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urm how would i know exactly? Mmm
Im still in love with my ex like crazy, we saw each other on sunday and it was actually amazing felt like the old days.. He wants to carry on seeing me to see how it goes and such but he said he didn't want a relationship right now? It confuses me, because i just don't see myself with anyone else. Im 20 by the way.. and it's weird but it cringes me if other guys touch me or stuff it's like i can only be myself with him like i only want him to touch me.
He knows how i feel, he thinks i only like him still but deep down im still in love with him after 2 years and a half.. i'm going with the flow and all but i don't want to be lead on or anything .. he still acts himself with me when were together (this is the second time) we saw each other after 2 years.
My heart tells me to carry on seeing him and see how it goes.. he says that what's the point of putting a tag on something (relationship) if we have something good.. i told him but what if were getting serious again? he said just to allow thing's to happen..
im actually scared to get hurt never ever have i ever been in love this way
what can i do? :(
I'm actually quite happy at the moment since i last saw him but i dont want my feelings to take over and let them destroy me like they have before..
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Yeah you need to make things clear with him ASAP, Simply for the pure fact that your still deeply in love with him. Do it for YOUR sake, because your just dragging this on and on, while he (at least me) uses you by saying things like "lets not put a label on this" i would not be able to stand for that at all.
I would want to know what his intentions are with you so that if hes not really ready to be with you, then you will know and can begin the healing process asap, and get over it and move on. you dont want to fool yourself because your so emotionally invested in him from the past. Im betting hes using the fact that you still love him so much to play you into giving him what he wants.
((sorry but i cant stand guys that come across as users or players)
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I think you owe it to him to be truthful. I think you should tell him exactly how you feel so that he is not left guessing about where he stands with you. It will also give you the opportunity to find out what he is made of. If you tell him you still love him and want a serious relationship with him and he runs screaming into the night then you'll know he isn't the one. I have heard it said that in every relationship there is one who loves and one who allows themselves to be loved. I guess if I had to choose I would rather be the one who loves. I hope it all works out the way you want it to.
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