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(14,female)I use to go out with this guy...we went out for about 5 months n we were really serious...but i dumped him for his best friend(who was also one of my exs)(who i never hooked up with actually) and well me and him didnt talk for about 3 months..then on tha last day of school he came over n stayed till about 11 pm n we sorta hooked up..and then we didnt talk again for a month and then just recently he came over like 3 weeks ago n we hooked up again n i havent heard form him since then! I called ihm tha other day but he was being a real jerk! and then he had to go and told me to call him tha next day which i didnt i called him 2 days later and now he goes out with this girl that i cant stand!!but both of tha nights he came over he said he didnt want a g/f over tha summer bc of highschool starting and all that stuff and that i was one of tha clostest ppl to him in his life and that he still loved but me n then he goes out with her! and ever since he started getting invlolved with her he has been a real jerk...hes been lying alot too n he never use to...Im not sure what to do?! I dont want to loose him bc hes a great b/f and friend but i cant stand his new g/f and hes been being a jerk...what should I do? Plz help thanx

honey i think he is just using you!!!! and he wants you when HE want ya!

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My parents payed for me and my brother to go to a private school. It was really expensive but thank god we got insurance so some of the money will come back to us if we deside not to go. Well my brother and i ended up going to public school where it's free, the thing is that the private school won't let us get the money back unless we go there for 15 school days. I have been arguing with my parents saying that i just started to make friends at the public school, and things are really going my way. Going to the private school for 15 days will make it really hard to go back to the public school. I really dont know what to do cause it's a lot of money we will get back, yet i am really startin to fit in at the public school.

since this is long I will rate high!!!!!!!!!!

id just go to private school...get it over with and then go back to public!! your friends are still going to be at your public school when you get back!

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Ok i have been away for about 3 weeks and my boyfriend has been hanging out with all these different girls.. I am kinda jelous and worried because I am moving in about 5 months but we wanted to keep it strong until i go. I feel that with him being with these different girls is going ot make him loose interest in me.. should I feel this way?

any girl would feel like that!!! but you gotta trust him and if he really likes you and respects you then those other girls wont make him act any different towards ya!!!

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I'm goiing into 8th grade and have never had a b/f and i think i no y. In school and in my neighborhood i'm constantly playing sports. I've always loved to be involved with the diff. kinds of sports and wen i'm playing(which is A LOT of the time) i'm mostly playing wit guys. So i've been known as "one of the guys" wen i'm playing basebal nd stuff. Since i like never do any of that gurlie stuff no guys have crushes on me(or even like me as a girl). Are there any ways I can SHOW them that Sports aren't my life and get them to take me seriously?

start acting more girly!!!! wear cute clothes and go shopping and just act like a crazy woman!!! haha

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is anybody here from BUDDYPIC? Ok well I am and I try to upload this one pic so many times but it just won't work. It always says, THIS PIC IS TOO SMALL, I don't understand. If you are familier with BuddyPic or you can fix my picture, could you PLEASE drop one in my box - sshelbyy Thanks!

well is shouldnt say its too small but what you can do is take your picture and open it with paint. then just resize it!!

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my eye has been twitching lately!! ts gotton worse!! like its my eyelid, sometimes my eyebrow, and below my eye...not all @ once but its only in my right eye...u cant see it but i can feel it..i told my mom but she didnt really think nothin of it...wat does this mean??

you should go to the doctor!!!! you could have a stye in your eye!!!

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ok i have this awesome friend who lives in texas but i live in tennessee and i dont know if she trusts me or if she even thinks of me as a friend! and um i think she is so cool and she seems to goooooooood to be true! um can you help me? kayla~*~

well if you guys talk alot and she is nice to you and yall get along then im sure she thinks of you as a friend!!! and some people are too good to be true!! lol

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okay i'm 14 years old and occasionally i get these little pimples on my forehead and sometimes on my nose and around my mouth. i don't have acne or anything and to be honest i have pretty good skin but i'm trying to keep my skin really clear. i've used proactive and that didn't work at all it just made it worse! i ordered it twice i used it for 2 months and nothing worked on my skin! when i get a big pimple it's BIG like i swear it looked like i had a miniature tumor growing somewhere... okay maybe not THAT big but they get big and they bother me. does anyone have any products that i could use that aren't that expensive that would help clear up my skin a little bit more? except for proactive because i used that already and it didn't work (as i mentioned before) if you have any just let me know!!!

Neutrogena Oil-Free Acne wash is the best!!!!

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ok im a 14 year old girl and im cute but i am a redneck and i love being one but i would like to become more a girl and i just dont no where to find the clothes to fit my wantings and needs and well im kinda big too but not that big 162lbs its not big at all but i need help finding clothes to fit and i wanted to no if yall had a stor i could go to??? thanx

-mandi

well honey im a redneck too but you wouldnt know it at school!! lol...i love to shop at pacsun, forever 21, abercrombie, american eagle, agaci too, gadzooks, wet seal, christines and every where else they sell cute clothes!!! from time to time ill wear my polo shirt and my belt buckle and my hat and my boots but most of the time....i look like a barbie just walked out of the box!!! lol!

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i have this one friend... lets call her Liz.. Liz always used to come over my house, we always used to hang out.. there wasnt a day where we werent together.. cuz she lives rite down tha road.. but all of a sudden.. this summer.. she never comes over..she never calls.. n i never hear from her.. then i found out she was hangin w/ another girl that was a few years younger \than us.. I TOTALLY DONT MIND THAT but i mean i never see her any more.. the girl she hangs out with doesnt like me so i dont bother hangin out with them wen they r together.. but i feel like mah 2nd half has been torn away!

alwaiiz,
Ali

p.s. i rate

well tell her!! call her up and just tell her that you guys havent hung out in a while like you used to and you want to start hangin out and doing stuff together again!!! im sure she would be thrilled to hear from ya!!!

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I am the tallest girl(13) in our grade... and i feel like no guys wanna go out with me because im taller then them i dunno what to do i am afraid to ask guys out because of rejection and i sometimes feel akward in school what should i do?

well every person has that slight fear of rejection. but you just have to over come that!!! just start making better relationships with guys who you think you might like!!!! and im sure they will start to like you for who you are and not how tall you are!!! hehe

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my friend's parents dont think that teens know what love is so shes getting as many people as she can to tell her what they think about love and stuff like that. but she doesnt have that many people. if some of you could please help and tell what you think about love then please do. thanks.

well her parents are right. when your 14 you more then likely havent found that one person who you are going to spend the rest of your life with and the person your going to have your children with. You may like somebody and have a crush on somebody when your 14 but there is a very VERY slim chance that you are IN LOVE. and you dont know alot about love when your 14 either lol. i mean your hardly old enough to get a job, you havent done anything real dangerous(if your a good kid), you havent lived life and run into to serious and financial problems....lol...your just a kid!!!

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me and my sister fight all the time. shes a teenager. and i am three years younger than her. will she grow out of it? how should i act towards her? beacause right now i feel like i really need a sister, not an enemy :.(

tell her that. like go up to her when she is in her room or something, ask to talk to her ad tell her that you know that age difference between you two is far apart but you still love her and want to be more of her friend then her enemy. and just talk to her about how you feel!!!

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I'm going to my boyfriend's house sometime before summer ends..we're both 13..my parents don't know I have a boyfriend because I'm not aloud to..but I'm nervous about going over there..I've never even gone over to a guys house when were just friends with just the two of us! Does anyone have any advice for me, what can make me less nervous? I mean hes never done anything besides hug a girl..which of course was me and I was his first girlfriend, we dated before this. So I don't have to worry about him doing anything I wouldn't want him to do. I mean..im sure we're gonna kiss bcuz he said he wanted to and he said he wanted me to be his first for everything since I already was for the girlfriend and the hug..but any advice? I'll be online for a while on secretAsquirrel..thats not my normal sn but its the one im gonna be using for the time im at my friends house.

well you really dont have anything to be nervous about if you dont think he is going to try to make you do something you dont want to. and even if that happened just tell how you feel and that your not ready to do stuff like that yet! just relax and walk into his house like you own the place!!! lol

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see well okay at the store my mom had to run in for a few things, well my x b/f came to talk to me ,(with his new gurlfriend!) and I couldnt
talk i was speachless!, But he broke up with her right there and then , and in front of her he asked me back out and I couldn't say anything to answer!!should I or shouldn't i?? and he said i was hott in front of her.!!!!
PLZ Help!!!
AS SOON AS U CAN!!!

it depends on why yall broke up. if you still having feelings for him then maybe yall should go back out. But ask him first why he wants to go back out with you and see what he says!!!

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Hi .. well, here it goes. There's this guy, lets say his name is Luke. Luke is really cute and he's a yaer older than me, sometimes he is sweet to me but just to prove to his boys that he's tough sometimes he is really mean. His younger sister, Michelle, is my best friend (she's 2 years younger than him.) Anyways, to my sister and Michelle he makes fun of them but to me he just teases me a little, nothing too bad. When we all went out last week he kept following me and stuff and staring at me and telling me to race with him and trying to make me catch him. I don't know, everyone says it looks like he likes me but he wont admit it to my sister or anyone else. His 'boys' won't tell me either. They say he has a girlfriend named 'Ashley Marks' but Michelle would know because they go to the same school and she never seen any girl named Ashley marks with him and she says its a lie. I really want to go out with him but if he doesn't admit it I won't get too far. And also i really can't tell him I like him unless he tells me first because my mother said not to because she doesn't want people at her office to thinkim a huge flirt...(his mom and dad work for my mom and dad) I want him to tell SOMEONE he likes me and I want to know if he likes me...help...i need a ton of opinions on this one cuz i really really like him and want to date him!!!

sit his little booty down and tell him how you feel!!! sometimes you just have to beat stuff like this out of guys lol. tell him that you want to date him and how you feel about him. but also let him know that him being mean to you just to show off is wrong and immature.

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is it normal for me to be crying over little things when i get my period??

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yea...girls are extra sensitive during that time of the month!!

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for skin-i have pimples on my cheeks and chin and i want clear skin be4 school...any ideas anyone?
for hair-i have blonde hair, down just a little bit past my shoulders, blue eyes, im 5'3'' and skinny, what type of cut should i get (no bangs).??

for your skin...use Neutrogena Oil-Free Acne wash!!!(its what i use hehe). and for your hair....umm..get it layered!!!

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ok i met this guy online and said i was 15..that was 2 yrs ago and now im "17" im really only 14 goin on 15!!! well this guy is really amazing hes sent me pix of him n salutes saying he real....we talk on the fone and everything...i told him a diff name...diff age...and sent him fake pix...he thinks its me..and hes coming out to where i live in 2 yrs for his senior trip...he sed hes told him mom about me and wants to bring me back where he lives!! i wish i was erally who i said i was bc i want him!! he even told me he loves me and thers no other gur like me!! hes totally in love with me and wev been talkin for 2 yrs now!!!!!!!! WAT DO I DO?? do i jst delete my fake screen name and everything...i cant tell him!! he mite call me and that wuld freak me out bc hed b really angry...he picked to come out to see me for his senior tip in stead of goin to the bahamas and im not even real!!!! WAT DO I DO?? =\

tell him!!! if he comes out there and finds out that your still just a kid and that you were lying to him this whole time then think of how much that will hurt him.Just tell him that you were scared to tell him your real information online because you didnt want anything bad to happen.(like him turn out to be a stalker or something like that)!!

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does anyone know how to make a skirt out of an old pair of jeans???

cut right below the crotch line so that the jeans are totally open at the bottom. get the skirt al evened up and tear all the little stringy things off. The depending on how long you want it, start taking the leg part of the jeans and sew that on to the bottom to add length!!!!

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