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So this guy that i've been off and on with for about a year just told me recently that it was over for good and i don't know why! He won't talk to me or look at me or anything! but thats not even the bad part! I really like him! I can't stop thinking about him or being with him! I don't know what to do! Should i just leave it alone? (link)
eww thats mean of him! Anway...i think that you should give him a few days and then confront him and maybe ask him casually if ther was any reason why he just decided to dump you after a year and with out a reason too. If he still acts the same way, there really isn't much you can do. You could ask one of his friends but, you don't wanna seem too obessive because that mite turn him off to you more. He may have heard a rumor about you or something or something happened in his life that made him decide to dumop ou..there are many reasons if he just did it abruptly. TRy and find out..hope this helps :-)


my friend has had this off and on relationship with this guy.hes fingered her and made out alot and stuff but he goes off and does stuff like that with other people.shes like my best friend EVER and she calls me crying sayin hes makin out with some girl.it breaks my heart and i think she should leave him.all he does is break her hearrt.she deserves so much better but she claims she loves him so much.other times she hates him.can someone help me?im afraid im in the middle.
Signed,
Concerned Friend (link)
hmm..I think it is very kind of you that you are concerned about your friend and want to try and help her. Sadly, i think that this is a decision that she needs to make on her own when she is ready to accept that this guy is not treating her well and that she does deserve better. All you can do is be a supportive friend and try and convince her that this guy is no good and tell her what you have told us..that she deserves better. Hopefully she will dump ths guy and find one who treats her better.


i have no friends, how should i make some?
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Join clubs, sports teams..or work somewhere. :-)


Everyone who reads this...please im this sn

MBluv69

thanks and have a merry christmas! (link)
why did u put that on my column?..it only goes to me..and it just ims me.


do you any good porn sites that are FREE and dont require your credit card? (link)
i dont do that kinda stuff...


ok my bf and i have been going out for 8 days and we went to the movies he didn't act like he was going to break up with me, but he has not called me today and he calls me everyday. what do i do? I have tried calling him and he didn't anwser on either his cell or home phone and i don't want to seem like an obessive gf so i don't want to call again what do i do? How long do you think i should wait b4 calling again? plz help i rate!!!! (link)
I don't think you should call anymore .There are many reasons why he isnt pickin up his fones. They cud b not hom or have and upexpeted trip that his family had to take. I would just wait til he calls you, ur right you do't wanna seem obsesseive. Tomrrow if he doesnt call, call him later in the day and ask him what he did yesterday adn see if he gives any hints as to why he didnt' call. He was probably just busy thou.


i've been with my boyfriend for 19 months and i love him more than anything. the other day i had a dream i was making out with this hot kid at school. does this mean anything? by the way, this is like the 3rd or 4th dream i've had of this kid. (link)
uhm..i don';t think it means much. It could just mean that you are thinking of this guy because you want to be able to experiment iwth other guys since you have been tied ddown with the same guy for so long even if you do love him and all. I doubt it means anything more than that...If you wanna find out more about it...type it in at freakydreams.com


i know it is long, but i need the help!


i have this friend that i really like that has been my best friend since second grade! his name is Dylan. he is kinda chuby. but that doesn't matter to me! i really think i am starting to develop a thing for him. the only prob is that i live in Kansas, and he lives where i used to live, Arizona. i am in 6 grade now. and he was the first friend i ever made when i moved to AZ. i really really lik him! i got a phone call from him last night and i haven't seen him or talked to him for like 9 months. and out of the blu he jjust called me. i really miss him ! what should i do? plez help if you haven't alresdy fell asleep!
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talk to him more and more and you guys couuld still keep in touch. I dontknow if you couuld have a relationship for a couple reasons. You're in 6th grade, and not to sound annoyin but i dont kno if ur ready for a relationship wit some kid..althought you could become good friends wit him and see what happens later on and just stay friends til ur a little older. SEcond reason, is that you guys live pretty far away so if you did have osmething going on..it'd b long distance and those are always tough. My advice for now is just continute keeping in touch by emails and fone and and just take one day at a time :)


hi i ws jut wondering how to do a messy bun step by step. (link)
oh cool i do those like everday lol. It's sorta hard to explain online but ill tell u how i do it atleast, if u have any questions you can just drop another in the inbox.

1. Bend over and have all your hair in front of your face
2.gather your hair into a loose-ish ponytail
3.Tie a hair tie around it from the back part of the ponytail (near where the back of your head is ) and tie so you all your hair is near your forehead (like the tips of your hair)
4. Tie it around again but not all the way
5.Pull the messy bun so it it doesn't look at tight and then if you want you can pull some wisps out to make it look messier

Hope this helped :-)


i am a 13 year old girl with a lot of friends. boys and girls. but mostly boys. im a girly girl though not a tomboy or anything. when i am with my guy friends i am totally normal and myself.the only problem is that whenever i am going out with a guy, i get nervous. i dont really act myself around him. do you know anything to help me over come this problem? (link)
aww that happens to a lot ogf girls..What i think you shoudl do is just pretend he is one of your close friends and act as you would with them with him. Just be urself and talk about things that you are comfortable with and try and keep the convo flowing. Hoipe this helps :)


Ok this is a random question but i got my period friday morning and it wasnt heavy at all throguh friday and saturday and sunday. Its monday and when i took out my tampon there was close to nothing on it. is it normal to only have your period for like 4 days? ( its not my first ) (link)
yea, that is normal..sometimes that happens where it has an irregular pattern. You're fine :)


i've known this guy named connor for 2 years i like him but i'm not that sure he likes me back.you see ever since he found out i liked him we've been avoiding each other.so i'm not sure he likes me can you help me? (link)
hmm, he might like you and just be nervous cuz he feels akward and doesn't know how to act around you because he might like you too. He also might feel akward because he doesn't know how to react to the situation. another possibility is that he mite not like you and doesn't want to lead you on so he decided to ignore you (that's a really bad idea, so unless he is sorta immatture with the whole "liking someone" thing, i doubt thats the reason.) Hope this helps :)


Okay I have a question about deleting cookies on your computer. I was wondering what exactly does it do when you delete cookies. I delete my history all the time, but what does it mean to delete your cookies? I saw a question where the answer was to delelte cookies, so it just made me curious. I know how to delete cookies, I never have because I never knew what it did. So what exactly is 'deleting cookies'? (link)
i think what it means is that every site has cookies and cookies are like markers to let your computer know what site you have been on, and keeps a temporary memory of it. If you want your computer to completely forget about all the sites you have been on and delete the markers, thats wat deleting cokies does. I'm not positive about that..another thing i think cookies do is that on certain site they remember who you are, like if you sign in someone like a site like this.


yesterday my 2 best friends hung out with out me..not on purpose they called but i wasn't home and my sister gave me the message 6 hours later. well i called back and they sounded like they were having sooo much fun and were laughing. but i couldn't hang with them cuz i had to babysit in an hour. Now on my friends profile is a picture trail link with pictures of them hanging out and i dunno i feel weird. i mean i wanna hang out with both of them but i dont want them to hang out without me.. dou think it's mean of them to put the pictures on her pro if she know's i'll look at them and know i'll feel bad? help idunno wut to do or say to them
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wow i know exactly how you feel, and im sure a lot of poeple have felt this way in the psat. I don't think that it is mean of them to put pix in her prof..but i think that it is inconsiderate of them because the shouldn't have put pix in like you said when they knew you would probably look at them. On the other hand, they might have been oblivious and not have been thinking about it and just decided to put them in there. If they keep bringing up the day they hung out a lot and inside jokes from it you could say something like "hey guys i know you had a lot of fun that day and all but it kinda annoys me that you talk about it all the time since i wasn't there and all." If they are understanding they'll see where you are coming from. As for the other thing you said about wanting to hang out with them but them not hanging out, i know exactly what u mean. Girls often think this way because they don't want the other person to become best friends with that other one because then they wil feel like they are left out. I hav a feeling this was just a one time thing and that you and your 2 best friends will get back to normal and they probably won't hang out frequently. I hope this helped :-)


Hey people, I'm supposed to be doing a poll for the school paper. (it doesn't have to be school related, but it can be) what is a good idea for a poll? (link)
favorite activity to do when you're bored:
Ex: (sports, listen to music, reading, etc..) good luck!


If you took a rat on vacation with you, but kept her in one of those mini cAges, would that be too stressing for the animal?? (i'd keep food, water, and toys in it)
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i think that it would be okay, just make sure it feels comfortable at all times, good luck with ur travels :-)


hey! well me and this girl have been friends since i could remember! im a girl too and i am 13. it use to be that i could talk to her about ANYTHING! but lately i have found that i cant talk to her the same way. now whenever i have some secret to tell her i feel embaressed and usually i just dont tell her at all! she has no idea about how i feel with anything thats going on in my life right now. and i feel like i need to talk to someone....but not her! i start crying a lot lately because of all the stuff thats going on in my life and i feel that if i could talk to someone i would feel muchhhh better. but i cant talk to her. what should i do? its just not the same as before! thanks (link)
I think that you should try and think if there is a specific reason that u don't wanna tell her friend anything. If you can't think of anything..than mabe u just should find another friend that you can confide in. Somtimes you just feel comfortable with someone you click with and feel that you can tell anything to. If you find there is a specific reason why you don't want to tell her anything then..tell her about it and see how she reacts, maybe she can change whatever that reason is. If you want you could talk to a counsler..but i think that you might feel better talking to a girl your own age about however you feel or.. someone who is feeling a similar way. I know you don't know me at all...but if you ever want to talk about anything you could IM me on my sn..or drop one in the inbox...i cud try and talk to youand help you out. I hope this helped


me and my bf have been together for a long time now. we haven't gone very far at all. he loves me and i love him but he is pressuring me into going further. i know for sure i don't want to because im not ready. im 14. i love him tho and i want to make him happy... what do i do? he respects me and everything so its not like he is like DO IT OR I WILL BREAK UP W/ YOU i can just tell he really wants to and he asks me if i will and stuff. sometimes he tries to do stuff and i tell him to stop but he keeps trying. later i talk to him about it and he says he jsut cant help it. ill rate (link)
definately don't do anything that you are not comfortable with. As you said he respects you and won't force you to do anthing you don't want him to do. He will be happy with what choice you make. If he forces u again you need to be strong about it and stand up for urslef and then he will really get it. He will probably force you less if he gets the point that ur just not ready right now. I hope this helps you


I'm not 11 so don't worry. But anyway do you guys think its wrong for two 11 year olds to make out? Two 11 year old kids were making out in my school the other day and I'm in my teens and never been kissed! I just don't think it's fair. What do you guys think? (link)
i think thats a little odd..i think that the shud wait a little while til they are like..13.14..around there..they are extremely young. being in ur teens is fine, even if u have had not had ur first kiss. This may sound sorta corny, but its good to save ur first kiss for someone special who u really want to wit. Siome of the ppl i kised, it wasnt special and i wish it had been so there had bene meaning to it. hope this helps, dont worry ull get a ur first kiss soon :-)


what are the names of all the guys in linkin park (link)
Chester Bennington




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