me and my sister argue like crazy.its constant.my confidence is already low as im struggling at school.shes not making it any easier calling me thick shit etc.i try not to argue cos it really upsets my mum but i cant let her get away with it can i?what shall i do.i tried talking carmly to her but it doesnt werk?plse reply swn i rate good!xxxx
If talking to her didn't work, you need to ignore her for a while. She will then notice that there is no one to argue with so she will stop. My brother and I always argue and I just ignore him and he has stopped a little bit. It's not your fault that you two argue a lot because it's normal for siblings to argue but she shouldn't be calling you "thick shit" and such.
-Karen
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hi,
does anyone know some cool, different layout sites for xangas? ive looked at a bunch but i want to see more! thanx in advance!
You can find some layouts at http://www.xanga.com/crazy_layouts, http://www.xanga.com/L0VELY_LAY0UTS, http://www.xanga.com/Ky00tE_LaY0uTzX3, http://www.xanga.com/LayoutsYouLove_x3, http://www.xanga.com/xOx_leyhoutz, and http://www.xanga.com/layoutsandmor3. There are so many other layout sites, just click on Blogrings and search for "Layouts" and a lot of Xangas come up.
-Karen
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my best friend has done "things" with a guy that i never thought she would do i mean shes only 14 and i have known her for about 8 years and she has never done anyhting like this before...i know its like none of my buisness to what she does but i just dont know what to say to her or what to think of her anymore...what do i do???
You need to talk to your friend and tell her how you feel about all of the things she has done with this guy. Tell her that she has changed your opinion about you because you have never thought that she would do these things at this age. If she has been your friend for 8 years, she should understand and will stop. You should tell her to stop doing these things because she will eventually be called a whore, slut, and etc. and you don't want her to be known as that.
-Karen
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I'm 13 and I had high cholesteral since I was 3. My parents aren't exactly cooks and we always eat food made from instant and frozen foods. I'm skinny, but still I need to exersice, but I'm too lazy because the food I eat isn't giving me enough energy. Any suggestions on how to be healthier?
Since you have a high cholesteral, you need to start eating foods with less fat and watch what you eat; eat foods with low cholesteral. My mom has high cholesteral also and she told me that if you eat Quaker Oatmeal, it will lower your cholesteral. Tell your parents that you need to start eating healthier and they need to buy healthier food. Once you have enough energy to exercise, start doing cardio exercises such as running, jogging, jump roping and other cardio activities such as taebo and kick boxing. Then just do other exercises. You should talk to a doctor about this and they will explain everything better to you and what you should eat and such.
-Karen
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How do I tell my boyfriend I want to wait to have sex until we're in a not so public place?
Just talk to him and tell him that you aren't comfortable to have sex in a public place and that you would rather have sex somewhere where you feel comfortable and knowing that no one will see you. If he's your boyfriend, he should understand this and will wait.
-Karen
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Can someone define the diffrence between love and being in love...anything corny is fine! Or could you define love itself.
Oh and is it possible to find love at any age? 15?
Love is a something that you give to someone; for example, you love your parents, friends, etc. Being in love is something that is shared between two people that love each other. Yes, it is possible to find love at any age, especially at the age of 15. If you love someone and you love them, then you are in love. That's what love is to me.
-Karen
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Why do people make fun of white people? I mean, it's just a color....Also, people will make fun of me because I'm Jewish and it hurts because Jews fought for their freedom just like black people, so why is skin color such a big deal?
I definitely agree with you that people shouldn't make fun of someone, just because they are a different race and color. That is wrong and no one should be treated that way. Everyone is the same, we are all human beings and that does not make a difference. To some people, skin color is a big deal because whoever is a different race and color than them, they assume that these people are different and they then make fun of them. If people are making fun of you, just because you are Jewish, definitely ignore them and tell them that everyone is the same and they shouldn't be making fun of you because what goes around, comes around.
-Karen
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I'm really scared. My grandma (on my dad's side) has Alzemiers...it's where you forget your past and aren't really aware of your surrondings...My mom's brother has something like that, so the disease is on both sides of the family. It scares me thinking that I might get it. I get sidetracked really easily and I just know Alzemiers is in my genes. I'm 13...Do you think they will have a cure for it by the time I'm gorwn up?
Well, since this disease is on both sides of your family, there is a possibility of you getting it. I'm sorry to say but there probably won't be a cure for it but I bet there will be new treatments and such that will help you. You never know, with all of this technology in this world, there could be a cure but there may not. Scientists and doctors have been trying to find a cure for Cancer but they haven't yet but there have been treatments that help people stay alive longer. You need to just hope and keep praying every night for a cure to be discovered.
-Karen
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well there is this guy...he tells me that he likes me but he always uses the excuse "i dont want a girlfriend right now" i really like him and i have for 2 years now...am i suppose to just forget about him? i dont know what to do i could really use some help...thanks
If you like this guy, then you should give him a chance. If he isn't what you expected him as a boyfriend, then you should dump him afterwards and then forget about him because if he always uses the "I don't want a girlfriend right now" excuse, it shows you that he will just use that for a while.
-Karen
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There is this kid at school that I have known for about 3 years. He constantly bugs me and acts like he is flirting with me. We are both in this show at school and I was dancing for my part in the show and he screamed Work it girl! I know he was talking to me but I dont know if he meant anything my it. I dont like him at all. As a friend but not a b/f. He is always trying to go out of his way to be super nice to me to. Please help me.
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It sounds like this guy likes you and if you don't like him as a boyfriend, then tell him that you want to be friends with him. If he constantly bugs you and if it annoys you a little bit, talk to him and tell him that you want him to stop. If you don't want to go out with him but he asks you out, tell him that you just want to be good friends with him. You should give him a chance but since you don't like him, then you don't have to. You should ask him how he feels about you too.
-Karen
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Hey, I was wondering if any of you knew the codes for either Lovers and Friends by Usher, Ludacris, and Lil Jon; Obsession by Frankie J and Baby Bash; or O by Omarion for a xanga site?? Or, you you know what site I could go to to get them myself? Thanks for your help!
Here are the URLs or codes to each of the songs that you are looking for:
"Lovers and Friends"- http://www.mp3search.ru/m3u.html?id=299306 or http://home.comcast.net/~therealestchica10/Lil-Jon_LoversFriends.wma
"Obsession"- http://www.hostima.net/musicxunlimited2/Frankie%20J%20&%20Baby%20Bash%20-%20Obsession.mp3 or http://www.kdwb.com/audio_video/frankiej_obsession.wma
"O"- http://www.sonymusic.com/artists/Omarion/video/Omarion_OVidFull_300.asx
If you want to find more Xanga's with these music codes, just click on this link: http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=NuMbA1_MuSiC_sOuRcE
-Karen
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Does anyone have any websites with charts on average weights and stuff?
thanks!
If you go to http://www.am-i-fat.com, there are charts on average weights for certain ages and BMI calculators and so on.
(The name of this website doesn't mean that you are fat, it's just a website named liked that because it includes everything to know about your weight and such; I didn't mean to affend you. It's not my fault that it's named as that.)
-Karen
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I just had a really quick question. My boyfriend and I have done some.. hmm "stuff" and I was wondering- what kind of "stuff" is okay to do at 14? ( we haven't had sex ) - and I don't want answers like "do what you're confortable with," because I was very comfortable with what I did, I just want to know if it was right for what age I am.
At your age, you can do anything as long as you are alright with it and you are ready. I really can't tell you what kind of "stuff" is okay to do at your age because everyone is different. What ever you did with your boyfriend, it was alright for your age because age doesn't matter when you do things with someone.
-Karen
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Does anybody know how i could remember my homework??? Because i always forget and i think i lost my agenda. And they wont give us new ones ??? Any advice would be great ( i rate high)
You can buy some post it notes or whatever they are called and write down your homework on them and post it on your backpack, sweatshirt, and anywhere else you can notice it. You can also do what most students do and that's by writing your homework on your hand. Both of these ways will help you remember your homework. I never use my agenda anymore and I have managed to remember my homework by doing one of these things that I've mentioned.
-Karen
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ok i wrote like last month about this boy who called me fat and said he hated me and everything... but he IMed the other day and he said sorry and that he would never do it again and i dont know what i should do because i really like him but i dont wanna get hurt again. i told him i would think about forgiving him but i seriously dont know what to do... help! i rate good! *unless its a stupid answer*
If this guy apologized to you, it tells you that he really meant it and that he knew it hurt you. When guys apologize to a girl, it means that they are sorry for what they did. You need to talk to him and tell him that you never want him to say anything mean to you that will hurt you. You should forgive him but make sure he won't say anything to you like that again because that is mean.
-Karen
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I have AIM, and I have a buddyprofile, I was wondering if anyone knew of any Kool letter, number, comma, things that make symbols, or gestures, or just funny stuff. If you know of a website could you help me please! Thnxs a bunch
If you go to http://www.coloryourprofyle.com, you can find those ALT codes and other codes for your BuddyProfile.
-Karen
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Where can you get free counters that can tell you how many people were at your website today and how many total?
If you go to http://www.coolcounters.com, they have a lot of cute counters and they tell how many people have visited your website today and total.
-Karen
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Is a teacher allowed to bring down your grade because you forgot a book or a packet that you need for that class?
Yes, a teacher is allowed to bring down your grade if you forget something that you needed for class and I think they shouldn't do that to you. If your teacher specifically told you that if you don't bring it in that he/she will bring down your grade, then that is allowed. Every teacher grades differently but this is allowed.
-Karen
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Does anyone know a website that explains the different health terms in simple words, with pictures to help you understand even better? If you have to sign up to see the infomation, it has to be a free non-profitable organization.
You can go to http://www.webmd.com for health terms and such and you can go to http://www.toneteen.com for exercises that have pictures.
-Karen
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Ok so this is whats going on: I'm 16 (so is he) and a sophmore. Lately Ive been hanging out a lot with this guy from another school. He's great! Really funny, good looking, into soccer, can drive (lol thats always a PLUS), lots of the same friends.. you get it right? Ok well there are some problems that i need some advice on!! 1)He goes to another school. Its really close to mine but its a catholic school. 2) I cant tell if he likes me as much as I like him. And I cant tell if he's like this with every other girl. I was talking to my friend about him and she was like "yeah well who wouldnt like him?!" ...i want a relationship but i dont want to speed into it. I dont want to be liking a guy who 452456875242578 other girls like. 3)He's into some bad stuff.. but he knows I dont like it very much. Other than that he's great!!! He even let me drive his car through the parking lot :) it was so cute since i dont even have my permit yet and he didnt let anyone else drive at all. And he has the most adorable smile ever! whoa i really have no idea what to do.. PLEASE HELP! I'll rate since its so long
You need to talk to this guy and ask him if he acts the same or differently to other friends. If you two are friends, then I'm sure he will tell you. It sounds like this guy likes you, since he let you drive his car a little bit, and he seems to care for, which is good. Find out if he likes anyone else. You can talk to his close friend or have a friend ask him. If you like him, then you should take a chance and ask him out. If he's into bad stuff and he knows that you don't want him to do that, then you need to tell him to stop. If he flirts with you, then it may mean that he is interested in you but like you said, he may be like this with other girls. Just try talking to him and tell him how you feel about him and find out if he likes any other girls and such.
-Karen
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