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falling for him....again


Question Posted Thursday February 24 2005, 9:56 pm

i used to go out wid this kid(lets call him jordan)and then i broke up wid him because i found out he was cheating on me with this girl(lets call her becky)this was in around october novemeber and it ended in january and it turns out he was cheating on my for like a month and now jordan dumped kasey and now kasey still likes him but jordan likes me and he has since the 4th grade but im starting to have feeling for him again and my guy friend(lets call him mike)just recently told me he was gunna ask me out on monday and i like him but i dont kno if i can trust him because og him cheating on me the 1st time but i really really like him what should i do???

please help

sorry for the longness


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Karen answered Friday February 25 2005, 11:10 am:
If Jordan has cheated on you in the past, that tells you that there may be a possibilty that he will again. Even if he said he won't, there is always that chance, since he did it before. I think you should give Mike a chance and go out with him. If it doesn't work out, you could always go back out with Jordan, since he has been liking you for a long time and if you think he won't cheat on you again, then go out with him.
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Courckypooh answered Friday February 25 2005, 9:31 am:
He asks you out, say no and give a reason. If he seriously wants you back, he'll make himself better by fixing the problem. If he doesn't fix it, he's not worth it to you.

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FunkyHoMoSapien answered Thursday February 24 2005, 11:48 pm:
go out with mike. it's that easy. unless... you like Jordan so much more that you would rather be with him, but i still wouldn't risk it... i would ask mike out (remember i'm a guy, PRETENDING i was in your stiuation). well i how it all works out and that you make the right choice.
peace from the monkey.

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3__oNLyiNadReaM__3 answered Thursday February 24 2005, 11:32 pm:
If he broke your heart before, chances are he will do it again. Most likely he thinks that you can trust and before you know it you will have had your heart broken again. I would try to move on because as hard as it sounds, he doesnt sound like hes for you.

x0x-Sarah

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IPIiINIkI_my_anti_drug answered Thursday February 24 2005, 11:00 pm:
Hey, I wouldnt take my chances with jordan again. I would try it with mike though.
♥ Michelle

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