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So on Saturday night, I went with my best friend Bridgette to a movie night at a boy named Robert's house. She only knew her boyfriend and Robert, and I didn't know anyone. There was a couple other people there (girls and boys) but there was one guy in particular that i was interested in. and it seemed that he was interested in me as well, his name is Jacob.
after everyone left and it was just Bridgette, Robert, Jacob and me. and Jacob made me scoot over on the couch so he could sit next to me.. theres about 3 other couches in the room and he kept flirting with me alot.
and then his phone died and he needed to call his mom so he asked to borrow my phone, and so i let him. and he goes "now i have your phone number. i'm gonna text you at like 2 tonight okay?" and i was like so excited about it. we've been texting pretty much nonstop since then.. and that night i asked him if he was single. and he said he'd been with this girl on and off for a year and nine months, but for the past 3 months all they've been doing is arguing and he said he knew it was going to end soon, which is why he was flirting with me so much.
and this morning he tells me that they're over, and that he cant wait to hang out with me this weekend, so he can really get to know me better.
and i just dont know if he is just wanting some ass, like a rebound. or if he really did know it was ending with his girlfriend, and he really did fall for me.
i could use all the help i could get.
so help, please!
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to tell you the truth there is so many guys like this in this world..just to give him any..dont be so easy to get..and dont believe every word a guy tells you..cause its a guy and you cant help it..so just watch out dont get hurt!!!
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it could both be true. Just play it safe, and don't get too emotionally attached to quick. If he was with this girl for that long, it might not take long for him to start regretting ending it with her. But it sounds to me like he is glad that is over and you just showed up at the right time in his life!
good luck!
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Hey! well from what youve told me he sounds like a great guy that really is into you!! and it seems like he really wouldn't just be wanting some ass, because he's been with that one girl for sooo long. which is good because it means he's not afraid to be in a relationship or to commit. And also it seems like he really did know it was ending with his girlfriend because most relationships that are going well are amazing for about the first year, after that you start to know eachother a little too well, and then you start to fight about eachothers bad qualities that youve now gotten to know. thats why when you meet the right person their bad qualities dont bother you as much and you can get over them easier and last longer than a year. so if i were you i'd def. go for it! because he seems liekk a great guy that really is def. into you!! and it does seem like it really is ending with his gf.
good luck!!!
hope i helped!
xoxoxo
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All of the above, sort of. He is a guy and yes, most are looking for a piece...it's like the whole reason they wake up in the morning. You know he is on the rebound...that is just a fact, but is pretty much not that big of a deal at your age. Yes, he is digging you so far, but let's face it...our initial attractions are only so deep, and largely based on superficial things. What is it with girls that we have to know if he is going to be an angel or a devil right off the bat? Most guys are a mix of both, and you need to give him time to show his true colors...you can't know at this point. There is only one way to protect yourself, since we don't know much about this guy and that is to take it slow, don't put too much into this relationship or make it an all or nothing situation, where he has too be either your prince charming or the spawn of Satan. Just relax and get to know him without jumping into a physical relationship. If he demands or questions the hesitancy you have about getting too close too fast, then you will find out he was just in it for a piece. If you don't give it to him and he still wants to hang out, then he likes you. It is that simple.
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Geee. Sounds like he fell for you. :)
If he didn't like you, then tell me-why would he pick you over all the people at that party?
Just get to know him some more-he can't be too bad of a guy if he has been dating someone for 9 whole months. :)
Let me know how everything goes!! Good luck
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i say he was pretty out front with you.. saying how long and told you that he knew it wasnt going to last. if they have been fighting for 3 months, im sure hes pretty much over her. just dont give it to him right away, i say wait untill your dating, so then you know for sure!.. and if he doesnt call you after your date together cause you wouldnt give it up, then hes an ass. but if does call, then im sure hes a good guy and means well!.. good luck!!<33
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Well its hard to say what goes on in guys minds, lol. I wish I could give you a solid answer so that you wont get hurt, but Im unable to do that. So let me try help; Generally when a guy wants a "piece of ass" he doesnt spend hours on the phone/texting alot/spending time with them(without sexual stuff). When thats all they want they generally go in for it right away, and once they get it their done. If you really like this boy I suggest taking it slow and let him get to know your personality before any physical things happen that you might regret. Its okay to kiss and hug but I wouldnt suggest doing anything else further.
It could very well be a rebound - but if he says it was ending for about 3 months than I dont think it would be because he seemed interested before they broke up. Rebounds generally happen immediately after the break up occurs when theyre feeling vulnerable - which it doesnt sound like he is.
I woiuld just go for it and hang out and become friends and see where it goes from there but make sure that you feel comfortable with him before doing anything you might regret - and dont rush it.
If its real, you'll have all the time in the world to do those things.
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