually have been keeping up on brainy subjects because it interests me. I've been watching history and science documentaries for years and I've always loved books. The problem is that I have hardly been able to retain any of it in my head. I haven't been able to learn. I am doing all this mostly to learn (and to get ahead). But I just... can't remember how to learn. Hardly anything is getting in there anymore. What can I do? How do I learn?

I'm not sure learning is something you need to know how to do. In classes you just have to pay attetion to what the teacher is sayin and ask questions on what you don't know. On homework if you don't understand it ask someone, they would be happy to help. I have a teachers email address if you need it she is really good with stuff like that and would be able to help you. If you want it just drop one in my box and I will give it to you! hope I helped!

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ok, i really like to sing, im ok i guess... but id really like to get better on my own w/o voice lessons or w/e. r there ne good methods for strengthining my voice and making it sound better?
*~*thanx a ton*~*

Hey~ I think that Voice lessons are the best way because someone else is judging you. I know website of people you can call in your area if you change your mind!

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I have the lead role in a play, and i need advice on how to memorize my lines! any ideas? Thanks soo much!

Hey~the thing that I do is just repeat them over and over and over. It takes awhile but it gets it done!

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This was something my mom and I talked about the other night, and it really made me think. Is it possible to love two people at the same time in the same way, as in a bf/gf? I'd appreciate to see some opinions on this...

JyNxiE

Umm..I guess you can think you are but actually you can only love one person in that kind of way. so you just have to figure out which one it is, which is the hard part!

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i don't know what to give my boyfriend for christmas. the only thing i know he's interested in is video games and i don't have money like that. what could i get him with about $20 or $30??

Well It kinda depends on how long you guy have been going out. How long have you been going out? and whats his personalty like?

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