heyy...heather here!
what i like to do--
*give advice to mi friends when they have problems
*write novels
*play basketball on a traveling team for my town
*play rectriation softball
*watch baseball
*go to the mall
*talk on my cell phone!
*go one aim
*pick up guys!
--mi favorite mood is..hmmm..cute
im such a girlly girl..
lovin life is what i do best!
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Location: UNITED STATES
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Age: 14
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i have a wonderful bf of one month. we were friends beforehand for 8 months..we got so close..we have so much respect for one another and such a strong bond.
the problem? last night i was drinking with a bunch of friends..some of our guy friends wound up coming over. i was the drunkest i have ever been..i went up from behind 2 of my guy friends and hugged them from behind and my hand went over their crotch area. a little while later the guilt sunk in and i feel so horrible. i told my bf and he doesnt know what to think, he said we will talk today. my queestion : if this were to happen to you what would you do? what can i do to make this better? im thinking like making a solid promise to NOT drink again for as long as we are together... any other suggestions? what i did..is this understandable or is theere no excuse?
ive liked my bf for soo long..since the summer..and i finally got what i have wanted for so long. i dont want to ruin this relationship!!!!! i DONT cheat..what i did..that wasnt me!! i feel like crap omgg :(
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you must be someone really honest and caring if you told him about that straight up. I think that he will probably forgive you if he loves you. He should realize that you were drunk and that you love him so much.
good for you that you are completely honest in a relationship.
HOPE I HELPED LITTLE!
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Alright so I know people ask this a lot but hey help me out too. So there's this guy who we can call Joe and we were both at a party last night. Well I got really tired so I decided to go lie on the couch and he was there so I used his arm for a pillow. Well, I gradually got more comfortable and so did he and he had his hand on my stomach and he was playing with my arm all cute and stuff and we were holding hands (with the one that was on my stomach) and everytime hed get up hed come back and get in the same position again. We're friends and that's just not how our friendship is like if I give him a hug in the hall hes like "Oh hey Susan." and its just a brief hug. Do you guys think he likes me as more than a friend? I think I like him as more than one so I don't want to get my hopes up.
Thanks
PS when I was asleep on him he whispered to my friend and asked her if I liked him if that means anything (link)
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of course the PS meant something...i think he likes you...GO FOR IT!
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what do you do when a guy you dont know and its like a internet relationship and like you're not even that close and he just pops and asks wil you marry me??????????? what should i do????????? (link)
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i think you should say no...that guy could be like a 60 year old pervert for all you know!
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Okay, my mom has a friend who has a son. They came over one night and this was the first time I have met him before, he kept on staring at me or just looking at me in the eyes a lot. That night he asked his mom for my e-mail adress and I got an e-mail from him saying " you looked amazing the other night and I think ur really cool, I want to get to know you better," or "do you have a boyfriend" or "what are you most like? Calm and collective, or wild and crazy?"
and stuff like that and I just dont know... is he interested in me?? He's a senior in High School and I am a freshman. What should I do?!?! (link)
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I THINK YOU SHOULD GO FOR IT!!!!he is obviousely attracted for you..just dont make it obviouse you know...keep it cool....GREAT FOR YOU!!!
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Is it a total turn off to guys if a gurl dosent walk the same (sright normal ,but still can walk and dance) way. But i mean she can still talk and is nice and stuff and has average body? Ill rate five for thought out anser. (link)
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NO!..a guy could care less how a girl walks..i think all that he is looking at is a body n a personality....go for it!
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ok i want to start making aim icons but i have no idea how to please help me i rate 5s (link)
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okay...go to www.iconator.com if you want to find a hott icon...or you can go to www.iconfun.com if you want to make one..also..on the right side of the screen on www.iconfun.com it has other icon websites..good luck!!!!
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okay. 15/f. so ive been in a tangle of relationships latel. my boyfriend of 1 year broke up with me less than 2 weeks ago. so just last weekend i thought okay. im getting over you so im going to go out and have some fun. well. he did the same thing. i didnt care at all but he called up one of my friends all mad bc i was out with another guy. i explained to him he cant tie me down nemore bc we arent dating. well get got mad at me. so then this tuesday he got a new girlfriend. againg. i dont even care. and hes trying to make me jealous!! because i was with the other guy. is there anyother weay i can tell him im not going to get jealous of him and his new girfriend and he cant get mad at me for being with another guy, because ive tryed talking to him and ignoring hiom. but it didnt work. AND hes been spreading rumors about me. and its making me hate him. ive tried being nice but its not working.(he thinks im trying to get on him when im nice) ive tryed ignoring him. but he just gets mad. ive tryed being mean back but then he spreads rumors. and tells people everything ive told him. SO IM JUST SICK OF IT AND DO NOT KNOW WHAT TO DO ABOUT ALL THE DRAMA HES CAUSING.
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i think that you should call him up and be like..hi..alright..i am not trying to get up on you or anything..im just sick of fucking fighting all the time with you...i dont know how else to let you know that i dont care if you have another girlfriends..and you really shoulnd get mad at me for being with another guy because WE ARE OVER!!!..and then listen to what he has to say....
HOPE I HELPED!
TELL ME WHAT HAPPENS!
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i have this amazing boyfriend who i love talking on the phone with for hours and i love him now i no this is going to sound shallow but whenever i see him i think ew how ugly cause he got pimples should i break up with him or what i need help cause i am seeing him in like 2 weeks 13/f >3 (link)
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DONT BREAK UP WITH HIM!..ohh emm gee...look...i have some pimples..and you cant just poof them away..im sure he doesnt like them...HE DOESNT HAVE A CHOICE...use commen sence please!
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ok...im 13/f and well i had a bf this last summer and he broke up with me but the thing is he was perfect for me . i no everyone says that but he really was everything i could ask for in a guy and i had liked him for about 2 years. when he broke up with me i was devastated and i still haven't gotten over him and he promised we would be friends but whenever i try to talk to him on aim he signs off. and i can't stop thinking about him. he's always on my mind. like when the song we belong together comes on it makes me cry b/c that was the first song that we danced to and im just ready to get over. help (link)
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aww..im sorry..it is hard to get over someone..i think what you need to do is find someone else and see what happens...maybe HE will get jelouse...
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why are you so dalmb sexy when you answer all these stupid questions..you make me want to lick you! (link)
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i am who i am!
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do u think my frend is still my frend even though he doesnt even talk to me????? (link)
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maybe...i it depends on if he ignores you or if he just doesnt talk to you..if he ignores u he probably doesnt like you but if he just doent talk to you he probably likes you!
HOPE I HELPED CELIN..I MEAN ANNONAMOUSE PERSON!
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i asked this girl in school if she would go out with me she said yes and then like 2 or 1 month later she brock up with me do u think she still likes me or do u think she likes someone else (link)
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i am very sorry to say that i think she likes someone else..because she wouldnt have broke up with you for nothing...im sorry...
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Could this be a possible sign of a STD?
I have this open, gaping wound in my mouth. It's more like a hole inside my mouth. A lot of the time it's white, but you can see it going into my mouth.
I've been sexually active, but not in the past month and this has just appeared in the last week.
My boyfriend I am 99.99% sure that he is STD free because I'm the only one he's bee sexually active with.
Could this just be a severe canker sore? Or possibly I bit my lip and didn't remember? Or is there a chance it's a STD.
If you have any idea what an oral STD might look like, I'd like to know that too.
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i think you need to go to the doctors!
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just monday my boyfriend and me had a fight.You see on sunday i called him and his sister answered and she was telling me that my boyfriend and his ex-girlfriend ericka had a relationship ever since we were going out but she ever found out about are relationship and the next day he was telling me that he was not cheating on me. But i did not believe so i asked his friend that he never lies to if he was telling the truth so he was but because of his past it interfere our relationship and on tuesday he wrote a letter saying that he still liked me and never would cheat on me at the end of the letter he asked if i trust him and i said yes so ever since that day me and him are still going out but now i am still having thoughts if he is still liking any of his ex's but now he is backing away from his friends that are gurls and his ex's. I am wondering if i did the right thing. (link)
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i think you did the right thing...also..little sisters dont always tell the truth..for all you know she could have been mad at her brother or something..trust is needed in a relationship.
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ive been hanging out with my friend lets call him mat...and hes always looking at me and smiling and when were with all our friends..he could be talking to everyone but hes only looking at me...
he was talking about hooking up with this girl named shelby..and when he was saying it he kept looking at me seeing what i was doin or if i was gonna say something ...and of course i didnt...
i really like him alot..and i dont know what to do...
he had also made a coment that amy lee was really sexy and when he said it he was looking right at me...& its weird because everyone says i look EXACTLY LIKE her i mean fr the peircing to the face to the hair...i could be her younger twin...
but i just wana know if hes flirting because he a man hoe or hes doing it because he likes me?? and if he said that to try and make me jealous??
please no stupid answers!!!:(
thank you
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i think that he is doing it to flirt with you and that he is trying to make u jelouse...but you can never be sure so..maybe u should ask him if he would ever consider going out with you..
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Ok, me and my best friend Katie, in 5th and 6th grade ((We're in 7th now)) we were in almost all of the same classes. This year we only see each other for not even half in hour whenever we help out teachers in the morning. Anyway, one day last week she asked me, "Are we still buying Christmas presents for one another?" You see, since the beginning of the year, we've been drifting apart since we don't have any classes, and her friend she's known since she was practially born goes to our school now, she never spends time with me. And the other day she asked me if i liked her boyfriend. He's my ex and one of my best guy friends and he's in my 2 longest classes and my elective. And I told her the truth and I think she's mad but she doesn't act like it. And now, we don't even talk on the internet anymore. I don'y really know what my question is though. I'm sorry, but since her mom died, she doesn't even act like anything has happened its weird.
5's for anything that'll help (link)
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well..different people recover from losses of parents differently..i bet it really does hurt her inside but she is acting happy around her friends so no one will notice...believe me..i lost someone..i act happy..but inside it still hurts...so idk what you should do really..i think that if you like him...then be like sorry i like him..but i wont make a move unless you guys break up...also tell her how you feel..call her sometimes to hang out..you guys really should become better friends again..
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As of Friday, i've been real sick. I took a nap all afternoon, and when i woke up I felt all dizzy. the only time i would feel good is when i have my head down. and right when i get up, i feel all dizzy again. then at points i kept gagging, but never threw up. and i kept burbing alot too.. until yesterday, i started having real bad diahrea, and my dizzyness and gagging has slowed down. but im still getting much headaches and stomach aches... does anyone know what is wrong with me?
my mom has just been telling me to take some medicine.. and that doesnt even work! (link)
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i think u should go back to the doctors..
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Wat do I do?! My boyfriend just left for Dallas and I'm never gonna see him again. But i've thought it over and over again. I didn't really like him. It's all confusing. (link)
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then tell him..it is the best thing to do for ur situation..he will move on sometime..n it should be good for him to get a girl there...i bet u must be so confussed...good luck
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okay im 13 f and im on vacation i leave tomorrow to NY my home. i like this guy and we have been passing notes secretely and other than that my parents dont know and hes 17. i really like him cause we both like the same things but were so shy round eachother that yesterday he came to but sumtin and we were both uncomfortable.i gunna give hima not today before i leave so he can contact me and stuff but how can i know if he likes me if hes so shy round me. he knows i like him but idk how to approach him....help! please quik. thanx (link)
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look...im answering this even though i think he is WAY too old for u haha...i think u should say something like i miss you...and if he says i miss you too then he LIKES U...n then ask him if he likes u...n if he says no im too old..say I WAS KIDDING DURR!!!!!
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