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is it wrong ?


Question Posted Friday March 2 2007, 7:43 pm

My boyfriend always promises me he's going to call and that we're going to hang out. I never get a call and when I do its to late to do anything. Or he will tell me to call him, and I will call, and he doesnt answer and when he does, he always says he'll call me back. Don't get me wrong, sometimes we do, but it seems theres more dont's then do's. Is it wrong for me to get upset ? I'm not mad at him, but I'm not sure, I just.. I feel upset when he doesn't call.. Is it wrong for me to feel this way ?

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DearAbby92 answered Friday March 2 2007, 8:15 pm:
Its perfectly fine to feel upset, because he is not being a commited boyfriend. Talk to him in person and tell him how you feel. Tell him you are upset that he isnt paying attention to you and never calls back. Dont sound offensive, just let him know you are hurt. Hopefully he'll understand. If he doesnt, he probably isnt the best boyfriend for you anyway.

-Abby

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vivalajam0x answered Friday March 2 2007, 8:15 pm:
No, you should be upset at him. You need to talk to him about this to get this issue resolved. I know you don't want a boyfriend that ignores you, so if this doesn't work out, there's plenty of time for a relationship that will. :)

Remember: Communication is key in every relationship!

Hope I help & Good luck,
-Jam

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LadyH answered Friday March 2 2007, 8:10 pm:
No, you have every right to feel upset. I have been in your position before & it's very frustrating. Just talk to him & tell him not to say anything he can't stick to. He doesn't need to be making promises to call you, but tell him you like for people to stay by their word. It can be possible he's avoiding you, but I wouldn't jump to conclusions quite yet until you talk to him & find out if there's a solution to this.

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