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Hello Sunshine!
My name's Jamie..call me what you prefer.
I'm not here to judge, just to help people with their problems.
I love helping people out, it's one of the most satisfying feelings.
When you rate me, I'd prefer if you put a reasoning behind the rating, just so I know how I'm doing/how I can improve.


Feel free to leave me questions!
XOXO.

>> PS. If you plan on asking me a question, please, type grammatically correct and put punctuation marks where necessary...instead of like this: "muh boyfran lefff meh nD eye dunno waddado. halp?" (haha okay maybe that's a little exaggerated.. but you get my point!)





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Hi my name is Joyce i'm 14/f. There's this boy i like alot. I kind of got over him, but now i know he likes me i like him again. So I want to add him on my myspace, but i'm afraid he'll deny me (becuse he did about a year ago when i first requested him). So my question is should I take a chance and add him? Because I don't want him to think i'm desperate or anything. And since he's in all my classes that would be awkward, and I'm afraid i'll drive him away. But then again since he likes me now mabey he'll want to add me? I'm so confused please help!

Add him!, If he likes you, he'll add you (:
And hey, what's life without taking risks sometimes!

Good luck
-Jam

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I'm really sick (i've been bed ridden for the past 3 days) with some kind of bacterial infection and I already threw up like orange juice today- and now i feel like i want to eat food (like real food- not just drinks) but i'm not exactly "hungry" i just feel the need for food. Almost like PMS cravings.
I didn't throw up after i ate a popsicle today.


What should I do? try to eat? i'll probably puke it up.


also- im having difficulty breathing because of this congestion in my chest.

Try to eat toast or bread without butter.
Don't have anything acidic or greasy.

If you've been in bed for 3 whole days, obviously there's something wrong with you-GO TO THE DOCTOR A.S.A.P!!!!

Hope you feel better :)
-Jam

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I want a really cute bedroom set for my new house
i looked at alloy and didnt see a thing. I also looked at delia*s the stuff was cute but i want to see if there is anything else around does any one have any other good sites? Thanks

JCPenny, Target, Walmart, PBteen, Amazon, NexTag, www.bungalowbeachdesigns.com/ ...

For more,

only search advicenators.com

Good luck!

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I signed up for track..but i have no idea what all the activites are? haha does anyone know them?

RUNNING EVENTS

These events are run individually for an individual and team score.

* 1600 M Run: 1 Mile run - 4 laps around a track (distance)
* 800 M Run: 1/2 Mile run - 2 laps around a track (distance)
* 400 M Dash: 1/4 Mile run - 1 lap around the track (sprint)
* 200 M Dash: Sprint a half of a lap on the track
* 100 M Dash: Sprint on straight away on the track
* 100 M Hurdles: Sprint on straight away while jumping hurdles

RELAYS

These events are ran with 4 runners per team. Each runner passes a baton to the next runner in an exchange zone. If the runners exchange outside of the zone, they are disqualified. Usually, the runners with the top times and commitment are chosen to run the relays. RELAYS- These events are ran with 4 runners per team. Each runner passes a baton to the next runner in an exchange zone. If the runners exchange outside of the zone, they are disqualified. Usually, the runners with the top times and commitment are chosen to run the relays.

* 4 X 400 M Relay (1600 M Relay)
Each runner runs 400 meters for a total distance of 1 mile.4 X 400 M Relay- (1600 M Relay) Each runner runs 400 meters for a total distance of 1 mile.
* 4 X 200 M Relay (800 M Relay)
Each runner runs a 200 meter dash for a team total of 800 meters.
* 4 X 100 M Relay (400 M Relay)
Each runner runs a 100 meter dash for a team total of 400 meters.

FIELD EVENTS

These events are individual events which usually begin before the running events. Each athlete is allowed 3 attempts to compete for height or distance.FIELD EVENTS- These events are individual events which usually begin before the running events. Each athlete is allowed 3 attempts to compete for height or distance.

* High Jump
The athlete runs and jumps backwards, shoulders first over a horizontal bar onto a crash mat. Athletes compete for height.High Jump- The athlete runs and jumps backwards, shoulders first over a horizontal bar onto a crash mat. Athletes compete for height. They may touch the bar, but it may not fall off the stands.
* Long Jump
The athlete runs and jumps from a mark into a sand pit. They are measured for distance from the mark to their furthest back foot. (If they fall back, they will be measured from their hand)
* Triple Jump
The athlete runs, skips, hops, and then jumps from a mark and lands into a sand pit. They are measured for distance like the long jump. Triple Jump- The athlete runs, skips, hops, and then jumps from a mark and lands into a sand pit. They are measured for distance like the long jump.
* Shot Put
Athletes throw a heavy ball for distance.Shot Put- Athletes throw a heavy ball for distance.
* Discus
Athletes throw a discus for distance.Discus- Athletes throw a discus for distance.

(I got this information from a school site, http://hill.ipsd.org/activities_track_events.asp).

Have fun! (:

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hey yall.

i'm 16[female]

i just got out of a relationship of 8 months with this really awesome guy i lost my virginity too & everything. he broke up with me on sunday in person. then i went home. afterwards he called on monday to tell me he didn't even want to talk to me again for a few months.. i dealt with it, and then he calls on tuesday & tells me he's sorry for treating me like crap and he wants to keep talking to me..

i just feel betrayed, like i agreed to talk to him.. but is that the right thing to do?? :[ thank you

Honestly, ..no. This guy is playing with you. You don't want to get hurt than you already are. So what's the solution? When he IMs you say, "Oh, sorry, I have to go" or just totally ignore him. Ignore his calls, texts, and talking to him in person. I'd stay away from him!..I hope you do too.

Good luck,
-Jam

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My boyfriend always promises me he's going to call and that we're going to hang out. I never get a call and when I do its to late to do anything. Or he will tell me to call him, and I will call, and he doesnt answer and when he does, he always says he'll call me back. Don't get me wrong, sometimes we do, but it seems theres more dont's then do's. Is it wrong for me to get upset ? I'm not mad at him, but I'm not sure, I just.. I feel upset when he doesn't call.. Is it wrong for me to feel this way ?

No, you should be upset at him. You need to talk to him about this to get this issue resolved. I know you don't want a boyfriend that ignores you, so if this doesn't work out, there's plenty of time for a relationship that will. :)

Remember: Communication is key in every relationship!

Hope I help & Good luck,
-Jam

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so i ride this bus with this kid and we went out for 2 days and he left me for his current gf and lately weve been flirting really badly, like he always tickles me or grabs my butt and find some way to touch me and puts his arm around me and stuff, and today he wanted to come over but i was all no because you have a gf...so does he like me or not..because i like him, but still that whole girlfriend thing, i would never do anything to hurt another girl like that.

There's no question! YES, he likes you.
Let him know you like him, too

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Does anyone know any creative/funny volleyball team names for a summer team? i have found "kiss my pass" "serve-ivors" & "you got served" but i dont liek them all too much

Hey,

http://volleyball.org/team_names.html
^Lots of cute ones on there.

&
http://www.vb.bnl.gov/misc/teamNames.html
If you didn't like the other ones.

Google it next time.

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My birthday is on March 10th and I'm getting a Coach purse for my birthday. I really like this one and I was wondering if it's a good price for Coach and if it's cute to buy..? Thanks soo much!

Please include a price & a picture.
Try going to Coach.com & sending a link.
Then we'll help you.
But in the meantime, Happy almost B-Day!

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So on Saturday night, I went with my best friend Bridgette to a movie night at a boy named Robert's house. She only knew her boyfriend and Robert, and I didn't know anyone. There was a couple other people there (girls and boys) but there was one guy in particular that i was interested in. and it seemed that he was interested in me as well, his name is Jacob.
after everyone left and it was just Bridgette, Robert, Jacob and me. and Jacob made me scoot over on the couch so he could sit next to me.. theres about 3 other couches in the room and he kept flirting with me alot.
and then his phone died and he needed to call his mom so he asked to borrow my phone, and so i let him. and he goes "now i have your phone number. i'm gonna text you at like 2 tonight okay?" and i was like so excited about it. we've been texting pretty much nonstop since then.. and that night i asked him if he was single. and he said he'd been with this girl on and off for a year and nine months, but for the past 3 months all they've been doing is arguing and he said he knew it was going to end soon, which is why he was flirting with me so much.
and this morning he tells me that they're over, and that he cant wait to hang out with me this weekend, so he can really get to know me better.
and i just dont know if he is just wanting some ass, like a rebound. or if he really did know it was ending with his girlfriend, and he really did fall for me.
i could use all the help i could get.
so help, please!

Geee. Sounds like he fell for you. :)
If he didn't like you, then tell me-why would he pick you over all the people at that party?
Just get to know him some more-he can't be too bad of a guy if he has been dating someone for 9 whole months. :)

Let me know how everything goes!! Good luck

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I have this friend, and I've known her for... my whole life, however I'm not sure how much I can trust her with things, because I don't feel like her friend sometimes. I feel as if I'm second best; a last resort. If I'm there, I'm always there: reliable as always. It's like she considers me around to serve a purpose, and once that purpose is gone she doesn't want me any more. I need to know how to communicate this to her, and not make her angry/annoyed with me, and make her think I'm just being harsh and overly sensitive. I'm not going to just drop her, because I really do care about her, I just need to know how to speak with her about it.

I'd tell her straight up. Say how you feel. If it makes you sound like a biatch then so be it-she's been a biatch to you this whole time.

Good luck

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what is some fun stuff that I can do to my boyfriend to make him feel good

Hey,

Well I'd say it depends on how far you're willing to go. If you don't mind getting "sexual" without having intercourse, give him a lap dance. Let him feel you..lol. If you're not ready to do any of these things, he should understand.

Good luck & hope this helps.

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hay i just got a baby lizard and i dont know what to name it are there any suggestions????? id love as many as i could get... please help!
thanx

Izzy or
Camira

:)

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Hello Everyone!!! My first track meet is tomorrow, can anyone give me any tips about what I should tonight and tomorrow while at the track meet. THanks in advance

+DRINK A LOT A LOT A LOT OF WATER!!!
+Breathe in through your nose & out through your mouth.
+Don't get nervous!
+Do warm ups before running.
+Run a little tonight.

Ehh, can't think of anything else-I'm having a brain fart. :]

-Jam

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Hey, what are some good stores for guys to find like "Skater" or "Punkish" clothes for a reasonable price...(Excluding Hot Topic...)

PacSun & Journey's. :)

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recently all i can think about is sex,
ive only had sex twice in my life but i feel it is required. Do any other girls feel like this who have had sexual intercourse?

Yep :)
It's totally normal

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Does PANTENE TIME RENEWAL really work??
yesterday i got the Time Renewal Shampoo and it's Frizz ControlConditioner. Both from Pantene Time renewal type

i was wondering if it really works.
Thanks

YES!!!! It works really good, my friend's hair was totally damaged & fried and helped it so much.

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i like the idea of bermuda shorts but i dont know if they would be flattering on me. im in between 5'3" and 5'4", and usually a size 4-6 in jeans. since im kind of short i dont know if they would work for me... and im kind of curvy too, more up top than in the hips though. would they look good?

I wear them all the time and I'm about your size. I get complimented on them always when I wear them-and I'm shorter than you! So, yes, wear away!:)

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Okay i really want that emo look. Can anybody help me? I am male, 14, and 6feet tell. thanks a ton

Hey.
Wow, you're tall. lol.
Black clothes-tight jeans-lip piercings-dark hair-long hair(covers one eye)-listen to emo music.

haha thats all i p can think of-
but don't be emo(personality wise), my friend! :D
BE HAPPY!

-Jam

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13|f

ok. so, last night i got realllyyyy bored, so for the first time ever i watched porn. and i realized i am personally ready to have sex right now. and i now none stop think about how i want it. jkas. is this normal. do i really wnat it? am i just thinking that from the porn ?

Hey,

It's normal for people your age to go through that kind of stuff. You're definitely not ready! There's too many consequences for such a silly action! It's just from the porn.

PS: what does "jkas" mean? haha.

-Jam

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