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me and my bestfriend
hey! well me and this girl have been friends since i could remember! im a girl too and i am 13. it use to be that i could talk to her about ANYTHING! but lately i have found that i cant talk to her the same way. now whenever i have some secret to tell her i feel embaressed and usually i just dont tell her at all! she has no idea about how i feel with anything thats going on in my life right now. and i feel like i need to talk to someone....but not her! i start crying a lot lately because of all the stuff thats going on in my life and i feel that if i could talk to someone i would feel muchhhh better. but i cant talk to her. what should i do? its just not the same as before! thanks
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I think you and your friend are starting to take different paths....Things are never going to be like they used to be, but maybe you should have a long talk with her. Even if you guys have changed, she could surprise you and be a lot of help. If you're still hesitant to talk to her, maybe you should give another one of your friends a chance.
I hope this helped!!
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Have you thought about writing to her- a letter or email? By doing this you can get all your thoughts and feelings down in one go without any interruption. Just tell her how you feel and that you are upset because you don't understand what you've done wrong or why she is being like this. I'm sure you will find that she will realise that she's been mean to you. If anything she probably has something she wants to tell you but doesn't know how as she's embarrassed or worried what your reaction will be. Tell her that she is your best friend and that she can tell you anythingbecause of who you are. Best friends keep secrets and don't judge.
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oh. i know just how you feel. and you think you cant trust her all the time. that she and everyone else is judging you. but you will realize that she is your good friend and you can tell her anything. because wouldn't you want her to tell you everything?
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Go to one of your other friends like a friend you want to become closer with and tell her/him. Guys are pritty good liseners to (sometimes :OP jk) But tell another friend that you need to get some stuff off your chest and that you want her to help you out. You guys will have a closer relationship at the end of the conversation AND you will feel better by talking to someone! Hope i helped!
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Do you have another good friend you could talk to? It sounds like you and her are growing apart. Mayb eyou just need to talk to someone else, even if its just like a sister (if you have one). If you don't talk to someone, and keep it pent up inside, it will build up, and get worse. You can always talk to me, or prob. anyone else here. That's what we're here for.
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I think that you should try and think if there is a specific reason that u don't wanna tell her friend anything. If you can't think of anything..than mabe u just should find another friend that you can confide in. Somtimes you just feel comfortable with someone you click with and feel that you can tell anything to. If you find there is a specific reason why you don't want to tell her anything then..tell her about it and see how she reacts, maybe she can change whatever that reason is. If you want you could talk to a counsler..but i think that you might feel better talking to a girl your own age about however you feel or.. someone who is feeling a similar way. I know you don't know me at all...but if you ever want to talk about anything you could IM me on my sn..or drop one in the inbox...i cud try and talk to youand help you out. I hope this helped
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