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Hey lovies! =) I'm Julie and I'm 15, which makes me a sophomore at the lovely Branford High School. I'm in Model Congress, Concert Choir, and the Young Republicans Club. Besides being a student, I've been a dancer and acrobat for 13 years! It's basically my life. I love my friends to death and would be nothing without them! ♥ Well, I've been on Advicenators for over a year now so I know what I'm doing and you can trust me. I'm here to give you honest and helpful advice...So just leave me any questions you have in my inbox! =)
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Hi my name is Jess i have this really really close guy friend who has been my friend since 1st grade now he has a g/f and i dont like him but for some reason i feel jealous. Could anyone tell me y im jealous? (link)
Maybe deep down you felt like you and this guy friend were really close - and that since you're older you were hoping that the two of you could hook-up. But, now that he has a different close girl in his life, you're probably jealous because he's with her most of the time and not you.

Just be friends with him, that's probably all he wants right now =)


k, im the girl who asked the ? about askin my mom to wear thongs. Do ne of u no where the sell cute ones. I jus like to be accesorized. I WONT SHOW IT!! lol. I jus would like to know where they sell some cute ones so when I go to the store, I can look and pick??? THANXS!!!! (link)
Umm...Try Kohl's or Victoria's Secret.

They're cheaper at Kohl's and they're cute! At Vikki's, they're expensive but so adorable! =)

If I confused you, just tell me! hehe


Hey on my legs i have these little red bumps and sometimes they have 2 hairs growing outta it and it bugs me because i have a wedding soon and it looks like i have freakin pimples on my leg!! how do i get it to go away?? And what is it? My second question is i have pimple on my arm how to i get them to go away?? And how do you get stretch marks to go away? THanks so much ill rate yall! (link)
They could be pimples, or more likely ingrown hairs or razor burn (since it's on your legs). Since we don't know what they are exactly, then there's nothing right now that you can do about it. If they last for another week, you should go see your doctor.

If they're really red and are afraid everyone will notice them at the wedding, use some kind of concealer or cover-up to hide them.

You can get rid of the pimple on your arm by putting your regular face medicine on them (Clearisil, Clean & Clear...)

I'm sorry, but I'm not sure how to make stretch marks go away =/ but I hope I helped you with everything else! =)


Ok,i like this boy but were friends and all.Really good friends.But like everytime we talk i get so into the conversation and just want 2 blurt out that i like him.Should I??

Signed NEED HELP FAST! (link)
I think you should tell him that you like him! You two already seem very comfortable around each other, and if you really like him, I think you should giving going out a chance!


If you never have or are new to the whole kissing scene....is there a way to tell your doing it right or if your good at it?
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There's no right or wrong way to kiss - but you can tell after you're done kissing if there's alot of slobber around the guy's mouth. That means it was a messy kiss - which isn't exactly bad or wrong - just most people don't like it.

I hope I helped you! =)


ok why does every 1 say drink water to lose weight? wat does it do? and why do they say cold water is better? how does it make u lose weight?? (link)
Just drinking water won't help you lose weight. You have to exercise and drink water.

I've never heard that just drinking makes you lose weight...


yesterday at the doctors i got a shot in my arm (kind of my shoulder) and it didnt hurt at all, but now today it hurts really bad it feels like i have a bruise where the shot was and it hurts really bad whenever i move my arm. is this normal or should i be concerned? im starting to worry. how long should this pain last? (link)
You probably got a Tetnus (I'm not sure how to spell it, but it sounds like that) shot. Those don't hurt at all the first day, but the next morning it is perfectly normal to have your arm feel like it has a bruise. It should last about 2 days. But don't be worried if it lasts longer!

I hope I helped you =)


okay well i have a friend i never see only like once and my new best friend is in my class and all the time online my friend who i never see always says your ditching me. im like no im not! but she still says it. and its really annoying how do i get her to stop (link)
Tell her that you're not ditching her. Say that you're branching out and trying to meet some new people, but even though you're doing that, it doesn't mean that you'll forget her as a friend.

Call her up and invite her to hang out sometime - just the two of you. Then, she'll know that you two are still close =)

If you need anymore advice just ask me!


i was at my friends house with a bunch of other friends and we got drunk. the whole night i was hanging all over the kid i liked ( who happens to be a good friend) and i refused to talk to anyone besides him. i tried to kiss him when i was drunk but he wouldnt kiss me. does that mean anything besides he only likes me as a friend? (link)
It could mean that maybe he was uncomfortable around you, since you were drunk. Also, maybe he just likes you as a friend and thought that it was weird that you tried to kiss him.

Good luck! =)


does drinking lots of water actually help you lose weight? and if yes, how much should u drink? (link)
Drinking water and doing proper exercise routines like running or aerobics will help you lose weight. But it's not just the water alone.

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This is going to sound stupid but the term "getting off" does that mean like when a guy "gets off" he gets a hard on or he orgasms?? (link)
It means he's having an orgasm.


Can you have icons on your advice column? (link)
Yup! I do! =)

Where it says you can include a picture of yourself, just pick an icon that's saved on your computer!


i have beauty marks like mole things on my back and in the summer i am scared to wear a bathing suit and a tank top because i am scared that people and freinds will make fun of me.what should i do ? (link)
You shouldn't be scared. Everybody has moles and birth marks on their bodies!

Plus - they're called BEAUTY marks, so don't be embarrassed by them, they make YOU - YOU!

If your friends say something about it, just say "Yeah, those are my BEAUTY marks".

Hope I helped =)


hey everyone.. i'm having problems with getting hits on my site.. my friends are always asking me questions and tell me i really help them but i still can't seem to get many hits.. please help!
--CrAzY_GiRL15 (link)
On the left column of the website, it says "Give Advice". Then, you can give advice to random people and answer random questions, and then more people will probably look at your site if they know that you've answered a lot of questions.

Good luck =)


which works better to lose weight
yoga
pilates
aerobics
running


thanks!! (link)
I think if you run for about an hour everyday, that would be the fastest way to lose weight. All the other ones can help too, but I think running is the best =)

If you need more advice just ask me!


Hi, OKay I skipped my period for 3 months and then started again. But I am really heavy compared to my normal. Is that normal? (link)
Yes, that's completely normal =)

Until you're 17 or 18, your period will be irregular. Just make sure you're always prepared!


is wakling just (or close) as good for you as running? like can i loose weight from walking 20 minutes a day or does it have to be running? thanks i rate!! (link)
Walking and running are both really good ways to lose weight. I think you should walk between 30 minutes to an hour each day, and that should equal a good running distance.

If you need some more advice just tell me =)


i am going to a party in an hour and a half and my hair is wet right now, if that matters, but it is kind of a pool party. What can i do with my hair that will look good but won't get all gross when its wet? and what can i do once my hair is wet to keep it looking good. This is kinda important because my ex and my crush are going to be there. (link)
I think you should wear your hair up. Try putting it in a pony-tail or braid it. Then, you can wear it all day like that, and when it dries and it will look flirty and curly =)


everyone at school makes stuff up about me like rumors saying im a slut and my boyfriend from a different school wants to meet my friends, but i dont want them to talk crap. people also say stuff that is not true like saying i talk about people when i dont!!!
what should i do?? (link)
You should talk to the rumor-spreaders and tell them that it is really hurting you that there'll telling everyone lies. Ask them how they would feel if they were in your shoes.

Say that they should mind their own freaking business and butt out of your life!


My girlfriend is a slut, and she does stuff with other guys, but with me too, and I liek that stuff. What should I do? (link)
If you don't like that your girlfriend is doing stuff with other guys, you should talk to her and tell her that she's cheating on you.

If you don't mind it, and are happy that she does stuff with you and other people, then don't even mention the subject.

But, I still think you should confront your girl and tell her that it's kind of awkward being her boyfriend and knowing that you're not the only one she's doing stuff with.

If you need some more advice, just ask me =)




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