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Confused
Before christmas a friend of mine said he loved me, i told him the same thing. But i didnt want to start a relationship as he lives in America and i dont want it based on just words. Hes says hes coming over to see me again soon. I told him that it cant be until June as i have alot of things on. I havent spoken to him in 2 months and i have no idea why. I've been really down because of this so i made a choice the other day to forget him and lose all contact with him because i think hes messing with my head and it seems to be working. I left him a message on yahoo to let him know that Im deleting yahoo then for the first time in 2 months he comes online. This made me think i was right.
what should i do? Do u think im being to careful?
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Hmm... well I think since you're missing him so much I think it's getting to you, so you're reacting in being a little too careful & jumping to conclusions, but that's fine don't worry! I do that sometimes too. I think he's messing with you a little bit... maybe he hasn't come on yahoo for so long because he doesn't know what to say to you if you're both online at the same time. ;) And we all know how that feels
But I don't think he's necessarily TRYING to mess with your head... so try to still have contact, but don't get too attached as relationships from 3,000 miles away or further normally don't work out. If you've been wanting to talk to him then e-mail him, he has no choice but to reply to that! Lol. Just don't get too obsessed with him & don't get too bored either.
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Hey, I think honestly you are being a little too careful but that's okay. I think he really has feelings for you. maybe he never gets on yahoo and when he realizes you do but soon won't he jumps online. but you have to consider if he's your type
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He is messing with you and only interested in the challenge when you say you are through...is any of that wrong? I think you know this and don't really need confirmation of the facts. What you do need is to believe in yourself and trust your own instincts. That little voice that says, "Well, maybe if I just hold on a few more months and he will come around...", is the same voice that tells you that vacation calories don't count and that you might die alone. None of it is true my dear.
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