i used to go out wid this kid(lets call him jordan)and then i broke up wid him because i found out he was cheating on me with this girl(lets call her becky)this was in around october novemeber and it ended in january and it turns out he was cheating on my for like a month and now jordan dumped kasey and now kasey still likes him but jordan likes me and he has since the 4th grade but im starting to have feeling for him again and my guy friend(lets call him mike)just recently told me he was gunna ask me out on monday and i like him but i dont kno if i can trust him because og him cheating on me the 1st time but i really really like him what should i do???
please help
sorry for the longness
If Jordan has cheated on you in the past, that tells you that there may be a possibilty that he will again. Even if he said he won't, there is always that chance, since he did it before. I think you should give Mike a chance and go out with him. If it doesn't work out, you could always go back out with Jordan, since he has been liking you for a long time and if you think he won't cheat on you again, then go out with him.
-Karen
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I made a promise with one of my cusins I dont know if I can keep it you know ... the promise is to keep my virginity till I am married what should I do I love the guy I am with right now
If you love this guy and if you think you are ready, lose your virginity to him. It's your choice and yes, your cousin is going to be mad at first, since you didn't keep your promise, but she isn't the one who makes your choices. If you don't want to hurt your cousin by doing this, then keep your promise because promises aren't meant to be broken.
-Karen
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13/f
i used to like this guy kyle and i dont anymore. im goin out with this guy named andrew and whenever i say anything about kyle even if its mean it seems to pissed andrew off... wat do i do?
You should stop talking about Kyle to Andrew because the reason why he seems pissed off is because a lot of guys don't like it when a girl talks about their ex-boyfriend to them. You need to tell yourself that you aren't with Kyle anymore and that your relationship with him was in the past and that you can't bring up the subject of him to Andrew.
-Karen
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people at school are starting to say i smell...
i dont understand, i wear deodorant and i wash with soap when im in the shower...i use shampoo and conditioner too so i cant think of what it could be. they have been saying this for a while and i used to think that they said it just to make me feel bad and it is starting to hurt my feelings...what can i do to smell better?
If you are doing everything right like using deoderant and taking a shower, then these people are just making you feel bad, since you said you don't know how you could smell. Maybe it's your breath that smells? If you think it is, start brushing your teeth more often and bring gum or mints to school. Try taking a shower in the morning, so you will smell fresh and not from the night before. You could also bring some body splash to school also. If these people have been saying this for a while, then they are just making you feel bad.
-Karen
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well me and my bf have been goin out for like a little more than 2 months and we really like each other... but he seems shy when it comes to kissing or something...wat does this mean?
It's alright for your boyfriend to be shy when it comes to kissing and such. Don't worry, he is just not comfortable with kissing someone, especially you, yet. Just wait until he feels that he is comfortable with kissing you and he won't be shy when it comes to kissing you. All guys are different, some aren't shy and some are when it comes to kissing.
-Karen
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There's this kid that I used to like named Nick. He is one of those kids who lives to annoy you. In Language Arts my teacher always puts us close and he rides the same bus as me (he lives 2 min away). He's backed dwn on annoying everybody else, but he still annoys me. He's started sitting in the seat in front of me on the bus and talking to me.. but in the kind of "we're in 7th grade and i hate you and you hate me" kind of feud. He runned his fingers through my hair when he was passing by my seat and one of his friends told me that he liked me (a popular girl named sarah that i don't really know). He has a gf but he still asks me whats wrong when i seem tired and he taps me on the head with his book on the way into the classroom in homeroom. Does he like me? I think i like him again... what should i do?
It sounds like this guy does like you, since he has been annoying you lately and always wants to know whats wrong when you seem tired and such. If a guy runs his fingers through your hair, that tells you that he does. If you like this guy and if he likes you, then ask him out. Talk to him and tell him how you feel. When a guy likes a girl, sometimes he annoys her. If he has been trying to get close to you, that also tells you that he likes you. Just talk to him and tell him how you feel and ask him out.
-Karen
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hey well my friend didnt get her period yet and she masterbates can that slow down the process? (she hasnt done that in a long time though) also can a dr. tell if you have dont it (masterbate) after a year or show or does it go away? p.s shes a girl 13 going on 14 soon
No, masturbation does not stop your from getting your period and it won't slow down the process either. A gynecologist (gyno) cannot tell if you masturbate but if your friend has cut herself, somehow, by masturbating, then a gyno will assume that she does.
-Karen
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I'm 13 years old, 4 11and a half and weight about 120lbs.. i know i weigh too much and i've decided i want to louse atleast 15 pounds. I bought slim fast the other day and i was wondering if it really works and how fast and idk, anything about it really. Plus, any other tips to help me lous weight would b great. thanx
Slim Fast does work, but not for everyone, and it will take a while to see results. To lose weight, you need to eat healthy, watch what you eat, and exercise daily. Start drinking lots of water and eat foods with low carbs and calories. Eating 5 small meals, rather than 3 big ones, will help you lose 15 pounds. When you are done eating, do some cardio exercises such as jump roping, running, or jogging to get your heart pumping and then switch off to regular exercises that will tone the areas of your body that you want to tone.
-Karen
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how do see the anwsers to the questions u already asked? please IM me at keystonefreak27 and tell me
Just click on "Your Questions" on the left side panel and then click on the question that you want to see the answers to it. If you don't know how to click on the question, click on the number that tells you how many answers there are to that number.
-Karen
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im 13 and i dont have my peroid yet and lately i have been having red blood spots about the size of a penny...is it my peroid coming soon or is it an infection??
please help
It sounds like you are going to get your period soon or you are starting it. But if you get discolored discharge and it hurts when you urinate, then it may be a yeast infection. But don't worry, it's probably your period that is coming soon.
-Karen
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Ok, i know this is a sexual thing but i didn't know where else to find answers so here i go:
1) After you get your cherry popped, is it natuural for the next couple of times while engaging in seual activities like getting fingered or intercoarse for you to still bleed? and how long should go on for?
2) Can you get pregnant from swallowing cum?
3) Is it possible that if neither you or or partner has an STD and you have unprotected sex (but still using birth control) that you can get an STD?
Thanks in advance to everyone who answers this question. I will rate high.
please dont delete this question, its important to me for it to be answered, and i just want to be safe and know. (im not sure if this is a question you guys usual delete)
1.) Yes, it is normal and natural for a girl to bleed for a few days, after having her cherry popped (hymen torn). It doesn't happen to a lot of girls but it is normal. The bleeding will stop within a day or two, depending on how much you bleed and such.
2.) No, you cannot get pregnant by swallowing cum because in order to get pregnant, sperm needs to enter a girl's vagina. But you can get an STD from swallowing cum.
3.) If both you and your partner do not have any STDs, then no, you cannot get one. Both of you can only get one if one of you has an STD.
Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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Okay kiddos...this probley sounds really lame...but There is this guy and he is a grade below me....well ne ways me and him talkled on the fun Frday and Saturday last weekend and we say hi to each other at school....well ne ways his friends keep asking me if I like him and i was like yea...and then he and i were talking and he said he wants to get to know me better....but i want to know if i should ask him out or not!! HELP!
If he wants to get you know you better, it means that he can't ask you out right now, since he doesn't know you that well. You should ask him out but wait until you get to know him before you do.
-Karen
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14/m i kinda like this girl but i don't know if i want to go to go out with her. The reason i don't want to go out with her is that i don't know what my friends will think. I know that sounds bad but i don't know if i can choose her over keeping my reputation with my friends. I think she might ask me out and i don't know what to do. please help.
It really doesn't matter what your friends think; just because she may ruin your reputation with your friends, it would be mean if you didn't ask her out. Would you rather go out with a girl because you like her or would you rather not go out with her, just because your reputation with your friends will change? If you like her and if she likes you, then go out with her and ignore your friends with what they think and say because you are the only one who can make the choices in your life and no else can. When she does ask you out, say yes but make sure you like her.
-Karen
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Hey you guys i have a shag and sometimes it gets relly frizzy what could i do to help that?
Try buying a hair balm that smooths and defrizzes your hair. Anything by Paul Mitchell is great. Don't worry, it's not only for girls, you just don't hear any guys buying it. There are other hair products that both women and men can use and you just need to look around for them.
-Karen
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their is this guy i have liekd for a really long time. hes alsome. the other day i ended up going to his house an we ended up making out and it got around to everybody at school an he didnt dis agree with it. then liek a week later he called me and was liek do you want to come over an help me with my project and when i got their he wgoes im not in them odd to do this. so when ended up making out. an he goes i tohught you didnt like me. and i was liek i dont know mabey i do. then i was liek i tohught you didnt liek me either. and he goes i take wut i can get? and i was liek what does that mean an then in a really cute voice he goes .. baby ur so blonde. wut does i take what i can get mean?
"I take what I can get" basically means that this guy can get who ever he wants and he is using you. When he said that, he meant that he can get you to do what he wants. You shouldn't let a guy use you like this. If you keep on doing this, you are only going to hurt yourself in the end.
-Karen
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the guy i like with all my heart is mad at me and i dont noe why. i tryed talking to him but all i got was him cussing me out. then i tryed calling and trying to find out what i did wrong and all i got was him telling me not to be stupid and that i noe what i did when i have no idea what i did. i dont noe what to do?? i am sad bc i really like this guy and this is what i get. i have known him for a year now. plz help ??????
Well since talking to him yourself didn't work out, you should get one of your friends to ask him why he is mad at you and what you did to him that made him mad. Or you can ask one of this guy's close friends and they might tell you.
-Karen
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So I like this guy, right, and I think this other girl may like him, too. I was waiting for class and my friend asked my friend who may also like him if she did his make-up for the play. It was in that "Oooooh" tone of voice. I also think that my crush is much more likely to like her than he is to like me. I want to ask my crush if he likes the other girl. We are friends though. So I would make it sound like curiosity and not because I like him or anything. Should I ask him?
Yes, you should ask him if he lieks this other girl, since you two are friends and you are just "curious." You are just wondering so it shouldn't be a big deal.
-Karen
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What are some really good exercises that get your heart pumping that you can do when it's kinda cold?? It's in the 20's or 30's. I want to stay in shape for fitness testing. thanx, i rate all 5's.
You can do cardio exercises such as jump roping, running, or jogging. These are some exercises that will help get your heart to pump so you can stay in shape.
-Karen
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i have windows XP and i have 2 accounts. i would like to swich all of my folder onto the other account but how do i do that? thanks for your help!
I don't have Windows XP so I don't know how you would do that, sorry.
-Karen
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how do u lose 10 pounds in 3 months!!!!!?!?!?!!? please help!!
To lose 10 pounds in 3 months, you need to do three simple things when trying to lose weight; you need to eat healthy, watch what you eat and how much you eat, and exercise daily. Start eating 5 small meals instead of 3 big ones. This will make your metabolism faster and so does eating differently each day. Start drinking lots of water and eat low carb and calorie foods. Running, jogging, jump roping, and other cardio exercises will help you reach your goal. If you want to know more, feel free to ask me.
-Karen
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