yesterday my 2 best friends hung out with out me..not on purpose they called but i wasn't home and my sister gave me the message 6 hours later. well i called back and they sounded like they were having sooo much fun and were laughing. but i couldn't hang with them cuz i had to babysit in an hour. Now on my friends profile is a picture trail link with pictures of them hanging out and i dunno i feel weird. i mean i wanna hang out with both of them but i dont want them to hang out without me.. dou think it's mean of them to put the pictures on her pro if she know's i'll look at them and know i'll feel bad? help idunno wut to do or say to them
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? XxRockon answered Monday December 13 2004, 4:08 pm: wow i know exactly how you feel, and im sure a lot of poeple have felt this way in the psat. I don't think that it is mean of them to put pix in her prof..but i think that it is inconsiderate of them because the shouldn't have put pix in like you said when they knew you would probably look at them. On the other hand, they might have been oblivious and not have been thinking about it and just decided to put them in there. If they keep bringing up the day they hung out a lot and inside jokes from it you could say something like "hey guys i know you had a lot of fun that day and all but it kinda annoys me that you talk about it all the time since i wasn't there and all." If they are understanding they'll see where you are coming from. As for the other thing you said about wanting to hang out with them but them not hanging out, i know exactly what u mean. Girls often think this way because they don't want the other person to become best friends with that other one because then they wil feel like they are left out. I hav a feeling this was just a one time thing and that you and your 2 best friends will get back to normal and they probably won't hang out frequently. I hope this helped :-) [ XxRockon's advice column | Ask XxRockon A Question ]
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