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"There's no other love like the love for a brother. There's no other love like the love from a brother." A lot has changed since I was in High-school and first created my column - almost 8 years ago!!!! I now have two gorgeous Boys who mean the World to me; Brody, who is 3 and a half years old, and Brayden, who will be a year in November. I live my life for these two Boys. They make every second worth it. xxoo ♥ ♥

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What do you think about these baby names:

Mattilynn Nicole
Jake Ryan
Zachary Daniel
Rylee Elizabeth

Twin girls :

Ashlynn
Joshlynn

They are such cute name. I adore the twins names, they go together. Zachary Daniel is a very cute name as well.
♥ Krissy

ok so i like this guy and he is gonna ask me if i like him wat do I say?

If you like him, say yes. Then something can start up with you and him. If you don't have any feelings towards him, just tell him you rather be friends.
♥ Krissy

the girl wants to drag me down to the mall and get me a "whole new look" for prom, including contact lenses and i'm guessing that i will not come away with completely brown hair or my usual hawaiian shirt. The girl is totally bangin, but has not given me a definitive answer on prom yet.
I would love to take her to prom(and date her too), but is it worth my dignity? also considering i have to go on an army outing the day after it is supposed to happen. i think looking like a fairy would not earn me points with the sergeant.
-hitler the manly goat

This girl is trying to control you, by changing your hole style/look around. If you're not comfortable with it, tell her no, simple as that. This is your style and this is how you want to dress/look. If she doesn't like that, then she's not worth it at all.
♥ Krissy

im 15 and i still have an A cup... all my friends have like huge boobs and i have no idea how to make mine any bigger!! how can i?!

You can't help your boobs grow any bigger then what they already are. But, look on the bright side, your body doesn't stop growing till your 18 years old. You still have 3 more years to go, believe me, they will grow sooner or later. Unless, small boobs run in your family. For now, just wear padded bra's, it'll make them look a little bigger.
♥ Krissy

I'm 16 and have never kissed, dated, or even gone out with a guy. IS this really wierd? I'm not ugly, and i'm thin. But I am very shy. IS there any way i can get over this. I really would like to have a boyfriend soon. I want one really bad!!

No, this isn't weird at all hun. Some of my friends haven't been kissed or gone out with a guy/girl before and they aren't ugly. Everyone is different, some people like to take things slow. I guess that's just the way some things happen. Since your shy, try talking to some of your good guy friends. Build up a very good friendship, by hanging out and talking a lot. Maybe some feelings will start up for both of you guys and see where it goes from there.
♥ Krissy

I just became a Level 1 moderator like 3 days ago but now I am interested in becoming a Level two moderator...does any one know how to???

They only have 10 level 2 moderator's. So, when one get's kicked off, someone else is up to replace them. You have to do a lot of rating and you have to be on here longer then someone else. Just go to this page, and it will explain everything. http://www.advicenators.com/faq.php?f=69
♥ Krissy

ok, i like this guy. my friend IMed him and asked him what he liked about me, he told her i was nice and kind and then she tried to get him more into details and he avoided the subject and told her it's not nice to talk about people behind there backs. almost like he was sticking up for me. he used to IM me all the time but now he dosn't i IM him with a random question which ends up turning into a conversation. he recently told me his dad had cancer, and the wayhe told me i didnt get what he said at first, so i asked him if his dad had cancer. he said he had to go and said bye, and signed off. In school i notice whenever im hanging out with a guy he looks at me laugh or watever, same with my best friend.

he sit's closer to me at lunch and talks to one of the guys i hang out with. i've caught him looking at me and i look away. i've also caught his mum looking at me like he told her something. His mum and my mum talks.i've called him once and it's always akward we end up taling about more personal stuff on Instant message too. more about our families too! when ever i tell him something random, he points it outor when i say somthing he teases me or tries to prove he's right!we are kinda friends i mean we've kinda talked in school and when he looks at me i look away. when i didnt go to a dance he Imed me and asked me where i was? and also when i left home sick, he asked me where i went? and it was like he accually cared about where i was. i know most guys would tell the girl they like, but the last time he told a girl he liked her she didnt like him back and it broke his heart. i watched him say by day in pain!(i kinda felt bad and fell for him) when ever i enter class he stares at me but dosnt smile.once in class he said my name and waved, smiling. that has only happended once, besides him looking at me. my friend always chats with him, but im usually by him and i kinda see him looking at her and then me but i look away. i see fear and sadness in his eyes. like he's afraid to tell me.

does he like me?

confused girl*
AKA Chris

I think he does have feelings for you. The only reason that he might not have told you yet, is because he doesn't want to get hurt again. Since last time he told a girl he liked her, and she broke his heart. So, he probably doesn't want to say anything to you, because he doesn't know if you like him or not. The best thing to do, is for you to tell him you like him yourself, make the first move, there's nothing wrong with that. You could write him a letter if your too scared to do it in person, or you could always e-mail him. Either way, you have to do something about this. Because you never know, he could be an amazing boyfriend and you'd be missing out on everything, just because you didn't tell him how you feel.
♥ Krissy

ok im in 8th grade and ive been going out with this guy for a long time we useally go to the movies talk on the phone and just hang out in school..the other day i asked him to come overmy house and as soon as i left went to my best friend and was like guess where im going on friday ..rachels house and she like she didn't tell me that and he goes i know she just asked me and like the whole week he sounded really excited that he was comeing to my house he would be like im dying to see your house and i can't wait till friday.. the night before he came over he called me and was looking my house up on map quest lol and then he was like we have to do alot of stuff over the summer because ill miss you too much and i thought that was soo cute the next day in the hall i asked him what time he was gonna come over and he said after lacrosse practice he had to take a shower and then his parents were going to his grandpas birthday party and they whould drop him off on the way there and i was like u can't miss your grandpas party for me and hes like yeah i can its the same thing every year soo i was like okk then he sat next to my best friend and goes im goign to rachels tonight but im scared i haveing been to a girls house in forever...later that night he called me and said that his grandpa was going to flip if he didn't go to his party and hes like this sucks i really wanted to hang out with you and was like i promise well do it this week which we have off..i even drove by his house and there was no lights on and nobody was home ....today someone told me that they saw him at a lacrose game that night..im soo shocked i can't believe he would tell me that he hd to go to his grandpas party and then go to a game with his friends ive allways thought he really liked me like with the stuff he does and says but i dont why he did this like i cant believe it please help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Wow! The best thing to do is to talk to him about this. Ask him why he told you he had to go to his grandfathers birthday party, but ended up at a lacrose game. Explain to him, if he really didn't want to come to your house, he should have said so insted of telling you he was coming and then ended up ditching you. The truth is always the best way and that is what he should have done, told you the truth. But, to make things better, you have to talk to him about this. Either talk to him in person, on the phone, on the computer, or write him a letter or e-mail.
♥ Krissy

i loooved that picture you had up before..! it was awsome (: and the one you have up now! i

Thanks hun. I know it wasn't disgusting, but I like changing my pictures around. I love The Used too, they're so awesome!
♥ Krissy

that picture is nasty man up thereb w/ the dides kissing

That is the best picture ever. I love The Used. And they aren't really "kissing", they are just pretending to.
♥ Krissy

The boy i like might just be going with this girl i know and was friends with .See, this boy used to be my BFF , and he used to like me in the past. I'm not sure if he still does like me..Now, he wont talk to me.. What should i do ? my heart is broken!

You probably broke his heart also. When he liked you in the past, did you have feelings for him as well? You really need to talk to him about this and find out why he doesn't talk to you. Either call him up, write him a letter/e-mail, or talk to him in person/on the computer. You have the right to know why he's not talking to you. Once he does tell you why, maybe you guys can work something out and get back on the right track again. Just explain to him how much you do care and you don't want to lose him as a friend. Ever since you guys stopped talking, you always been down and it isn't right. I'm sure everything will go good.
♥ Krissy

what can drugs do to u?

It really depends on the type of drugs. Go to this website, it'll explain everything. http://www.azsadd.org/alcoholinfo.htm
♥ Krissy

well...tomorrow me n some of my friends might make a movie. well what are some ideas we could do for a movie? thanks ill rate 5!!!

You could go on an adventure around your town, be a spy, do some silly things and tape it, make a "best friend" tape with your friends; re-act all the funny times you guys had together, dress up in weird clothes and tape it, make a movie on a dance off or cheerleading, etc.
♥ Krissy

i dont no whats going on with me i thinking about cutting nd running away.do i have problems? should i see some1? anyone no ne more?

i rate high

A lot of people go through the samething as you and a lot of people thought about running away. You don't have problems, you just need to try to take your anger out on something else. Maybe you could try writing poems or short storys, songs, keep a journal, etc. It'll help you get all your thoughts out and it won't make you turn to cutting to solve your problems. Talking or writing about it can go a long way.
♥ Krissy

my father abuses me what should i do

You have to tell someone hun and don't be afraid to do so. It's a huge step to let something like this out. So once you do tell someone, a lot of weight will be lifted. You'll feel a lot better just knowing someone knows and they're going to be there for you. Talk to someone you trust. A best friend, teacher, your mom, grand parents, aunts or uncles, cousins, etc. The sooner you tell someone, the sooner you'll be able to put a stop to this.
♥ Krissy

Okay.. I will admit.. i'm a stoner.. I like drugs.. I'm just starting to wonder what these drugs will actually do to me in the long run. If you can get me any sites or information on the drugs listed .. Please tell me... I rate high

1. Cigarettes
2. Marijuana
3. Crack/ coke
4. Acid
5. Meth

http://www.azsadd.org/alcoholinfo.htm Just go to this website. It has everything you need to know about every drug you listed. Drug's can really mess you up in the long run. You might think it's all fun and games right now, but it can damage your health. Try cutting down each day, maybe it'll help. And maybe all this information will get you thinking about what could happen to you. Good luck.
♥ Krissy

for prom i heard you have to sign up.. or something? when is the dead line exactly for that?

I don't think you do. In my school you don't have to sign up, you just attend the prom. Maybe it's different in your school. Try asking someone that went to your school prom.
♥ Krissy

i want to know if im the only person that this happans to but whenever i click on columnists to see like who most recently answered questions or whatever it says error... why is this? cuz i want to ask people a problem i am having but i cant do that with not knowing who oftenly comes on and answers questions! thanks

I've been getting that for the past two days now too. There's probably something wrong with the columnlist part of the site. They'll probably have it back up and running soon, as soon as they find out what may be wrong with it.
♥ Krissy

For anyone that has been to prom, or is attending prom, or even knows about prom, what do you do? from beginning of all it until the end? I heard something about the grand march.. whats that? and what do you do?

It's different for every school. But it's usually along the same lines. When you go to the prom, there's usually a picture section when you first go in. You mostly just dance and eat. There's also a part of the prom, where the grad's usually dance with their mother or father. The grand march is walking down the hallway (or whatever they have set up), with your date.
♥ Krissy

Me and my friends are having a sleepover this weekend what sort of things can we do besides the usual stuff like watch movies? any ideas? thankyou xxx

You can do loads of things. Do make-overs on eachother, do eachothers hair, dance and act crazy, listen to music, play board games, go for a walk, go to the movies or watch movies at home, dress up in eachothers clothes or really old ones (maybe your parents?), play truth or dare, tell secrets, go on the computer, etc.
♥ Krissy

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