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14/f

So I have sweaty palms all the time, no matter how cold it is. Now, I was going to put deoderant on my hands, but on the instruction label, it says "underarms only". Am I going to get a rash or something if I put deoderant on my hands? Or is there some other (inexpensive) product I should be buying?

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There is this thing called Certain Dri or Drysol. They work really good. It sounds like you might have hyperhydrosis (it's when your sweat glands work too much). They are around 13 dollars and last 3 months!

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Umm! Well a guy lent me his and I have no idea how to wash them! Can you just shove it in with a normal 40 degree wash or should I hand wash it or??
Heeelp! lol

Just put it in normal wash.

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Alot of people smoke weed. Even my boyfriend used to but i made him quit. Even my parents do. For some reason i dont like weed. Ive never really tried it. But knowing my parents do it makes me think bad about them. It makes me think why do they do it but they are supposed to set a good example. Most of my friends do it too. I guess im just a good girl. But my boyfriend tries to convince me that theres nothing wrong with it. And i never agree and i dont think its right. Its a drug and im ashamed of everyone that does it. I dont know why though. Is there somthing wrong with me? anything will help! but please dont leave me rude comments.

Love-KMR

Good for you that you don't smoke weed. Don't give in to pressure. You are doing an amazing job. I can't say I've ever heard of anyone that has parents that smoke weed and they haven't even tried it. There is definitely nothing wrong with you. You are very smart. Weed is illegal and is very bad for your health.

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I have this boyfriend name william and we've been going out for a month and two weeks well we have been not talking that much and i hang out with him all the time but i call all the time and he never picks up so i worry if he is hanging out with his ex-girlfriends because before we went out he had always cheated on his girlfriends and i am worried if he is doing that to me.he says that he really likes me but i worry if just using me?what should do

He might be doing that. Once a cheater, always a cheater. Don't listen to a guy if he tells you he won't cheat on you if he has a past of doing that. You really need to talk to him. If he denies it and you still don't believe him, you can always ask his ex if they have been hanging out. He shouldn't be ignoring you at all.

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alright im 15.f is that helps.
so i have a boyfriend who i totally love, but i cant help it but have a little crush on this guy. the guy i have a crush on i THINK likes me hes constantly flirting and calls me too. i mean i wouldnt break up with my boyfriend for him, but i think about him alot and really like hanging out with him. any advice on what to do- thanks!

Obviously you don't love your boyfriend as much as you say you do if you have feelings for another guy. If I were you, I would break up wtih your boyfriend. It will only cause trouble for you too. He will realize that you are talking to this guy on the phone and hanging out with him alot and he will probably get pissed. Then you two will be fighting and everything. You could always go single and flirt with both of them. I really don't know what to tell you but either stop flirting with the other guy or dump your boyfriend. Sorry, hope I have helped.

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I want to walk into my babysitting job with the kds running up to me saying yay _____ here! How any tips? I'll rate you high for trying

Play games with them whenever you are there. Be extra nice to them and pretty much give them whatever they want. Make it fun for them and don't yell.

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do you think it's bad to but everyone the same thing for christmas? like all of your friends?

Yea it shows that you didn't put alot of thought and effort into your gift shopping. Some of your friends might get offended, it all depends on the person who is receiving the gift.

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So my acne is really red. What kind of makeup do i put on to make it close to my skin color. I don't know what to use...I have really dry skin too.

It's a green concealer. I know, green! But it works really good hiding your blemishes. After you put on the green make up (it comes in like a lipstick looking tube) then put on normal concealer. I use True Blend by Maybeline. Then you can put powder on top of that too. I used Clinique.

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i am 13/f. Well theres this guys that i love. we are good friends we can tell each other pretty much anything cause we are going through pretty much the same stuff. and well he really likes my twin sister and he dosnt know i like him but my sister is always getting in the way of me ever getting a guy cause once they see my sister they like her and not me cause of her looks and body.
my sister also likes him and she knows how i feel about him and there about to go out with each other. what do i do?

Tell your sister how much you really do like him and you really don't want her ruining it for you this time. If she doesn't stop, don't tell her who you like in the future. If a guy really liked you, he would go for you. Obviously they only like your sister for her looks.

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ok, so i like this boy. he's a friend of mine, and i guess you can say that we know each other pretty well. we have fun when we're together, and that's what matters to me. i started liking him about a month ago, and ever since then, i felt like he likes me back, but i don't wanna assume that he does. i only told two of my closest friends that. one of them told me that she kinda thought that i do, and the other one asked if she can tell the person i like that i like him. at first i said no, because last year when i friend of mine liked him, and she told him, they never really spoke to each other. i don't want that to happen to us, because i really do think that friendship is better than a serious relationship. i don't want us to not have the friendship we have now to vanish just because of a crush. i wanna know SO BAD who he likes though. not for the sake of knowing if he likes me or not [[well, prob. partly because of that]], but mostly because i wanna know if he still likes my friend that he's been liking ever since last year. what do you think i should do? PLEASE HELP ME!

Take a chance. Find out if he does like you. You may regret it in the future because maybe he really does like you. I am sure you two will still be friends if he doesn't like you more than a friend, but I am sure he feels the same way about you as you do about him.

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I need to get cover-up, powder cover-up, eye liner, mascara, and a shine control moisturizer. What are the best possible products(brand names) i can get all under $50! Thanks

True Blend (cover up) 7$
Clinique (powder cover up) 15$
Bonne Bell or NYC (eyeliner) 1$
Maybeline Double Lift Mascara 6$
Clean and Clear Dual Shine control Moisturizer. 5$

total= 34$

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Okay so im going out with this guy, and i really like him a lot. but theres this other girl that he liked a lot before and they are like really good friends and he talkes to her more than me. He tells me he doesnt like her more than a friend but i think hes lying to me. I know that she still likes him. do you think he likes her and is just going out with me for laughs?

I think he likes you, but he still likes her. I mean if he liked her before and he talks to her more than he talks to his GIRLFRIEND, yeah I think he definitely still likes her.

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i like this 1 girl more then a friend but she has a bf and a couple of my frinds are saying im obsest with her but im not.they say i am because i hang out with her alot and i sit beside her everyday in school at lunch.plz help
what should i do.

You aren't obsessed with her. If you were obsessed, you'd have her pictures everywhere, you would try to talk to her every second you could, and you would talk about her to everyone all the time. Just because you hang out with her and sit with her just means you like her. Just ignore your so called friends.

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ok well there is this guy and he got pissed off at me and my friend

and so i was tlaking to him and stuff i asked him why he wass being so meana dn wut we did and he said he didnt hate us and i asked if he ever likes someone(my friend)and he was like well i liked u more thn her

and soo i fell really bad that he liked me not her wut should i do should i tell her or just keep it a secret?

If you were your friend, would you want to know? I would definitely tell your friend if I were you. It's better for her to know sooner than later so her feelings don't keep getting stronger. It's better for her to know he doesn't like her than her thinking that he might and leading her on.

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Okay so the past week I started to have to use the bathroom a lot and there was like a burning fealing but then when I would go to the bathroom there wouldn't a lot of pee. So then on tuesday I got a head ace
And a stomac ace my mom said it was a bladder or kiddney infection cause a lot of people in our family have had that so she made me drink a whole gallon of cranberry juice. I was also going through "I'm so fat I have to stop eating" stage. Then on tuesday it was much better but I still had a stomach ace so we went to the docters. She had me you know pee in the little cup. Then she came back and said that it came back fine but she wanted to send it out just to make sure. Okay now I am better now I still get a little dizy when I sitt up but that's all except for an ocasional kiddney pain. Okay now I read on a website the signs of being pregnet befor. But right befor I got sick I had my period . I have only had it for a year but my 2 best friends had theirs at the same time when I didn't. Okay now about a year ago I think. I let my dog lick me down there. Then my brother saw and he said that he had let our dog lick him befor to. This disturbed me but it felt funny when the dog licked me so I let him lick me again then one time I saw the dog licking my brother. Now I know that my brother didn't you know cum in the dogs mouth. I know for a fact he didn't but anyways I let the dog lick me after he had licked my brother. Is there any chance I could be pregnant or is it just a bladder infection like my mom said? Oh and one more thing my mom said it was good to drink a lot of fluids so she had me drinking water and juice a lot. So for the past few days I can't tell if I am bloted or if I am getting fater cause I might be pregnant. But I pushed on my stomach and it went in but I could only hold it in for like 5 seconds then I like farted throught my vagina. Is this a sign of being bloted or pregnant?

-sacred

Pregnancy takes a long time to show in your stomach. You won't look pregnant for about 4 months into the pregnancy. I think you may be just bloated. Wait for the tests to come back to see what is it!

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So I got in a fight with this guy that I was basicly seeing and it was because I got jelouse when i heard he was hanging out with other girls. I really want him back cause Im head over heals for him.
What can I do to get him back?

Apologize for being so irrational. You can't help getting jealous though, but you can help how you show it. Just tell him that you don't like when he hangs out with other girls. Try not to show your jealousy so much next time. Sorry and I hope everything is fine.

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15/f
So i'm in highschool right now. And a freshman. I'm here with..i guess you can say..my best friend(K). So we met new people and stuff and all that. "K" met this one girl who i thought was really nice and cool(B). *K* gave me "B"'s screen name. So i decided to talk to her a little bit.

I have this thing on my phone where if i'm not online, they can still IM me. So "B" IM's me and shes all like "Hey" and i'm like "who is this" and shes like "its B" and im like ohh hey wuts up?! and then she just started being rude! I was just simply talking to her and all of a sudden shes like "who is this?" and i didn't respond because i was on my cell phone. So then she kept on sending me messages and shes like "WHO IS THIS!" "HELLO..I ASKED YOU A QUESTION..YOU KNOW WHAT..NEVER MIND!" and i was like "It's A.." and she's like "I SAID NEVER MIND!" . And i was like..um okay. And then she said "i have to go". and i didn't respond(i was still on the phone). and then shes like HELLO! and i was like..i thought you had to go..and shes like oh fine be that way. bye! and i didn't say anything. At first i thought it was her little sister. But i still don't know.

So then i called my best friend and shes like "ohh..why would she do that?" and i was like "i don't know its not like i did anything to her..you better talk to her 2morrow" and so we hung up. BUT MY BEST FRIEND DIDN'T TALK TO HER THE DAY AFTER.(They have 1st period p.e). And my best friend and "B" act like it didn't happen!

So three days ago, we went to some stupid thing for extra credit. At first, it was me and my best friend. Then. As soon as i was getting in the car,i notice "B" in the back! I was like"heyyyy..".. and at first i was trying to be all like nothing happened.. but then it got to me. i was sitting then next to the right side of me was "B" and then next to "B" was my best friend. I was all making jokes and stuff. Then i just decided to watch the thing. Then my best friend started making all these jokes and making "B" laugh. I was just sitting there being ignored by both. And when my best friend said something funny, and i didn't hear it, she would ask "B" to tell me and then "B" was just like..i'll tell her later. And i was like..wtf..in my mind. Trust me, i got sooo fuckin bored while i was watching the thing and you just kept on hearing these 2 girls next to me laughing and shit. It's not like my best friend made an effort into talking to me that night and plus..she didn't tell me "B" was comming. I mean, i know i shouldn't be mad because of that, but she just keeps on acting like im okay with the girl. When im really not.

So anyways, yesterday, my best friend's parents were leaving to go to some casino thing. And shes like "I don't want to stay here all alone..im scared!!" and i was like "ohhhh that sucks". and shes like "I tried to call "B" and everyone else..but they were all busy." And i thought she was going to invite me, BUT SHE DIDN'T! She was just like " i don't want to invite anyone else.!" ..i was like..umm..hello!?!

Oh my god this is like fucking eating me apart. What should i do? It's so stupid. I know i should get over it, but i can't! Please tell me what to do!

You really have to talk to your friend. It's obviously not getting through to her that you don't like 'B'. Tell her that it really bothers you when she leaves you out to talk to her and when she invites 'B' and doesn't even tell you when she knows that you don't like 'B'. Tell her that you feel like you are growing apart because of that girl. I am sure she will then realize how she has been treating you. Good luck with everything.

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I have contacts and I want to get my naisl done but how will I be able to take out my contacts? Does anyone have there nails done and has contacts?

It will be hard at first, but you will get used to it. I think it's easier because it's easier to grip the contact.

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Ok, me and my best friend Katie, in 5th and 6th grade ((We're in 7th now)) we were in almost all of the same classes. This year we only see each other for not even half in hour whenever we help out teachers in the morning. Anyway, one day last week she asked me, "Are we still buying Christmas presents for one another?" You see, since the beginning of the year, we've been drifting apart since we don't have any classes, and her friend she's known since she was practially born goes to our school now, she never spends time with me. And the other day she asked me if i liked her boyfriend. He's my ex and one of my best guy friends and he's in my 2 longest classes and my elective. And I told her the truth and I think she's mad but she doesn't act like it. And now, we don't even talk on the internet anymore. I don'y really know what my question is though. I'm sorry, but since her mom died, she doesn't even act like anything has happened its weird.

5's for anything that'll help

Okay well, she has no reason to be mad at you for liking her boyfriend. He was your boyfriend before he was hers. If you want to keep your friendship, talk to her more on the phone or online. Start hanging out with her more too. Talk to her about your ex boyfriend and explain that you can't help who you like and remind her that he was your boyfriend at one point. When some people's parents die, they tend to act like nothing has happened. They want to erase that bad memory, so that's why she acts like nothing happened. Hope I helped?

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i am completely over my ex..but it still bugs me because my sister is a year younger than me..and he is a year older..and they still talk to each other. she definitely doesn't like him..and he doesn't like her either..but it gets me really pissed off. like she always tells me all the funnny stuff he does in their study. or tells me about how they joke around about being mean to each other. i feel like she tells me purposely to rub it in my face. my mom says not to worry about it because its his way of staying connected to me. he always said he was afraid of my sister when we were together. now, we barely ever talk. when we do, we can talk forever about random stuff, or we have absolutely nothing to talk about. we haven't really talked much in person..except when he tells me something about my sister. i just want him to either really be friends with me like he says he wants to be or just completely leave my life. i don't like him sort of being there.

so basically, do i just deal with it..or say something? and what would i say to who?

Just be friends with him. Chances are your sister and him are still going to talk to each other. You can try talking to your sister saying not to bring him up and just ignore him when he talks to you. Or, you can just start talking to him again and be friends so then everyone is happy.

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