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My 'best' friend
Ok, me and my best friend Katie, in 5th and 6th grade ((We're in 7th now)) we were in almost all of the same classes. This year we only see each other for not even half in hour whenever we help out teachers in the morning. Anyway, one day last week she asked me, "Are we still buying Christmas presents for one another?" You see, since the beginning of the year, we've been drifting apart since we don't have any classes, and her friend she's known since she was practially born goes to our school now, she never spends time with me. And the other day she asked me if i liked her boyfriend. He's my ex and one of my best guy friends and he's in my 2 longest classes and my elective. And I told her the truth and I think she's mad but she doesn't act like it. And now, we don't even talk on the internet anymore. I don'y really know what my question is though. I'm sorry, but since her mom died, she doesn't even act like anything has happened its weird.
5's for anything that'll help
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well..different people recover from losses of parents differently..i bet it really does hurt her inside but she is acting happy around her friends so no one will notice...believe me..i lost someone..i act happy..but inside it still hurts...so idk what you should do really..i think that if you like him...then be like sorry i like him..but i wont make a move unless you guys break up...also tell her how you feel..call her sometimes to hang out..you guys really should become better friends again..
HOPE I HELPED!
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i THiNK iTS PRETTY DUMB FOR HER TO BE MAD AT YOU. YOU HAD HiM FiRST, AND SO WHAT iF YOU STiLL LiKE HiM. iF YOU WANT YOU AND HER TO STiLL BE BEST FRiENDS YOU MAY WANT TO TRY MAYBE BRiNGiNG UP GOOD OLD MEMORiES YOU GUYS HAD TOGETHER, iNViTE HER OVER MORE, START CALLiNG HER MORE OFTEN, OFFER TO HELP ON A PROJECT OR SOMETHiNG LiKE THAT. AND iF SHE EVER TALKS ABOUT HER MOM, COMFORT HER..BUT SHE MiGHT NOT ACT LiKE ANYTHiNG iS WRONG BECAUSE SHE DOESNT WANT TO THiNK ABOUT iT, SHE WiSHES iT NEVER HAPPEND. i HOPE i HELPED.
♥ morgan
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Okay well, she has no reason to be mad at you for liking her boyfriend. He was your boyfriend before he was hers. If you want to keep your friendship, talk to her more on the phone or online. Start hanging out with her more too. Talk to her about your ex boyfriend and explain that you can't help who you like and remind her that he was your boyfriend at one point. When some people's parents die, they tend to act like nothing has happened. They want to erase that bad memory, so that's why she acts like nothing happened. Hope I helped?
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