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how can i get my bf to stop smoking weed?
my boyfriend of 9months has recently started smoking weed and hes always telling me how his parents dont trust him now because they are so suspicious that he smokes. and whenever he asks them if he can come to my house they say no because they dont even trust him. i love my boyfriend to death i just hate that he smokes. he doesnt try to make me smoke or nothing, but its soo dangerous and he knows i dont like it and he doesnt do it around me or nothing..but he talks about it and it just like kills me to know he is hurting himself...i tryed talking to him about it...what can i do?
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Hey, my bf used to do that and I just kinda...I guess bribed him, and told him I would dump him if he didn't stop or I wouldn't kiss him or anything untill he stoped and it worked, it might take awhile but it still worked!
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if he wont stop then thats his problem. tell him you really dont like it and he is just killing himself slowly.
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if he wants to smoke let him its his disishion
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tell him it hurts you to see him slowly killing himself and that you want him to stop because his parents won't even let him come over and remind him that you are tellin him this because you love him. DON'T stake your relationship unless you are ready for what might happen. i hope i helped alittle. rate me!___________Mo
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i'd have to say that yea if you hate that he smokes but he still does it anyways then he can't really care what you think, i would get outta there quick babe... a stoner is hard to live with and yet so easy to smoke with!
~zwimo*
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Hi there,
I feel exactly the same about drugs as you do and think you bouyfriend should remember that he is breaking the law by doing this. Furthermore, there are some possible negative side effects to smoking weed, such as the effect that it can have on the lungs, not to mention the psychological effects. Get you boyfriend to check out this website: [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
However, it is your boyfriend's decision if he wants to smoke weed. I know many people who smoke the stuff and it doesn't make them bad people, or people that you can't trust. And I think with the fact that your boyfriend does not smoke it around you shows that he is a decent person. One thing I want to point out is that weed is probably no more dangerous than alcohol. You say that both his and your parents don't trust him now - but why? The main difference between weed and alcohol is that weed is illegal!
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Drugs rule~! I love drugs, and its okay sometimes, allow him to use them, it gets you happy and you guys could have.. well you know.
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you need to talk some more about it and tell him why u think its so bad and why his parents are so suspicious i mean they have a reason too be, i would sit down and talk about where this relationship is going because after a while he will become dependent on the drug- my boyfriend did drugs when we first started going out but he stopped bc of me and he hasnt done anything in 3 years so really just talk to him and let him know whats up and maybe he will shape up and listen to you but if he starts to disrespct you or he would rather get high then come c u then i would leave him now and get someone who love you and respects you hope i helped let me know what happends!!
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