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I'm Christina, and I'm 27. I tend to be brutally honest when I give advice or an opinion. I don't tell people what they want to hear but rather what they need to hear. They don't always appreciate it at first, but I usually get a thank you in the end.

I have 15 tattoos, and 8 piercings. I'm married and just gave birth to a baby boy in May. I'm currently a SAHM so you can find me taking care of my son and binge-watching television while he naps.

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13/f. going into 8th grade. alright so my parents still treat me like i'm in 3rd grade. i go to bed on 11.30 on weekends & so far this summer [wtf?] and 9.30 for school. i can't talk to any boys on the phone or online, or just in person without my mom being all like ooo you like him or bs like that. my dad doesn't let me go to any sleepovers. or overnight field trips for school. i seriously cant take it... i tried talking to them 39925983 times. what the heck should i do ?? :[

If you've talked to them a ton of times, and they still said no, I'm going to assume that the talks weren't successful, calm or good. I'm going to assume that you got an attitude with them as soon as they said no, and then continued to whine like a child.

If that's the case, then of course they're going to tell you no. If they tell you no, and you act like a child - why shouldn't they treat you like one? When you talk to them, be calm & nice. Don't get an attitude when they tell you no. Just say "Okay." and go back to what you were doing.

If you want to prove to them that you're responsible enough to do things a teenager should do, then do so. Do your homework on time, question something when you don't understand it, do your chores without being asked, don't bug them for anything you don't really need. When they start to give you freedom, come back earlier than the time they give you by about 10 minutes. Call them to let them know you're alright & see if anything changes.

Respect their rules if nothing does change though. It will with time. I'm not sure if you're the only child, but I know that parents have a more difficult time with girls & freedom because boys aren't as fragile. Trust me, I'm 16 & there's things my parents still won't let me do. I hope everything works out. Good luck!

ok at my school , the emo style and makeup is becoming really popular with the girls. they wear like striped shirts and jackets and heavy eyliner and eye shadow and that stuff. they also wear lite blue jeans with the white belts. just that kind of stuff. does anyone know what kind of websites i can go to ( that are for 13 year olds!!) that will show me those kind of clothes and makeup and stuff so i can buy them at the store?? thanks to everyone that replies!!!!!

You can buy these clothes anywhere without actually seeing them online first.

Try stores like:
- Hot Topic.
- Wet Seal.
- Rue 21.
- American Eagle.
- Hollister.
- Target.
- Zumies.
- Pacsun.

Yeah, believe it or not, you can get some of the styled clothing from American Eagle & Hollister.

ok what are the chances of a condom to break? and why do they break?

If they're used properly, then they shouldn't break.

Condoms can break a few ways though. Sometimes they're made wrong, sometimes they're not used properly & they expire so it's best you check the box before you have sex again.

wat are the girls supposed to do during sex? besides just lying there like what else??

You don't just lay there. You give your other end of the bargain. Get on top, try new positions, etc.

You'd only be lying there if you didn't like it.

I dont Kno What to Do!! There is this kid i like and he has a long distance Girlfreind, they have been dating for almost a year now. i really like him, i knew him all my life and now i have feelings for him. i dont want to brake them up and make them upset, but i want him. we have had some amazing moments, and hes been telling me that he wants to break up with her cuz he thinks she cheating. she swears shes not.what can i do to pass the time of them being together? help!

Thankyou ps: Im 14/F

You can't do anything for them to break up. Let them break up naturally & then make your move. I bet you'd be pissed if some girl tried to break up you & your boyfriend [distance or not], so don't do it to her.

okay i really want my text to wrap around my picture on myspace. I got the code & all that & it looks like i'm doing it right but it shows up weird and doesn't work for me.
heres what it looks like:
http://i10.tinypic.com/52bxh8y.jpg
it might be hard to read but right after my picture it says "alighn="left"

The code you have might not be the right one. There could be an error with it, which I'm guessing there is.

Go onto www.freecodesource.com, & go through the generators. You'll find the one you're looking for, and that code works. I use it for my MySpace & it works perfect.

My Best friend recently joined advicenators.com. She's an awesome person and devotes her life to helping others, but the only one she really needs to be helping is herself. She has so many problems to be 17. well i guess if your going to help me help her your going to need to know everything. She's anorexic. She only weighs 97lbs and she's 5in. 5ft. obviously that's not healthy. But she claims not to be anorexic. She says she doesn't eat when she's stressed out and she's alwasys stressed out.What should i do?

Get your friend help. You recognize her problem, and she doesn't. So in order for her to see what's going on with herself, you need to sit down & talk with her. If you've tried that & it hasn't worked, talk to her parents. Tell them your concerns & possibly work with them to get her the help she needs.

I hope your friend opens her eyes to see what she's doing to herself. I wish you both the best of luck!

Ok so i know people drink raw eggs to liek get healthy but cant you get really sick from that??

Yeah, you can.

Ok. so you can have a background thingy right? How do I get it on there? I really need help. So only ppl that can give me EASY step by step instructions on how to do it. Thanks in advance!

If you go onto the left column of the homepage, you'll see Get Advice & the links below. You'll see Give Advice & the links below that. Then you'll see where it welcomes you. Then you'll see Miscellaneous. You want to go in there. Under that subcolumn, there'll be a link that's labeled "Page Backgrounds." Click that, & then choose your background.

If you wanna choose your own background from Photobucket or Tinypic, get the one you'd like, and then go into Column Settings. Paste the URL where it says to, and click Submit. Then congratulations, you have a background!

If you have anymore questions about the site, feel free to leave me a question in my inbox. I've been here a while, so I like to think I have most of the site figured out. =) Welcome to advicenators!

i have heard this song i like once before it goes someting like this i only know like 1 line

fuck me in the backseat..push her maybe push her not

whats the song? its kinda upbeat ad rock its not pop or rap! its like a mix between rock and dance and electronic

Fer Sure by The Medic Droid.

I read somewhere about a guy who took birth control Pills for like months, and he grew breasts because of all the estrogen in it, i've looked on goolge and all that, but have'nt been able to find out if this is true, or even possible, or healthy, does anyoen know what the effects of birth control pills would eb on a male?

I'm not exactly sure. This is something you would need to ask your doctor because they're the only ones who can tell you. Most of the people who give advice on this site are teenagers, so I'll recommend you to some adult columnists that you can inbox with this. If they answer this after I give their names out, I apolgoize.

YG: [http://www.advicenators.com/column.php?u=younggrandma]

YGS: [http://www.advicenators.com/column.php?u=ygsgirl]

Isis: [http://www.advicenators.com/column.php?u=isis]

Vikki27: [http://www.advicenators.com/column.php?u=Vikki27]

If you decide not to ask any of them, I hope you find the answer to your question.

Last night my Mother threatened to leave. Now I'm afraid one night she just wont come back. I have an older friend that has offered to let me live with her not as a joke, but not wicked serios either. My Mom threatens to leave yet I can't..

You didn't really ask a question, so I'm not exactly sure how to answer your question. I'm going to answer off an assumption though.

What events led up to her saying she'd leave? Were you guys fighting? Were her & your dad fighting or something?

If you & her were fighting & she said that to you, then you really need to sit down & talk with her. Tell her you're sorry for all the things that have been going on & that you love her. Then try to behave better & make an effort with her. If you just let these fights slip through the cracks & act as if they never happened, the situation will only get worse.

If her & your dad were fighting, then there isn't much you can do. Parents are going to fight -- it's a marriage genetic & you can't really stop it from happening. My parents are on the verge of divorce & I can't stop it from happening. The problems they're having are within the marriage, not the family. If your parents are fighting, the most I can suggest is that you sit them down with you & have them work it out. Be a mediator & see what you can do to help them out. If nothing seems to work, try family counseling.

I'm not exactly sure if I helped, and if I didn't, please leave feedback or an inbox question so I can further understand this situation. Thanks. =)

ok, so i think my neighbor is really hot. and when i see him i get these urges where i'm like i want to have sex with him really bad. thing is we've never talked and he is like maybe 5 years older than me..but im not a minor so it wouldnt be illegal if things were to happen. but its drives me insane that i keep getting these sexual thoughts about my neighbor and i dont know what to do...can anyone help??

Start talking to him. Say hi everyday & up it to conversations & whatnot. Exchange numbers, hang out, & see what happens.

I was over at this one guys house i have commented him on myspace and stuff. Anyway I was at his house last night and I grabbed a tissue and went to the kitchen to throw it away..I was in the kitchen with him alone and I was like wheres your garbage? And he pointed over to where it was with this big smile on his face [he was standing in the way with the fridge open so he closed it and smiled at me to let me pass through]. I threw out that tissue and I went to walk away and he grabbed strawberries out of the fridge he was like hey you want a strawberry? And he opened them for me and held them out to me. I was like sure and I grabbed one and then i was like thank you and smiled @ him he was all smiling at me. Prior to that he whispered something to his friend... I wonder if it was about me because why else would he do that and not just say something out in the open? Like when i was in the kitchen I wanted to say know just cuz i was shy but I just said Sure I surprised myself i totally went out of my comfort zone but now its like thats not weird anymore.

do you think he was trying to flirt with me?

do you think he's interested?

what should i do now?

I honestly think he's trying to seduce you. Seduce is a hardcore word, but in this case, it fits.

I mean, he grabs strawberries & just hands them to you. Strawberries are sexy fruits. [Yeah, I am completely serious].

My guess? He's interested. Keep talking to him.

does aaron gillespie really have aids?

If you know anything about Aaron Gillespie, you'd know that he's a determined, strong-willed Christian. That in terms probably means that he wouldn't have premarital sex, let alone unprotected sex.

So your answer: Nope.

What song is this?

Darling what is going on? Honestly, that never happened. Lying is your favorite passion. Leave me, go where you belong. Higher heels and lipstick napkins, dying is your latest fashion. The frustration, it's a regular thing, I hate the ones who love to hate because they're just like me.

thnks :)

Situations by Escape The Fate.

Good band. =)

First off I wanted to say that I love how honest your advice is. You tell it how it is, no sugar coating it. It's really good advice. Now my question :) I have SUPER thin straight hair. The only thing I know to do for it is well leave it straight. Do you know of anything I can do thats "cute" but will also last. (Pictures websites anything) Thanks :)

First off, thank you!

Your hair is naturally straight, correct? Or do you straighten it?

If it's naturally straight, I say you curl it. If you don't want it to be superboingyOMFG curly, then curl it loosely. In order to do that, make sure your hair is semiwet-semidry. Get your curly iron out, and then curl it. When you see your hair starting to go together on the iron, pull it apart [down] & then it'll make your curls looser when they come out. Do that about 5-6 inches from the top of your head & then when you're done, get your hairspray out & spray til you think you've used enough. After that, don't touch your hair or lay on it for about 15-20 minutes. If you think that isn't long enough, try a half hour.

I think that Google could possibly help with more hairstyles simply because I suck with hair alltogether & the most I'm good at is a messy bun, haha.

If that doesn't help, then I'm sorry. I'm not good with hair so I tried the best I could. =)

f/15...
i've had a couple bf's....and i've only made out once...now i'm single...i have alot of guy friends and i know this guy friend of mine who has a crush on me and he wants me to be his gf and he wants to make out and such..i want to...but i cant date...and i dont really want a steady bf right now...would it be bad to have a friend w/ benenfits?
i dont think he'd care but i dont want him to get hurt cause hes had a gf just never been kissed or anything. what are your thoughts?

By being fwb, he'll get the wrong idea & see you guys as more. He may even announce you as his girlfriend, even when you aren't.

I personally don't think fwb is a good idea. He already likes you, so he'll just fall for you more & he'll get hurt when he realizes that you don't see him that way. Do his heart a favor & stay friends. You're better off that way.

I want to put a love quote/poem in my info for my boyfriend, but the problem is I can't find any. I've found millions of pages on xanga, but all of them were depressing. Anyone know any GOOD places? Thanks!

www.wittyprofiles.com

I use it for all of my quotes.

what is an open relationship?

It means you can date other people, but still stay in the relationship.

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