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my step dad is always telling me to lower my voice and I do not even talk loud I think he going deaf and he needs to shut up I can not stand people telling me to lower my voice my mother never says that to me (link)
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I don\'t think this issue is about the level of your voice at all. I think you resent your step-dad telling you what to do. I also think you have no respect for him. I am not saying that as a put down, I am just making an observation from the tone of your letter. You may have reasons not to respect him or it could simply be because he isn\'t your father, at any rate these issues need to be resolved so that your family can interact with each other in a respectful manner and be happy together. You need to discuss these issues with your mom as soon as possible. I am guessing your mom doesn\'t tell you to lower your voice because she doesn\'t want to make you angry with her for siding with him! You are putting your mom in an awful position, but I think you realize that. I believe you have a lot of anger inside of you and a lot of hurt. I am guessing you didn\'t want mom to remarry and you had no control over it. Do you think maybe I am right just a little bit? I am sure you love your mom and want her to be happy so please don\'t try to make them fight over petty issues like the tone of your voice. You should also try to talk to your step dad in a respectful manner and tell him you are sorry and you didn\'t realize you were speaking so loudly(even if you weren\'t). If you can gather up all the maturity you have inside you and bring yourself to do that I am guessing it will be the last time he mentions it. I\'ll bet if you suddenly start acting mature and treating him nicely you will be pleasantly surprised by what you get in return! The best way to get respect is to give it. If you really feel like you hate your step dad you should try talking to your school counselor. Maybe she can convince your mom to get you some you counseling sessions to help you deal with your new family situation. Good luck!
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My boyfriend's best friend of several years is a female. She lives several states away and he rarely sees her anymore, but constantly "likes" her photos on Facebook and comments on her posts, etc. I know they talk and text a lot, too. I asked him once if they had ever dated, and he replied that they were like brother and sister.
I found some old photos of them on Facebook where they appear to be somewhat physically intimate. In fact, until I knew who she was, I assumed she was an ex girlfriend. He's giving her hugs, picking her up, giving her piggyback rides, etc.
I know that men and women can be platonic friends, but I don't go beyond hugging my close male friends (not as a rule, it just doesn't happen). She's an attractive girl, and I'm sure he sees that. I simply don't believe that he has no desire to be physically intimate with her given the photographs that I've seen. I've never met her but she's expressed desire to meet me soon. I have absolutely nothing against her, but I just want to know if my beliefs about their relationship are justified; and if so, what should I do about it?
Thank you :) (link)
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Your immaturity is showing! Please do not let your insecurities ruin what sounds like an otherwise good relationship! My daughter\'s were best friends with our neighbor boys but they never dated. As your boyfriend described they grew up more like brothers and sisters. You are looking for trouble where there isn\'t any. The real problem here is that you don\'t trust your boyfriend. You simply can NOT have a relationship without trust. Now please understand these are YOUR issues, not his. He has explained the situation and that is all he should have to do. Frankly, you are being jealous and petty. More than one girl has lost a great boyfriend that way. My advice is to meet the girl and make her a best friend of yours as well. You can handle this situation like a girl or like a woman, it\'s up to you. I think your guy would be a lot more impressed by a confident secure woman than a jealous, insecure little girl! Please take the high road!
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Hi there months have passed i've been having problems with Family. And thoughts of he past abandoned by a mother who was my role model. Don't know my father as much as i would like my mother turned my other family against me and Looking comfort in others people advice of how should i over take this situation.
If need to know more email me: advicegal2020@gmail.com (link)
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Listen closely, advicegal, I think you are trying to pull some type of scam, that\'s what I think. Even if I\'m wrong and I hope I am, you should NEVER post your email on a site like this! It sounds like you\'ve got a father, you should get to know him.
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Um. I. Think. I'm. Pregnant. But. I. Hummed. A. Tom. Boy. Does. That. Let. You. Bit. Pregnant. (link)
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My advice to you(and this is GOOD advice), please go to every English class they offer at your school! Periods are not necessary after every word! The word you were searching for in your sentence is GET(get pregnant, not bit pregnant)you see the difference? You really need to work on this English thing little bit before you try sex with anybody. I am saying this because the idea of you getting pregnant,( by a tom boy or anybody else) seems very scary to me! The last time I checked two girls couldn\'t pull this off but who the Hell knows any more, so I wouldn\'t take any chances! Remember, focus on those classes and you\'ll be fine!
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I'm 23 he's 22. We got into a fight because he sent me a text that obviously wasn't for me. When I said something he told me I was stupider than shit and always acting like a bitch. He doesn't respect me so I just blocked him and said bye. Well he tried calling about 50 times afterwards but I ignored it because I refused to be disrespected. Well I didn't talk to him for 4 days and then when I was calm I unblocked him and decided to try to talk about things. Well in these 4 days he moved on apparently and wouldn't have anything to do with me. He blamed me for everything and kept saying it was my fault for acting that way and it's my fault that he is talking to someone else. Really? It took him 4 days to move on from our 2 year relationship? I begged him to stay but he didn't care. I'm so depressed he's done this before I just never thought he would do it again. Do I move on? Or just wait for him to realize that were suppose to be together? Or does that make me pathetic? (link)
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For the love of God, yes it makes you look pathetic! It made me physically ill when you said you begged him to stay! Pahleeze! He called you stupid, he called you a bitch, he has a new girl already and you BEGGED him to stay! I am not saying these things to be mean I am saying them in the hope that reading it in print will hit you like ice water in the face and wake you up!Do you really want a future with a jerk like this? Please get some counseling for your self esteem issues. Your letter is well written and thoughtful so I know you are not stupid and I\'m betting you are a very nice person as well. You deserve better than this but YOU have to believe it. Please walk away and don\'t ever look back on this idiot! The absolute most important thing though is to not go straight back out there and find another one just like him and that is exactly what most girls do if they don\'t go for counseling and learn how to build their self esteem. This is the best thing you could ever do for yourself, it will mean the difference between a wonderful future with a man who loves and respects you or a life of being disrespected and called a stupid bitch every time things don\'t go his way. The choice is yours please make the right one! Good luck!
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So my crush, in response to a text I sent her, sent this: aww ♥ you're so fucking adorable, I can't stop thinking about you. Cute right? Except she was drunk. So what does this mean? Drunk words equal sober thoughts? Should I ask her about it or just let it go? (link)
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Oh, for Heaven\'s sake just ask her out! The worst that can happen is she will say no. As it is you\'re not dating her anyway so nothing would change. On the other hand she might be like you and waiting for some sign from the heavens! Imagine you\'re 90 years old and you don\'t have all this time to waste. You\'d go for it then I\'ll bet !Good luck!
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I was seeing this guy mostly on and sometime off for about 7 months. At first he seemed like the perfect boyfriend, but then his ex interrupted our picture. The thing is, he has a daughter with her, who is adorable I may add. His daughter is going to be 3 this year and they basically are in a custody battle over her because the Mom would rather party then raise her daughter and though he works full time, he says if he got custody he would make it work so he's with his daughter even more than he is now (everyday after work). He's a great father at 27, his ex is 19 right now and I'm 22. See, the only trouble is that when he sees his ex, his attitude completely changes for the negative... but he doesn't realize it, which caused little disagreements between us and now we've stopped talking because I know I can't fix whatever is going on between his ex and him. I'm not saying I've tried to fix their situation as that is purely between them and I can only be supportive, but he never wants to talk about it.. he'd rather be bitter. So now we are in limbo with eachother and I found out I'm pregnant. I have never believed in abortions, so I am keeping it. He once told me if I got pregnant he would support us 101% like his current daughter but now I'm not so sure and he may have deleted my number. I was thinking I might wait until I know I won't miscarry to tell him since I have some health issues. Part of me says he'll be excited to be a Dad again and the other part... (link)
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Your letter disturbs me on several different levels. First of all I did the math and this guy at 24 years of age got a 16 year old girl pregnant(and HE\'S bitter!) I can\'t believe he\'s not in jail but let\'s continue. He then after already having fathered a child with a teen chooses NOT to use birth control and discusses the possibility of a pregnancy with you! Do you honestly NOT see a problem here?!!! This guy sounds whacked at best and possibly deviant! If you are not pregnant for heaven\'s sake run! If you are then I guess you have to tell him, but he doesn\'t sound like the kind of person anyone would want for a husband or a father! If you do end up getting back with him and I DON\'T advise it, please try to get both of you to some counseling, you are going to need it!
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I just had bought a hamster and I'm confused what should be its name. By the way my hamster is boy. (link)
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How about Hammy? Or do you have a favorite singer you like?( My daughter would so totally name him Niall!)You could also name him by his personality, like Cuddles or Smarty or if he bites you could name him after one of the Twilight guys! Good luck with your new pet!
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I'm 14 and he is 13, I'm in the 9th grade he's in the 8th. Basically we've both being talking since December 2013 and now we don't talk as much unless there's something to talk about, I will admit that I still like him.. A lot. We've been out twice and the first time I left him because he was ignoring me whereas the second time he dumped me because he wasn't ready for a relationship.
So, I see him every weekday at school and I see him literally everywhere I go! I catch him staring at me whenever I'm near him and so do my friends, when he sees that I'm looking he quickly turns away and my friends say this is a sign that he likes me. I was meeting his cousin at the weekend (just as friends) and then he asked his cousin to come along and he literally wouldn't stop looking at me!
Does he still like me?
Also I really like him still and I would really like to get back into a relationship with him!
Any ideas on what I could do!?
Thank you! X (link)
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I don\'t quite agree with the others. I think he is watching to see if you are going to come toward him so he can walk off before you get there. I could be wrong but my knowledge of teenage boys tells me he would not have ignored you the first time you were seeing him and he would not have dumped you the second time. I have two boys and they never reacted that way around girls they liked. As a matter of fact they usually made complete fools of themselves over a girl they liked by trying to make money to take her to the movies and buying gifts for her but they never to my knowledge ignored or dumped a girl they liked. I think this whole thing about him looking at you is wishful thinking on your part. My advice to you is move on and let it go but if you really need to be sure then fall back on the age old plan of sending a friend to ask him. The cousin would probably be a good choice!I hope it works out the way you want it to. Good luck!
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Ive had a bad prostate infection for a couple weeks now I'm a 21 male. I've had a cloudy discharge coming out here and there but today when I was peeing I felt a chunkish thing coming through my penis it came out into the toliet and I continued peeing. I Got it out of the toliet it was chunky like a chunk of cum you'd pee out but this chunk was about a inch wide and half inch wide it didn't hurt or burn I just felt it push out then drop into the toliet. I felt it is was kinda softish and a little sticky but not like sperm or cum sticky had no smell to it was dark yellow some weight to it for how little it was I guess the best way to describe it is a hard chunk of cum you pee out after ejaculating but dark yellow. Any ideas? Please help??!! (link)
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I am no doctor but this doesn\'t sound like a prostate infection to me(Lord, I hope you haven\'t tried diagnosing yourself on the internet!)I know from experience that urinary track infections can cause this but there could be other reasons as well. You need to get to a doctor ASAP!
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Hello,
Usually when sleeping with someone I am always on the bottom. Recently, this guy flipped me over on top and I realized i'm so bad at riding on top of him.
Advice?? (link)
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Well, in my opinion you can\'t be \"good\" or \"bad\" at sex. It isn\'t a job! Either it feels good or it doesn\'t. If it doesn\'t then you are kind of defeating the whole purpose of sex, wouldn\'t you agree! You shouldn\'t just decide you\'re not good at it and maybe miss out on something great. New things always take a little getting used to. If you have a willing and understanding partner he will be patient and help you experiment with this position and see if you can make it feel good for you as well. One suggestion would be to try this first while you are both in a sitting position(you straddled on his lap)that way you don\'t have to support your weight. When lying on top you need to support your weight with your hands and knees the way the guys do it and you both need to get a rhythm going, then you can slowly lower your weight and kind of rock . If you can get comfortable with it, it can be a great position for the woman because you actually have more clitoral stimulation. I hope this helps, Whatever you do make sure you BOTH enjoy it!
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Hi, I am 17 years old and I am the youngest person in ny university. I am absolutely in love with the SU president in my university. We talk sometimes and we have also kissed a couple of time on a college night out but it acts like he doesn't even notice me, he is always cold to me when people are around ue but once we are alone together he opens up to me and just be an absolute sweetheart. I do catch him staring at me sometimes and we also flirt alot when we are left alone. The problem is I don't know if he likes me, he is a completely shy guy but I just think he feels like I won't be able to fit into his life maybe because of my age or even my race.i don't know what to do anymore it's been 9 months and there have been no improvement at all. (link)
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NO.NO.NO. You\'ve got this all wrong. He does not like you, he wants to get in your pants(after which he will not know you and tell anyone listening to your story that you are a liar.) This man is not only taking advantage of you but in most states, since you are only 17, this is also a crime. You can be absolutely CERTAIN this is not the first time he has done this and if you don\'t turn him in it won\'t be his last. You need to go to the campus counselor immediately and you also need to report this. I know you think you like him and some great love affair is going to take place but NO. This guy is pure scum. If you really want to know the truth about him then report him and see how quick he calls you a liar! I am guessing dozens of other girls will step forward as soon as it becomes public. Please don\'t let this jerk do this anymore. I am guessing many young girls have fallen in love with him and had their lives destroyed. There might have even been abortions or suicides for all you know. You are in a position to stop this NOW before anyone else gets hurt. Please do it.
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My dad died when I wad 12 and I was really depressed about it one day and my cousins husband noticed and asked me what was wrong and I told him about my dad and he said well I have always wanted a daughter anyway why can't you think of me as your Dad and I want to do something to thank him but I don't know what and I want it to be something special. Does anyone have any ideas ? Thanks so much. (link)
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Yes, if this man is really being a father figure to you you should indeed do something special for him when Father\'s Day comes around. Make him a nice handwritten card telling him how much it means to you that he is your \"second dad\". You could also give him a nice framed picture of yourself and maybe sign it \"Thanks for being a great \"second\" dad!Love(your name). You could also look on Pinterest for DIY Father\'s Day gift ideas. I am sure anything you make for him with love will be appreciated.I know a lot of people reading this post will probably be worried that this man is trying to gain your affection so he can take advantage of you sexually but I prefer to look for the good in humanity and not the evil. He sounds like a great guy!
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i want to ask i did sex with my g.f on 5th of this month i just rubbed outside just near pussy but my penis touches her pussy 2-3 times while doing am scared whether she will gt peragnent...only 5-6 days over now what shud i do to her so that she wont get peragenent..any medicine is their if its their please suggest me... (link)
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Dude, it is what you should NOT do to her if you don\'t want to get her pregnant! Seriously, she needs to get on birth control and you need to use condoms. Tell her to talk to her mom or the school counselor about where she can go for birth control. A little embarrassment is far better than a teen pregnancy! In the meantime wear a condom if you are are putting your penis anywhere near her vagina. She can still get pregnant even if you are not inside her and your sperm comes in contact with the opening of her vagina. You are a very smart young man to worry about this because most guys your age don\'t!
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I have a serious problem with procrastination.
Sometimes I'll clean the whole house rather than touch a project or assignment that needs to be finished. I feel as if I physically cannot do the work. I know I need to do the work, I want to do the work, but I can't. I don't want to sound as if I'm whining, and I know I have to 'suck it up and just do it' but I was wondering if there was a way I could ease into it and not make every project so daunting? I'm stuck in this perpetual state of stress which does not motivate me to do my work and rather discourages me more than anything. As days pass by I alternate between seriously stressed anxiety and just not caring at all. Any advice would be appreicated. I want to start forming good habits, before it really is too late.
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I wish you had been a little more specific as to whether your projects and assignments are school or work related but either way there is probably a deadline and I am guessing that is what has you freaked out! The best way to handle this is to start on it immediately (the same day you get the assignment)plan it out in steps and make a chart of your progress. By using this method you can check things off as you go. I am the worlds biggest procrastinator so I know this works. I love to check things off a list! Every day you must look at the list and then do at least one thing. You can NOT procrastinate about looking at the list! You have to tell yourself \"all I am going to do is pick up this list and look at it\" then tell yourself \"Okay, I am going to do just one thing on this list right now(remember you only have one job!)anyone, even procrastinators such as we can do ONE job, right? The time frame is important so you must start with the plan the first day or you will meet up with that deadline looming again. Let\'s say your project involves reading, research and writing, break down the reading into manageable segments, do a segment each day until you finish, now it\'s time to do research, one small segment and write a paragraph or two on it. Repeat daily until the project is finished. You can actually do several projects simultaneously this way if you just look at each segment as ONE job. Yesterday I had a ceiling to paint, grass to mow, gardening to do, clothes to wash, dogs to bath, a table to paint, plants to be planted, a bathroom to be painted, dishes to be done, supper to be cooked, beds to be made, cleaning to be done and of course sitting at the computer giving out(hopefully good)advise! Now if I look at it from that perspective I would just go back to bed and throw the covers over my head! I was very proud to cross four of those things off my list(sadly,cleaning wasn\'t one of them)but we did eat and that was good! Your frame of mind is very important here. You absolutely can NOT look ahead, you have to learn to live your life one day at a time!(all 12 step programs use this philosophy as well)You can not be stressed if you only have one small job, just for today. If this is still too daunting for you(I loved your use of the word daunting by the way, it is one of my favorites as well!) and you really can\'t bring yourself to look at the list then you probably should talk to a counselor about it to find out if there is a more complex reason behind your avoidance. Good luck!
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My question is that i have changed my entire life to be the girl he wants. I have only one friend i can talkto and see on his terms and no family at all.I dont want to leave him necause i love him with all my heart but the name calling and hitting i thought was getting easier but now i think i am losing my 2 week unborn child. He swears i cheated on him anyway. Do you think it is going to get easier or should i just stay quiet and change sime more? I know its my fault. Thank you for listening. (link)
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Well, you are right, it is your fault and you are not going to get pitied here. If you are still a teen then you need to go home and work things out with your family, otherwise you need to call a women\'s abuse center immediately and get the hell out of there before he kills you! Either way you need counseling (and lots of it)! If you really are allowing someone to treat you this way and you think you deserve it then you have to understand that you have a problem. I am also going to lay some reality on you, if you really are pregnant and allowing him to hit you and abuse you and doing nothing to get away from him then that is also child abuse on YOUR part as well! If you want to allow some idiot to treat you this way then there is nothing anyone can do to help you but if you bring an innocent child into it and do nothing to stop it, that is criminal on your part as well as his. If he is already saying your child is not his then I can see this ending with a dead baby and both of you in jail. You don\'t really love this guy, it\'s an addiction on your part. You are addicted to the feeling you get from him when he is being loving with you. You will do anything to feel that again just like a junkie will do anything for a drug. You are willing to die for this feeling but you have to get some counseling so that you can understand it for what it is, an addiction.. If you are for real and you are not trolling(which is my first instinct here)then please take my advice and get out,cut off all contact with him, get a protection from abuse order,get counseling and get well. Good luck.
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Well, idk where to start but for a long time I've had this kind of memory of my dad taking me to the toilet when I was 2/3 and was only just really getting used to going by myself and i just remember him sitting me down on it and telling me to keep my legs open, i can't remember if I actually needed to use the toilet but I remember it was uncomfortable sitting like that...
I'm 21 now and still remember this but I don't know if I've made it up and if I haven't I don't really know if it counts as any kind of violation. I've remembered this image for a long time though, and it's only like 3 seconds long but it always jumps into my head at random times :s
So I don't know what to think about it to be honest. (link)
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I don\'t believe you father violated you. If your father was that kind of person he would have most likely continued to sexually abuse you. Honestly, he probably just wanted to be able to see if you went before he took you off the toilet. Since your only memory is discomfort from sitting with your legs open I really don\'t think anything inappropriate happened. If your father was good decent parent for 21 years I think you should give him the benefit of the doubt and just chalk it up to inexperience on his part when taking a toddler to the bathroom. On the other hand if you really feel something inappropriate happened then tell him about this memory and how it bothers you. Hopefully you can get this straitened out in your mind and put it to rest.
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So I slept with this guy last week Sunday (over a week ago) and he came from a handjob! Then we had sex and he came in like 5 minutes.
THEN, I slept with him again a few days ago and it took him SO long to cum. we were having sex, changed positions several times, and it was to the point where I was just plain tired.
Why is it that he came so early the firs time? Did I do something wrong? (link)
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He probably felt a little guilty about getting off so fast the first time and decided to give you the royal treatment. Maybe he wasn\'t sure if you came or not so he kept going. When it comes to sex communication is key! Whatever you do though don\'t ever ask a guy \"Are you done yet?\" I could kill the mood for like ...ever!
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Im still in love with my ex like crazy, we saw each other on sunday and it was actually amazing felt like the old days.. He wants to carry on seeing me to see how it goes and such but he said he didn't want a relationship right now? It confuses me, because i just don't see myself with anyone else. Im 20 by the way.. and it's weird but it cringes me if other guys touch me or stuff it's like i can only be myself with him like i only want him to touch me.
He knows how i feel, he thinks i only like him still but deep down im still in love with him after 2 years and a half.. i'm going with the flow and all but i don't want to be lead on or anything .. he still acts himself with me when were together (this is the second time) we saw each other after 2 years.
My heart tells me to carry on seeing him and see how it goes.. he says that what's the point of putting a tag on something (relationship) if we have something good.. i told him but what if were getting serious again? he said just to allow thing's to happen..
im actually scared to get hurt never ever have i ever been in love this way
what can i do? :(
I'm actually quite happy at the moment since i last saw him but i dont want my feelings to take over and let them destroy me like they have before.. (link)
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I think you owe it to him to be truthful. I think you should tell him exactly how you feel so that he is not left guessing about where he stands with you. It will also give you the opportunity to find out what he is made of. If you tell him you still love him and want a serious relationship with him and he runs screaming into the night then you\'ll know he isn\'t the one. I have heard it said that in every relationship there is one who loves and one who allows themselves to be loved. I guess if I had to choose I would rather be the one who loves. I hope it all works out the way you want it to.
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I'm a 19 year old girl. I have Bipolar 1, depression, severe anxiety, severe panic attacks, and insomnia. I also have some learning disabilities and agoraphobia (fear of people). Not only is all of this very difficult to deal with as it is, but I can't get a job or complete my GED because of it. I'm absolutely terrified to do most anything; make phone calls, go to the store, go out with friends, even just sitting at home alone triggers panic attacks. I've tried to get jobs but I've failed in all attempts. The farthest I've gotten, was past the interview which was very very difficult and started my first day but I had a severe panic attack and a mental breakdown, to which they sent me home, and I wasn't able to continue working there. It was humiliating and worsened my depression and confidence. I have no idea what to do. I'm so stressed out and I just want to be able to move on in my life like a normal person. I can't afford therapy, and I'm already on 1mg Xanax 3 times a day, 100mg of topomax a day, and 600mg of lithium a day. I feel like a failure because I can't accomplish these things and function normally. Does anyone suffer like this? What are your methods to overcome this? Is there anything that can help me? I'm extremely desperate. Please help. I need someone who understands. (link)
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Sometimes we stress ourselves out because we are stressed out, do you know what I mean? It is a vicious circle.You have to get off this roller coaster. You start to panic because you are afraid you will have a panic attack. You can\'t get to sleep because you are worrying about your insomnia. I think you get what I\'m trying to say here. First of all you need to relax. Have you ever tried yoga? Look into relaxation techniques that you can use. You also have to be vocal in your own care. If you do not think a medication is helping you or is possibly making you worse then tell the doctor they need to try something different. Have they ever tried Pristiq? I know someone with similar symptoms who has benefited a lot from it but it does have a lot of side effects. As far as work goes my best suggestion for you would be to make some crafts to sell online or find something you can do to work from home. Stop pressuring yourself about all the things you can\'t do and focus on the things you can do. Even if all you can do today is fix yourself some breakfast then you accomplished something . Give yourself a pat on the back. If all you can do tomorrow is paint your nails then make them really pretty and be proud of how they look, you\'ve accomplished something. Who says you have to conquer the world. Abraham Lincoln once said \"whatever you are, be a good one!\" I\'ll bet you could make a beautiful bracelet if you wanted to. I\'ll bet you could learn to knit or crochet and make beautiful things to wear or sell. I\'ll bet you could learn to cook at least one dish that everybody loves. I\'ll bet you are capable of a lot more than you think! The reason you didn\'t do well at those jobs is because they were not the right jobs for you! You will know when you find what you are meant to do. Find out what you love to do first. Try not to blame all the problems in your life on your bi polar. Some of them are just problems you would still have if you illness went away tomorrow. We all have problems of some sort, even the rich and famous!One of my favorite quotes is \"if you change your thoughts, you change your life\" I really believe this is true. Changing your thoughts from negative to positive will change your entire outlook. Instead of saying \"look at all the things I can\'t do\" say \"look at what I just did!\"and be proud!Good luck!
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