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ya guys hey its me samantha again well yep im pregnant and um ya i way to scared to tell my travis and i defently way to scared to tell anybody else cause my parents said that if i got pregnant id get kicked out of the house and id have no where to go! so what should i do...
Also one more thing is my moms getting married the 23 and i relly dont like her going to be husbad he doesnt like me doesnt listen to me and i dont know what to do...
*x*samantha*X*
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1- tell her how you feel about this guy/ 2- tell your mom your pregnant
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I got pregnant when I was 17 (I'm 19 now, and my baby is 7 mo. old). My parents always told me that I would get kicked out if I got pregnant, so I waited a long time to tell them. When I finally told them, the only thing that they were mad about was that I hadn't told them sooner. Yeah, I got a lecture, but I didn't get kicked out, so it worked out ok. Things didn't work out so well with the guy I was with, but I found someone better after we broke up. My advice, don't wait too long to decide how you're going to tell them, because they're going to find out eventually anyway. I wish you the best of luck, and I hope things work out ok and that you don't get kicked out.
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My suggestion is write your mom a letter and explain everything to her. Go to a friends house for the night (it will give her time to cool down.) Then call before you go home and say "Are you ready/Do you feel like talking?" and let her take her frustrations out. You can't blame her for being angry. Now about Travis, it's his baby too. Tell him. Tell him u need him to be there and you WANT him to be there. Ask him what he plans to do but please dont yell at him. He'll be as upset as you were when u find out! Be strong! Hope things work out! Hope this helped! Keep me informed! -Sonnie
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Well your mom can't kick you out of the house and give you no place to leave but you have to tell him and your parents because they will soon notice and if you dont tell them and they find out on there own they'll be upset... so i'd tell them and if your not ready for a baby then just put it up for adoption-trix
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u have to talk to your mom and tell her everthing and if she kicks u out then u need to tell her that u need her help cuz shes ur mom just tell her everything hopefully she will help u
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Well, the most obvious thing would be to ask why you got pregnant in the first place if you already knew the consequences?
Sadly, unless there is someone you can turn to for help, you're going to have to suck it up and tell people, because they will figure it out eventually. I assume that the father of your unborn child is Travis - if you are more than a month or two along, you owe it to him to inform him of his responsility - because he is half of the reason your pregnant.
Regarding your mom's marriage, that is always a difficult situation to have. I don't know what to offer other than to hope that you and he can work our your differences over time. I wish there was some magic way to make it all easy.
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