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Image and video hosting by TinyPic" align=left hspace=10> hey my name is karen and i live in miami florida... im 17 and go to miami killian senior high.. anything you need help with ask me!! im great at answering questions about friends, cleaning, and relationships.

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Iam 15 years old, 5'2 and i weigh 121 pounds,am i fat or over weight? How can i lose weight? Please help!

u can loose weight by going on a diet!! eating salad instead of wut u normally eat w/e that iz iz alwayz good. but u might not like salad {{lol. nether do i}} well u might like it u might not well trying not to eat as much as u normally do helps. like i dk if u do this but sum ppl eat little snacks in between lunch and dinner or between breakfeast and lunch. well if u do that try not to. and looking at the calories on stuff helps too. try at the begin {{if u take my advice}} not to eat anything over 120 calories. o n i dont think 121 pounds @ 15 and being 5'2" iz fat. it might take a while to loose sum weight but dont let it get to u. good luck {{not that u need it}} :-D. if u need anything else ask mii another question. hope i helped.

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How can i get a job baby sitting? i already am sertified by the red cross im 12 and i love kids and i need money!!

putting ^ signs around ur neighbor hood. since ur 12 and u cant drive try and make sure that the flyers are only to houses u can walk to. clear it with ur parents tho if ur aloud to walk to ur neighbors houses if ur neighbors ask for u to babysit.

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I have had a couple of boyfriends and i really liked all of them. but none of them last for a long time because when i really like someone just all of a sudden i wake up one morning saying, ok well i dont really like this person anymore or i like someone else. Do u think that i should wait to have a boyfriend for awhile? or if i start to like a guy i should be his friend for awhile and then see what happens?? please answer my question!! i need some advise!! thanks!
(Im 14)

u suld date all u want!! lol. have fun just try not to break too many hearts. after awhile tho i think u should just be a guys friend and see what happens. cuz if u date too many guys there might not be any left when u really want one.

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what culd/can you use around the house to practice kissing(like if havent kissed eny1/few and you just want to make sure or something)...??

um... i dk a dog but thats nasty as hell i think u can get a dezeze from that. ewww!! wellz wut i think iz that if u hav any guy friends that ur comfotable kissing just for practice then do that!! its tons of fun and u might end ^ being boyfriend and girlfriend after that!! lol. thats a really fun way!! lol. ask ashlee simpson!! lol. sept she did kiss ur guy friend becuz she needed practice. lol. wellz have fun!! lol.

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i want to save money so bad, because i want to buy another guitar, and an amp, and after that...i just wanna save, because my friends and i have plans. but i can't save money to save my LIFE. every time i have money, i just HAVE to spend it. and it bugs me. any ideas on how i can save my money?

a bank account!! if u still live with ur parents u can tell them to make one for u and to not tell u how to get in so everytime u give them money it stays in there. tell them the only thing to let u spend it on is the stuff u mentioned. then keep asking em how much money u have. when u have enought money to bye a thing on ur list then go buy it!!

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hey tomorrow nite im goin to the movies wit my bf what should i c???any suggetions???

the village!! alot of my friends wunna c it so i think itz really good!! lol. but if ur not into scary movies the notebook iz really good!!

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i have a problem i have a really anoying friend and i dont know how to get rid of her she just wont leave me alone! how do i get her to get out of my face¿

i think u suld tell her that u think shez annoying and that she wont leave u alone cuz if i were her and i heard that id leave u alone n id rather not be ur friend anymore with the truth nstead if u jus makin ^ an excuse. i kno u didnt say u were gunna make an excuse im jus sayin not 2. the truth iz betta no matter how much it hurts her.

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Ok..well i have a desk in my room and i keep all my deoderant,purfume,and stuff 4 my hair in a little basket type thingy. But i dont wanna put it in there anymore..so does anyone have any ideas..or like wat do yall put all that in? Be creative..if possible=)

i dk i think that u should put all that stuff in the bathroom... like if u have a drawer or a medicine cabinet u can put it in there. hope i helped!! thats what id do.

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this guy i have liked for a while is now one of my close guy friends.. he is not interested in a girlfriend but talks about how he is attracted to me and wants to be more than just regular friends. he wants us to take it a step further and kiss sometimes... from experience is it a bad idea? were not friends with benefits but he just doesnt like commitement i know he wouldnt do anything with someone else please help me!!

being friends with benefits iz sooo much fun!! i kno u guys arnt but thats what itz calld wen ur not boyfriend and girlfriend n ur making out. lol. hav fun!!

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I don't know how to clean. Or budget but that's not the point. my room has gotten really dirty and I want to clean it so I can use it to practice for auditions, do homework, etc and not have to throw all my junk off my bed every night.
Does anyone have some cleaning tips, or something? Or can tell me how to clean?

getting rid of old clothes n other stuff is a really good start. it doesnt hav to be old i mean it could b torn or w/e but donate em!! well i dk wut i do if my room gets really dirty is write down everything thats like on my floor or out of place. then when ever i have free time i try really hard to find a possible place for the things i wrote down... lol. it might sound dumb but it works... well at least for me. i hope i helped.

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I need some songs... any song would be good and who its by!!

Young Wun ft. DMX, David Banner & Lil Flip - Tear It Up
Young Buck ft. 50 Cent - Let Me In
Ying Yang Twins ft. Murphy Lee & Fat Joe - Salt Shaker (Remix)
Ying Yang Twins & Trick Daddy - Whats Happening
Ying Yang Twins - Say I Yi Yi
Yerba Buena - Guajira
Usher - Confessions Pt. 1
Usher - Confessions Pt. 2
Twista ft. 50 Cent - Overnight Celebrity (Remix)
T.I. & David Banner - Rubberband Man
T.I. - Lets Get Away
Ric-A-Che - Coo Coo Chee
Pitbull ft. Lil Jon & Lil Scrappy - That's Nasty
Monica - U Should've Known Better
Monica ft. DMX - Dont Gotta Go Home
Method Man ft. Busta Rhymes - Whats Happening
Lloyd ft. Ashanti - Southside
Lloyd Banks - On Fire
Lil' Scrappy - No Problem
Lil' Flip - Game Over
Lil' Flip - Sunshine
Juvenile ft. Soulja Slim - Slow Motion
Juvenile ft. Baby - Bounce Back
Joe ft. G-Unit - Ride Wit U
J-Kwon - You And Me
Jay-Z - 99 Problems
Jagged Edge - Whats It Like
Jadakiss ft. Anthony Hamilton - Why
Jadakiss ft. Nate Dogg - Times Up
Ja Rule - Holla Holla
I-20 - Fighting In The Club
Frankie - Fuck You Right Back
Fat Joe ft. Remy Martin - Lean Back
Elephant Man ft. Twista & Young Bloodz - Jook Gal (Remix)
DMX - Where Da Hood At
D12 - How Come
Big Tymers - No Love
8 Ball & MJG - You Dont Want Drama
Jay-Z - Brush Your Shoulders Off
Lloyd Banks, Eminem, 50 Cent, Nate Dogg - Warriors (Remix)
Ludacris - Act A Fool
Play-N-Skillz - Freaks
Slum Village ft. Kanye West - Selfish
Young Rome ft. Omarion - After Party

all of my favorites!! hope u like em!!

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Hey evrybody, im kinda new, but i jsut wanted to know how most of you people are so popular on this site, like, what do you do to introduce yourself evrywhere. thaaanks - my sn is sshelbyy
:-)

i dk i dont think im wunna da best in this thing if u kno wut i mean but the way ppl get noticed on this site is giving good advice and getting good ratings and having a good s/n!! lol. or picture on their advice column. the part where i said that get good ratings lol um... dont ask for ppl to rate ur answer its not a good way alot of ppl dont like that andll rate u low.

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Hey, I feel really stupid asking this question..But I have been having a hard time trying not to cut myself. I've been trying to find other ways to cop with it and I picked a bad way to to it by taking pills. Does anyone out there know any ways to deal with it? Is there somthing I can do to take it off my mind?? I'm already seeing a theripst and it doesnt help it all. If there is any advice u can give me I would really appreicate it! -Jenny

ive seen where having rubberbands on ur rist n wen ever u feel like cutting nstead of cutting pulling on the rubberbands. i dk i hope it works out and i hope u stop. if u need anything else u know wut 2 do. {{inbox}} lol. hope u stop seriously itz really bad!!

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does anyone know anything that i can do around the house that will get me $?

clean the garage {{if u hav 1}} {{u never kno}} lol. um... clean ur mom & dadz room. rake leaves, pull weeds, clean the pool {{if u hav 1 n if u dont hav a pool cleaner already if u have a pool}} lol. um...vacum... lol. hope i helpd!!

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hey! does anyone know what:
a) idk
b) imao
means???

i dk - i dont know
imao, itz LMAO and it means laughing my ass off!!

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I have had this one comforter for a long time and now it has holes in it and stains and all that kinda stuff. I want a new one soon, but my mom wants to make me a new one, but she's really a busy mom- she is a pilot- and I know I'll almost be in college by the time she's done! Pleez Help me!

save money for one for yourself. thats what alot of people have to do when they dont exactly get what they want or when they want something sooner than later.

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What are some good sites to get MIDI's from for free?

http://www.mididb.com/ sum r for free and sum arnt. u can tell witch 1z r n rnt so well i think this is a really good site for MIDIs hope i helpd!!

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My best friend likes this one guy, but secretly I like him, and I think he likes me! I read in her diary, which she let me read, trhat she was mad for him! What can i do!

okay... lol. i needa breathe!! okay!! lol well for me im on the side of ur best friend if u no wut i mean. my best friend thinks the guy i like likes her and she secretly likes him and i kno it. the reason i kno it is becuz in yearbook i saw a book she was reading in her handwriting saying her nickname witch is "angel" lol. w/e but "angel" n the guys last name. but wut shes dun is not say anything she knos im mad crazii 4 him n she knoz i wuldnt lyk it if she went 4 him 2 be her boyfriend. so wut im sayin is that if u wanna go for him go for him but i kno if my best friend went for the guy i wuz mad crazii for id be real pissed for a long tyme. also IF u do that she miyt not show it for a while but then she miyt end ^ one daii burstin out n sayin all the stuf she held in b4. i hope i helpd n i hope u think of ur best friend b4 a guy cuz thats wut the golden rule of best friends is... lol. never let a guy get between u.

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Ive been doing good dealing with my break up with my boyfriend, but lately its bugging the crap out of me cause i still love him. And right now Im having a very bad moment. Im a cutter, but havent cut since january. Right now I feel like i wanna hurt myself and i dont know what to do. i feel like i could kill myself right now. SOMEBODY TELL ME WHAT TO DO!!!! :o(

cuttings oviously very bad n i kno u kno that... sum ppl put rubber bands on there rists so wen ever they feel like cuting they pull on em instead of cutting. i dk if this'll work in ur situation but i hope it does. if u need anything else pop one if my inbox n ill b happy to help.

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what are some good songs you can dance to at a party?

any type of music is fine w/ me thanks!

Ying Yang Twins - Say I Yi Yi
Fat Joe ft. Remy Martin - Lean Back
Young Rome ft. Omarion - After Party
Yerba Buena - Guajira

guajira isnt all spanish its kind of rap and cuban stuff mixed but i love it for parties! if u need more songs im me and ill give you tons!

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