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I'm from Canada. Ok so there's this guy and I really like him and I want to tell him how I feel but I'm worried about what he would say if I did tell him how I felt about him!! But he doesn't have a phone so I can't really text him and I don't feel comfortable calling his home.. So I really need to figure out what to do!! Do I talk to him on facebook when he's on or what? Please help me!!! It's really important since it's almost the end of the school year and I won't see him until next school year!! Please Help!!! (link)
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If you really like him, you'll muster up the courage to call that house phone. If your worried about his parents asking you questions, just use that time to tell them how of a girl you are for their son. And facebook is good to, but if you're looking to start a relationship with this boy, you'll need actual human interaction instead of IM's and textmessages.
I wish you lots of luck!
~Andrew~
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A boy named aj likes me at the church camp.and everyone is like oh go out with him but I don't want to and I said forget it.
Oh heres some info....
I speak english (link)
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If you don't like, don't go out with him. You're friends have no control over your life.
And let Aj know, nicely, that you don't want to go out with him.
Good Luck!
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I'm 13 years old. Nobody understands me. I hate life for many reasons, and think of how I could end it the most painless way. I can not help but think that death is the only way to get out of my situations. I feel as though if I don't care what's happening in my life than no one else should. I think about what I would say if I were to follow through with ending everything. I just hate the lies I hear every day. I hate the harassment and judgement I have to bare with every day. The only true reason why I don't kill myself is because I couldn't do that to my family. My dad told me that if I was to ever need to do anything he'd want to just think I ran away with a friend and I'm safe and not have to identify my corpse and have a funeral for his child he couldn't image that. I almost feel that is selfish. My mom offered me counseling but I didn't want it and now I just want help and she won't listen. I am the ugliest girl at my school and spends the weekends by myself. I must sound as though I through a pity party for myself to others but they just don't know what I go though. I don't know what to do to just be happy, can anyone help me? I tried actually socializing but I felt fake for I had to put on an act as though I'm having fun, when in all actuality I am in misery. Someone please help me. (link)
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DO NOT KILL YOURSELF!!
I don't understand what you are going through but I know death is never the answer. You need to make yor OWN circle of friends, and surround yourself with people who love who you are on the inside and the outside. Every morning, stand in front of the mirror and take time to admire yourself from head to toe. You are above lies and harassment.
DO NOT CAUSE HARM TO YOURSELF AT ALL!!
You will survive!
I believe in you.
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I met this guy last year but only recently started talking when we saw each other at a party last week. We exchanged numbers and everything. We talked a lot at the party and it was obvious he liked me. Even afterwards he would flirt with me and stuff. Later I found out he had a gf and I asked him about it and he said it was true but she is never there for him. I let him know that I wasn't the type of girl who would mess around with a guy who is already in a relationship but he said he likes me a lot and I guess I kinda like him too. I don't ask him to break up with her but he tries getting me to kiss him and stuff which I don't feel comfortable doing. What should I do? I am a 15 year old girl & he is 16. (link)
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I think he isn't good for you. STAY AWAY FROM ANY MAN WHO IS ALREADY IN A RELATIONSHIP.
Put yourself in his girlfriend's shoes.
How would you feel if he was your boyfriend and he was flirting with other girls behind your back?
He is no good and you can do way better.
P.S.
Tell his girlfriend!!!!
Good Luck.
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hi i had an affair 8 years ago and back in november i told my husband about the affair the tricky part to my affair is that from that affair i had a child my son who is now 8 . for 8 years i let my husband raise my son as his own i also told him that our son was not his we are handling things the best that we can and my son's bio father has been seeing my son a little here and there and he calls from time to time my husband is aware of this but i still feel like i have to choose between my husband or letting my son get to know his bio father . like i said we are handling things but there still are thoes uncomfortable moments between us and im not sure what to do my husband wants this other man to just drop off the face of the earth as i can understand that but my son likes talking and seeing his bio dad and as painful as all this is i think it's important for my son to know his real dad even if it's only once every few months he sees him he at least sees him . or should i just let my husband raise him and let my son pursue his father when he is older . (link)
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I know I'm a bit young, but this is just my opinion:
I think both men should be involved in the child's life. You can never have too many fatherly figures in your life. If the bio. dad is visiting your son because he wants to, then he should be around more often.
I wish you the best of luck.
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So I've been meaning to ask this girl out for like months, but due to my lack of confidence I never managed to work up the nerve to do it. I finally did it a couple of days ago and she agreed to go out - but here is the thing: she only lives in my town for faculty, and as we're going to graduate soon, she's going to move back home within a week - just a couple of days after our upcoming "date". And she lives like 6 hours of ride away! This WON'T be the last time I see her, but I won't get to see her much afterwords as she'll be going back and forth just for the exams. And it might be a whole month until the next time she comes.
So here's my question: when we go out, what should I do? Should I tell her I like her?! I know you're not supposed to do that on the first date, but for the above reasons there's no way we can start to go out continuously, and no time to take it slow. (By the way, the fact that I asked her out does NOT automatically underlie my intentions because she's got a lot of guy friends she's gone out with on friendly basis).
If she wants to use the time we'll both be in town for dating, then there's a chance we keep visiting each other in the future when she goes home for good! So I think I should let her know how I feel pronto. Or maybe I shouldn't?
What do I do?!
Oh, and we ARE friends although not particularly close. So she's not someone I only just picked up.
Any advice appreciated! (link)
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I think that you should tell her that you like her. When you go out with her just be yourself and tell her how you feel. Life is short and you don't want to go through the rest of your life wishing you could have told her. I wish you the best of luck.
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I need advice on how to commit suicide. I am 62 yo female soon to be divorced. We were previously involved in chapt 13 bankruptcy. Husband stole $16,000 of my money that was to pay house payment and b/r payments since 8/2011. I learned 2 mos. ago that mortgage co. had requested foreclosure on our home last 7/2011 of the b/r attorney. I knew nothing. Husband forged my name on document at b/r attorney to increase the b/r payment. When I confronted attorney, he threatened to fire me and I would have to start over and pay more money. Attorney separted the chapt. 13 and allowed husband to file chpt.7 owing no debts. I am now responsible for over $100,000 due to the joint debts and his business debts after attorney sent out notifications of objections to all husband's debtors with my name on them. House is now in full foreclosure. Husband approved for full VA disability last month--$3,000 per mo. plus $1,000 Social security retirement. He pays no bills except his cable. I cannot pay all these expenses although I work. He is abusive and has threatened to kill me, calls me names like "whore" and other names. Husband stole $67,000 from my brother's and my inheritance from our parents by forgery and embezzlement. We had 2 rental properties. They are now up for sale in hopes I will be able to get the bankruptcy off my back. But, real estate agent has made no effort or progress. Now I am soon to be homeless, no credit, no ability to pay all the bills, no future, no life, and no end in sight. Each day there is more bad news from someone. I have no way out. There is no one who can help me (I've talked with lawyers). Each day is more painful than the day before. I don't eat, sleep, can't think, can't make decisions, and pray for death day and night. I tried to cut my wrists but stopped because it hurt too much. On meds, but there is not enough medication to improve the amount of hurt and misery of each day that I live. This is a cancer of my soul with no healing or recovery--it's too late for me. The pain and misery is unbearable. Can someone please tell me how I can commit suicide with minimal pain? My life is already dead--only I'm still in pain and despair. (link)
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I'm very sorry for what you have to go through, but if you came here looking for suicide tips you won't find them here. SUICIDE IS NOT THE ANSWER! You shouldn't be praying for God to end your life. You should pray and praise him through the hell you are going through knowing that he is going to work all your problems out. I'm a teenager telling you that your life is not over. Just the faith the size of a mustard seed is all you need. Just believe God. He will take care and provide for you. Don't give up hope PLEASE!
Pray that the devil is releasing his hold on your finances and your life and I will be praying to. I don't know if you are religious or not but you should look up Dr. Cindy Trimm. She is very inspirational.
I hope this helped in some way.
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20/f Recently, my boyfriend has told me he wants to focus on our future more, and that he wants to be more interested in the things I'm into. He emphasizes that it makes him happy just to see me happy. He has never been so vocal about it, and claims he is more mature because he has stopped masturbating so that he can wait for me to please him. He feels as though he is more mature, and that he is more attentive because I control when we have sex, pleasure, etc. When he said this I was very shocked, in a way insulted. I need opinions,I don't know how to feel.. (link)
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Basically, your boyfriend just said he loves you very much.
YOU SHOULD FEEL HAPPY, AND LUCKY!!
Congratulations!!
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I was dating this one boy. He told me he is in love with his. He said he likes me and loves her. This was a week ago he told me. I didn't talk to him for one week to give him a bit of time. I talked to him today and said he knows nothing about what he is going to do. I get he is confused and needs a bit of time to sort things out but I can't wait for him forever. I really want to be with him but I know if he is saying this I shouldnt be with him. I don't know what I should do. I care for him so much but sometimes I think I shouldn't. I just want him to be happy but he isn't sure who he would be happy with. Advice? I really miss him and care so much for him that I am thinking what I want over what I deserve but I don't seem to care what I desevre I just want him. Help!? (link)
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I don't think you should wait for him forever. You should let him be with the person he loves, and maybe somewhere along the way, you'll find someone who loves you. I wish you and your heart the best of luck in your decision.
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