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Q: I have a guy friend who acts in movies. (no names) and he asked me out. I don't know if I should, I like him but I am just don't want to be known as HIS girlfriend instead of my name. I don't know if too many celebs date normal people like me and how people take and what the press and whatnot would say. What should I tell him?

Well im sure he wont always refer to you as HIS gf.. he may refer to you as "this is my girlfriend Rebecca" or something like that.. but he would be referred to you as your bf.. just give it a chance though-trix

Q: im 12 and my parents wont let me go out with guys yet cuz im supposedly too young, but i go out with them secretly and now more guys are starting to ask me out, but they want to actually take me somewhere like dinner or a movie and stuff, but my parents wont let me go anywhere unless they kno my "friends" parents!!!!!!

Well you are 2 young maybe you should go out with a group of friends instead-trix

Q: ya guys hey its me samantha again well yep im pregnant and um ya i way to scared to tell my travis and i defently way to scared to tell anybody else cause my parents said that if i got pregnant id get kicked out of the house and id have no where to go! so what should i do...
Also one more thing is my moms getting married the 23 and i relly dont like her going to be husbad he doesnt like me doesnt listen to me and i dont know what to do...
*x*samantha*X*

Well your mom can't kick you out of the house and give you no place to leave but you have to tell him and your parents because they will soon notice and if you dont tell them and they find out on there own they'll be upset... so i'd tell them and if your not ready for a baby then just put it up for adoption-trix

Q: what are the side affects of birth control? and can i get it w/o telling my mom? if so how...and what is the day after pill and all that? and how can i get it?

Well you could go to www.ask.com and find out what you need and you usually need your moms permission with it all and go to the dr. i heard that you only in some states though that you need your mom-trix

Q: I like this ok and I asked her out she said yes and her mom said I was to old for her what should I do?

You asked this before i said to just sit down with her and to give her a good impression of you that way she will let you two to go out-trix

Q: how do you rate ppls columns on here? thank you! and check out my column! *court*

You rate on the advice they give-trix

Q: Hi my name is Brandon I like this girl she is fine ok and so I asked her out she said yes and her mom said I was to old for her what should I do??

Well i would talk to her mom about it and see what she doesnt like about the whole fact of you 2 going out just let her get a good impression of you and make sure you guys are at least friends.. or whatever you call it.. but at least she knows your a good guy-trix

Q: One of my best friends is about to throw her life away by dating the schools pimp, im not joking, he has cheated on everygf he has had including me, but every time i tried to explain that to her she just doesnt listen.. Please hel me help her

Well get alot of his xgf's to tell her what they have done and what he will most likely do to her and if she doesnt want to listen then let her find out the hard way..-trix

Q: my bffl has been ignoring me and i dont no how to get her to talk to me usally i can solve this my own but she just wont talk to me i do think it is because i hate her boi and she hates mines but i did not want to break a fiend ship up like that because of bois

should i break up with my boi or what please help

Well call it quits with you and him for a bit and then talk to her and tell your boi that you will get back with him after everything is solved-trix

Q: You see i told this guy that i would go out with, him when school starts, but now that ii think of it, i can't. I really like him, but i can't, what should i do???

Well you should give it a chance chances never hurt anybody-trix

Q: I like this person and I think they like me too but they kinda flirt with a lot of people so how do I know

Well flirts are hard to go out with first of all everybody has a crush on my good friend steveo but everbody relizes they have to move on i can name 4 girls off the top of my head right now that like steveo i've never fallen for him personally and he will just pay more more attenion to you then usual-trix

Q: ok when i go out to eat with my sister and her boyfriend he boyfriend always makes my sis pay shouldnt he pay now my sis has like no money so what should she do or i do?

Just tell her to speak up and mention she doesnt got much money-trix

Q: there is this guy and he likes me he is really weird but his parents are friends with my parents so he always comes over!! he bugs me so much but i dont want to be mean so how should i deal with him?

Just tell him you dont like him like that and you dont think you ever will.. you look to him as a friend-trix

Q: It's been three days
You come around here like you know me
your stuff, my place
next thing u know u'll be using my toothpaste
step off, sit down
get ready let me tell u who's the boss now
stay here, get out
everytime i turn around your in my face.

Here I am perfect as i'll ever be youll see
Love me for me
Stick around im not the kind of girl u want to leave youll see
love me for me.

Shut up come back no i didnt really mean to say that.
Im mixed up, so what
yeah you want me so u messed up too.
I love you, I hate you
If you only knew what i've been through

My head is spinning but my heart is in the right place.
Sometimes it has to have its self a little earthquake!!!

I got that picture of what you told me in the additional info. I like it!! It was extremely good!! and I am a picky person! but i love it!!-trix

Q: i like this guy but when i am around him i act really shy how can i stop that like when he comes up i just stand there i have never even said hi i know this is stupid but can you help me

Just hang out with him more and call him more and you'll come around trust me im shy but if you like someone you'll come around sooner then you think-trix

Q: ok there is this guy i met a little while ago (i'm 15 female) and hes 15, male but any ways he always flirts and he has told me he has only loved one other gurl but she cheated on him so he doesnt love her any more and then the other day i sent him one of my poems about the only guy i have ever loved but dont love any more and he said "maybe i can change that" .... and since he is a BIG flirt i dunno what he meant by it i mean there are other things too like he hates skaterboys but i'ma skatergurl and i said i really only like the way skaterguys looked and now he said he is changing to become a skater boy ... i mean i asked him why but he says its becuase everyone in his nieghbor hood was but he also told me he has hated everything about a skaterboy since as long as he can remember so i dont no why he is changing now ..... and he also doesnt really share his feelings but always wants to no mine when i cant even share them becuase i dont know what i am feeling..... am i reading why to much into this becuase he sends me mixed emotions all the time i mean i know hes a flirt and thats what flirts do but i refuse to flirt to much back just becuase and i dunno can someone help becuase i am all confused

Well he defintly has a thing for you just dont let him change to much cuz then you will start liking what you created out of him and not who he really was and tell him you will tell him your feelings for him if he does for you like make it a deal or something-trix

Q: ok my sister's boyfriend just got into a fight with his mom. and now hes not living with his parents anymore. my sis doesnt want him to end up like my sister which did the same thing and never came back. so i think she just went with her boyfriends mom somewhere. and if he comes by wut do i tell him? or if he calls do i tell him wut is going on? idk cuz my sis sounded pretty serious about it and sed that i couldnt tell him anything. but wut should i do?!?!?! plz help

~i will rate~

Well just look out the window and see if its him then dont answer the door/phone or just say she is busy if he's on the phone or say you dont know where she ran off to-trix

Q: Thanks for the last advice....but i totally crashed again i have no clue whats going on with me..im used to doing "things" with him. ((i wont name them tho)) and lately i feel like either dont wanna do them or havnt done them before. he said he wished i would ask him more ((like to give him things such as a bj or a hj)) things like that. how should i deal with that??
signed,
hopeless

I would tell him you dont like to be his lil play toy before something worse happans-trix

Q: hey im a 16 year old girl and i have a question im curently dating this guy named travis right well he recently got kicked out of his house and know lives with his mom in logan which is 40 minutes away and u..he doesnt like me hanging out with his guy friends what should i do and hes like a sex addicted but i dont wanna say know cause hes stronger than i am and so i do what ever i want but some times i dont wannt to but i do any way what should i do?? thanxs for your help!!!!!
later,*Samantha*

Well just tell him you guys should break up until he can move back in with his dad because you dont like long distance relationships.. but then again im sure you wont see him as much so i would just call it a break or leave it how it is but you wont see him very much so he wont pressure you much into it. i would dump him before he pressures you to do something more or worse-trix

Q: see i want a classic guitar but i don't exactly know were to get one and i don't have the money to buy oneand so what should i do?

-bubba78

P.S.i am a girl who needs advise

Well start saving. Start doing chores,extra chores, babysitting, garage sales, and things like that and you should be getting money. If you are old enough go get a job at mcdonalds or something-trix

bio

My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.

I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.

I've been there done that im sure

ex. (with the number of expierences)

-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)

Like I said "been there done that"