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13/f
i used to like this guy kyle and i dont anymore. im goin out with this guy named andrew and whenever i say anything about kyle even if its mean it seems to pissed andrew off... wat do i do?
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Stop talking about kyle because you might end up losing andrew and it seems to me you dont want to lose andrew.
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The solution is easy, stop talking about him. Your boyfriend doesn't want to know you are thinking about some other guy, wether they are good or bad thoughts.
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OK, dont say thngs about Kyle anymore, because if you like this guy, i dont think he wants to hear about Kyle. Even if its mean, your thinking about him, and if you talk about him alot, then i think oyu might still like him. If you think wht i am saying is stupid, o well bc some1 would stop talking about their EX. Don't let Kyle come ot your mind, and if he does see if u still like him.
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Why would you talk about another guy in front of your boyfriend that you used to like? that's really rude...
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You should stop talking about Kyle to Andrew because the reason why he seems pissed off is because a lot of guys don't like it when a girl talks about their ex-boyfriend to them. You need to tell yourself that you aren't with Kyle anymore and that your relationship with him was in the past and that you can't bring up the subject of him to Andrew.
-Karen
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Well, you have two options. You can either not talk about Kyle in front of Andrew, or you can tell Andrew politely but firmly that you can't pretend Kyle doesn't exist and if his name comes up in conversation then he just has to deal with it without being childish and getting annoyed with you. You are likely to get the best results if you use a little of both tactics. Recognise that nobody really wants to hear excessive amounts about their current current dates old crushes or relationships, and so perhaps tone down your talk about Kyle a little bit, but, if your new boyfriend is just being silly and over the top every time Kyle is mentioned, don't hesitate to tell him that he's not behaving that maturely, and that though you did like Kyle, you don't any more so there isn't any reason for him to get annoyed when you mention him. If he still behaves badly even if you talk about Kyle less and talk to him about his behaviour, then perhaps he's not ready for a relationship with you.
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