How to get help dying? My husband ruined my life, and there doesn't seem to be anything left for me.
Question Posted Thursday May 24 2012, 6:55 pm
I need advice on how to commit suicide. I am 62 yo female soon to be divorced. We were previously involved in chapt 13 bankruptcy. Husband stole $16,000 of my money that was to pay house payment and b/r payments since 8/2011. I learned 2 mos. ago that mortgage co. had requested foreclosure on our home last 7/2011 of the b/r attorney. I knew nothing. Husband forged my name on document at b/r attorney to increase the b/r payment. When I confronted attorney, he threatened to fire me and I would have to start over and pay more money. Attorney separted the chapt. 13 and allowed husband to file chpt.7 owing no debts. I am now responsible for over $100,000 due to the joint debts and his business debts after attorney sent out notifications of objections to all husband's debtors with my name on them. House is now in full foreclosure. Husband approved for full VA disability last month--$3,000 per mo. plus $1,000 Social security retirement. He pays no bills except his cable. I cannot pay all these expenses although I work. He is abusive and has threatened to kill me, calls me names like "whore" and other names. Husband stole $67,000 from my brother's and my inheritance from our parents by forgery and embezzlement. We had 2 rental properties. They are now up for sale in hopes I will be able to get the bankruptcy off my back. But, real estate agent has made no effort or progress. Now I am soon to be homeless, no credit, no ability to pay all the bills, no future, no life, and no end in sight. Each day there is more bad news from someone. I have no way out. There is no one who can help me (I've talked with lawyers). Each day is more painful than the day before. I don't eat, sleep, can't think, can't make decisions, and pray for death day and night. I tried to cut my wrists but stopped because it hurt too much. On meds, but there is not enough medication to improve the amount of hurt and misery of each day that I live. This is a cancer of my soul with no healing or recovery--it's too late for me. The pain and misery is unbearable. Can someone please tell me how I can commit suicide with minimal pain? My life is already dead--only I'm still in pain and despair.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? Drewb13 answered Monday June 4 2012, 3:53 pm: I'm very sorry for what you have to go through, but if you came here looking for suicide tips you won't find them here. SUICIDE IS NOT THE ANSWER! You shouldn't be praying for God to end your life. You should pray and praise him through the hell you are going through knowing that he is going to work all your problems out. I'm a teenager telling you that your life is not over. Just the faith the size of a mustard seed is all you need. Just believe God. He will take care and provide for you. Don't give up hope PLEASE!
Pray that the devil is releasing his hold on your finances and your life and I will be praying to. I don't know if you are religious or not but you should look up Dr. Cindy Trimm. She is very inspirational.
I hope this helped in some way. [ Drewb13's advice column | Ask Drewb13 A Question ]
alexisgirlie answered Sunday May 27 2012, 6:35 pm: You shouldn't be dealing with all of this pain alone! Go get help, and you yourself will realize that suicide is not the solution! Life is! Don't kill the zombie in you, bring yourself back to life! Give yourself a break from the pain! I was suicidal a few months ago, and I believed with every ounce of my being that my life was over, and I'll never be happy again. I was wrong! Thanks to the help I received, my life is awesome, even though I'm bipolar! Your brain isn't functioning right, and that's why you think that the way to end your grief is to end your life. The way to end grief is to go get help, fight for your rights, and reclaim your place in the world! You deserve the best life you can have, and you don't deserve to die! Besides, there's no easy way to commit suicide. Get a life! Don't end it! You're a queen, and no one should ever treat you lower than one! Good luck, and I hope you feel better soon :) [ alexisgirlie's advice column | Ask alexisgirlie A Question ]
Justforyou answered Saturday May 26 2012, 11:08 pm: There is always a way out believe me. Even though things go bad there is always something that can be done. If you don't have children you could go live with you can let a friend know you are in trouble and need help. There are always people that can help. in fact the only reason ,I joined this website is because of you. And to tell you this. Believe me my life isn't doing much better than yours. I think my wife is cheating on me. And we have no money, but she keeps spending money on internet scams. And she has a very bad temper. I try to help her but it no use. [ Justforyou's advice column | Ask Justforyou A Question ]
Xui answered Saturday May 26 2012, 10:03 pm: You start here
You take him to court and file embezzlement and forgery charges against him. If the lawyer isnt willing to help you then you find a new lawyer. Also, I would get a report from the bank and take it too the lawyer. After I would file a police report and get a restraining order on him [ Xui's advice column | Ask Xui A Question ]
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