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Im not sure what to do!?
(14,female)I use to go out with this guy...we went out for about 5 months n we were really serious...but i dumped him for his best friend(who was also one of my exs)(who i never hooked up with actually) and well me and him didnt talk for about 3 months..then on tha last day of school he came over n stayed till about 11 pm n we sorta hooked up..and then we didnt talk again for a month and then just recently he came over like 3 weeks ago n we hooked up again n i havent heard form him since then! I called ihm tha other day but he was being a real jerk! and then he had to go and told me to call him tha next day which i didnt i called him 2 days later and now he goes out with this girl that i cant stand!!but both of tha nights he came over he said he didnt want a g/f over tha summer bc of highschool starting and all that stuff and that i was one of tha clostest ppl to him in his life and that he still loved but me n then he goes out with her! and ever since he started getting invlolved with her he has been a real jerk...hes been lying alot too n he never use to...Im not sure what to do?! I dont want to loose him bc hes a great b/f and friend but i cant stand his new g/f and hes been being a jerk...what should I do? Plz help thanx
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i think u should try to show him u can live with out him maybe hes thinkin if he goes out wit a girl.. n the they break up hell still have u waitin like a dog.. dunt get played girl... u gotta see waht this guys ding.. he thinks he has a hold on u... b cuz of those 2 tymes u guys hooked up.. let him kno ur doing alright.. let him get jelous it almost always works.. good luckk!!
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I think you need to try just being friends with him, and talking to him about this. it seems to me like maybe he hooked up with you those nights because it was convienant at the time and even though he says he loves doesnt mean he is inlove with you.
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He doesn't sound like he was being a great friend. Sounds like he's moved on and he was just telling you what he wanted to here so he could use you. I think you're better off, and that you should just spend time single or look for someone else.
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Okay, it doesn't seem like he was a nice boyfriend even before the guy hooked up with a new girl. Besides cheating on you, he acts like a jerk to you. You don't deserve a guy like that. Try throwing away anything that reminds you of him, anything at all...and move on. There is no consistency...it also seems like you were happier with the guy you went out with for five months. Go back with this guy, at least you guys were serious together.
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honey i think he is just using you!!!! and he wants you when HE want ya!
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