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Can I tell her I like her on first date?
So I've been meaning to ask this girl out for like months, but due to my lack of confidence I never managed to work up the nerve to do it. I finally did it a couple of days ago and she agreed to go out - but here is the thing: she only lives in my town for faculty, and as we're going to graduate soon, she's going to move back home within a week - just a couple of days after our upcoming "date". And she lives like 6 hours of ride away! This WON'T be the last time I see her, but I won't get to see her much afterwords as she'll be going back and forth just for the exams. And it might be a whole month until the next time she comes.
So here's my question: when we go out, what should I do? Should I tell her I like her?! I know you're not supposed to do that on the first date, but for the above reasons there's no way we can start to go out continuously, and no time to take it slow. (By the way, the fact that I asked her out does NOT automatically underlie my intentions because she's got a lot of guy friends she's gone out with on friendly basis).
If she wants to use the time we'll both be in town for dating, then there's a chance we keep visiting each other in the future when she goes home for good! So I think I should let her know how I feel pronto. Or maybe I shouldn't?
What do I do?!
Oh, and we ARE friends although not particularly close. So she's not someone I only just picked up.
Any advice appreciated!
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I think that you should tell her that you like her. When you go out with her just be yourself and tell her how you feel. Life is short and you don't want to go through the rest of your life wishing you could have told her. I wish you the best of luck.
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