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I want to fo something special to thank him
My dad died when I wad 12 and I was really depressed about it one day and my cousins husband noticed and asked me what was wrong and I told him about my dad and he said well I have always wanted a daughter anyway why can't you think of me as your Dad and I want to do something to thank him but I don't know what and I want it to be something special. Does anyone have any ideas ? Thanks so much.
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First off, I really love your story here. It seems pretty obvious to me that your cousin's husband is a very special person.
Without knowing specifically what his interest are and what sort of person he is in his daily life, it's hard to give a concrete answer. But, I can make a few suggestions that I hope will help.
If you really want to make it something special, the best thing to do is make it personal. So, don't just go out and buy something you can find at any old store or give him a generic card.
If you're artistic, maybe create something. One idea would be to make a photo collage with you and he together maybe with some nice working at the top or bottom. Another would be to write something from your heart, maybe a poem, and frame it for him. Take him to his favorite park and spend the day there.
However, if you do choose to buy something, make sure it has personal meaning. For example, if he's a golfer and had the best game of his life using a specific brand of golf ball, get him some balls of that brand. Or, if has font memories of a specific restaurant, take him there for dinner.
Be creative and thoughtful and whatever you do for him I'm sure he will be touched.
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What an awesome idea. A great gift can be one that is shared like an experience. I would suggest doing something with him. You can take him out for dinner or maybe to an activity that you can afford (zoo? museum?). You'll both enjoy yourself and trust me, that memory will be worth more than anything you buy him.
Good luck!
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Yes, if this man is really being a father figure to you you should indeed do something special for him when Father's Day comes around. Make him a nice handwritten card telling him how much it means to you that he is your "second dad". You could also give him a nice framed picture of yourself and maybe sign it "Thanks for being a great "second" dad!Love(your name). You could also look on Pinterest for DIY Father's Day gift ideas. I am sure anything you make for him with love will be appreciated.I know a lot of people reading this post will probably be worried that this man is trying to gain your affection so he can take advantage of you sexually but I prefer to look for the good in humanity and not the evil. He sounds like a great guy!
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