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Hey whattsupp, my names Erin, but i sign E whenever I answer a question. I'm a sophmore in high school. I used to run, but strained my back and now i'm done. I love track so if you need any help in that I'm your girl! I'm love giving advice and helping people with their problems. I've been through so much in 15 years, that I can pretty much help anyone. Feel free to ask me anything I'd rather tell you that i don't know than give you a bad or wrong answer.I love clothes so i'm best at answering questions about style or fashion. When I grow up I want to be either an actress or a fashion desighner. So these are my best subjects! Butt, I can help in pretty much all of them :). Please feel free to ask me anything, I'll ALWAYS answer to the best of my ability, and come on here as often as possible!
-E!
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are you still a virgin if you just finger a girl or eat out or sumthing like that?
what things do you have to do to have sex
and does fingering and eating out and being given a blowjob count as sex?
Well, not technicly. BUt some people consider it to be. It's a matter of opinion. A blow job is oral sex, but it's still sex. But not SEX SeX you know?! lol i don't know if that makes sence but what i mean is that its not the 'real' thing.
Hope i helped, drop a question in my inbox if you have anyother questions!
-E
Alright, so im trying out for our school musical pretty soon, but i have no clue what song i should sing! it has to be a song from another musical! any suggestions?
Try these musicals. I'm not sure what range you are so you'll have to actually go through these musicals and pick an appropriate song:
Rent
High School Musical
High School Musical 2
High School Musical 3
Wicked
Hairspray
American Mall
Legally Blonde
Chicago
Dreamgirls
Mary Poppins
A Chours Line
Bye Bye Birdie
Once Upon a Matress
Bugsy Malone
Jersey Boys
Beauty and the Beast
The Music Man
Oliver!
Pippin
West Side Story
Grease
Grease 2
Cinderella
Crazy for you
Guys and Dolls
Titanic (kinda)
The Lion King
Those are some from the top of my head, and here's a website. I was going to list them all but you might be better off looking around the site.
http://musicals.net/?shows=1
Hope i helped!!!
-E
there was a guy, screwed me over
didnt talk to eachother for a while.
then became very good friends again, took things farther again. & i got hurt once again, he did the same thing, and ran back to the same girl, when he said he wouldnt.
the thing is, i kinda figured that would happen but i gave him a chance, because i wanted to trust him. obviously i shouldve listened to myself.
now i told him we couldnt be friends.
i havent talked to him in a month, but its hard seeing him around, and not talking to him or even looking at eachother.
i want to forgive him, but i just dont know if i should, or even if i can.
how do you know if you should?
i really miss being friends with him, im just scared things wont be the same.
i try to keep him outta my mind, but its soo hard, not to think about him.
i just really need someone to talk to about it, i guess.
any opinions or advice,
guys and girls.
please..im just so completely confused about what to do, and im sick of thing about it :/
Okay everyone makes mistakes. This was a big one because it happened not only once, but twice. Therefore, did he even learn the first time?? Well, you can forgive him. You can become friends again just don't let him and you go to the next step because of what happened. You can be friends but don't let him hurt you again. maybe you should talk to him about this. Just be like you really hurt me after you said you wouldn't. He'll understand. But, you need to make it clear that you don't want to be more than friends. (he may think that he can keep doing this to you and get away with it, so don't let him and you get to that level. Keep it on a friend level)
Hope i helped and if you need anymore help then drop a question in my inbox.
-E
My best friend commited suicide on the first of this month.. N idk what do with myself anymore. She was everything to me.. we were so close n we were even blood sisters (meaning we poked our fingers and touched our blood together). I met her in the behavorial health hospital n i knew we both had depression, but she always said she'd call me if she was thinking those thoughts again. But she didn't.. N i feel even worse cuz I was supposed to be with her that day too! I feel like I could've stopped her or something. I'm lost without her.. I don't feel like I can do this without her. What should I do? Please Help Me!
It's not your fault. Anyone could have walked in at that moment. Anyone could have hung out with her instead. Why wouldi t be just your fault? It was her choice not to call you. I'm going to asume that your think ing of commiting suicide to yourself but that is not the best way to cope with your lose. Live your life because your best friend can no longer. Always have her in your thoughts but live your life for her. You can do anything. Get threw this depression for her, live your life to the fullest for her. I'm sorry about your lose. But you need to be strong. For both yourself and your best friends family.
Please, Please, PLEASE don't kill yourself. it's not the answer and you'll regret it your whole life. You think you'll be with your best friend, yes but its not your time to go yet. God wants you to have a happy life and you will as long as you don't disipoint you, your family, or your best friend.
Hope I helped and i'm really truly sorry for your lose.
I hope my advice helped you in a smart way to cope with this.
-E
If you need any help or just someone to talk to drop me a question and i'll give you my e-mail. Please, think this through before you make a disition you'll later regret.
i love this radio station and basically all the songs they play...does anyone know the names of some the songs they play? thanks
Radio stations depend on where you live. Where I live its 103.5 and its just what people want to hear and you can call in and ask for a song and like talk to the people on the air and then they have like questions and have people call in and share there opinion.
-E
what everyone think heaven is like?
I think it's all the stuff you love. What ever you want, whatever you feel like. I read the book Lovely Bones and it just made me think this more.
-E
Right.. i know its not long till christmas but im still indecisive of what to get my honey.
Hes not really into sport and is 18. I have already got him some lacoste eau de toilette but i want to get him something more.
I was thinking of getting him a mobile because his one is battered and its really old and he complains about it alot..
I was thinking of getting him a sony ericsson c702 http://media.techeblog.com/images/c702_1.jpg
or a sony ericsson k770i http://kate1976.files.wordpress.com/2008/05/k770i.jpg .. both in black.
Is that a good idea or would a different present be better?
xx
Yeah, I like the idea. The person before me is right if he's complaining about his old one then it shows you listen to him when he talks, that didn't really make sence...but i like the idea =]
-E
I'm really like this girl who is in my school ok but I'm really nervous to ask her out as i dont know her and im not in her class.So I was thinking of getting my cousin to do it as he is in her class and I was wondering to girls find that a bit weird.SO MY QUESTION IS DO GIRLS HATE IT WHEN SOMEONE GETS THEIR FRIEND TO ASK THEM OUT FOR THEM?
(I wouldn't do it myself as i couldn't stand getting rejected like that)
I'm 14/f/freshman
I think its weird. The friend isn't the one who is going out with her. This is what I would do:
Get your cosin to ask her to hang out, tell her to bring a bunch of friends and he will to. Then you come, spend time with her talk to her get a connection. (By the way the question sounds, you havn't talked to her? You don't want to ask her out before you've talked because then how are you going to talk while going out, understand?) If you havn't talked then keep hanging out and spending time together.
Then on like the 3rd or 4th hang out ask her out just be like I really like you and i was wondering if you wanted to be my girlfriend. You could even have you cosin drop hints before it happens so he can find out if she'll say yes or no.
Your cosin could ask her after the 2nd hangout if she likes anyone and just be like i know someone who likes you. And maybe he should tell her you like him and then be like don't tell him i told you. and she'll be like okay and then have him say do you like him she'll answer and then have him say something allong the line of if he were to ask you out would you say yes? and if she says no then don't ask her out.
Hope i helped
If i din't fully answer your question or if you want more help on what to do then feel free to drop a question in my inbox.
-E
i think you should be about 20 21 when you have sex but some people say thats late i dont know when is the right time am i weird if i had sex at 21 ??? please answer :S
Well, in todays society its more common for people to have sex younger. If you feel that strong conection and you think your ready then it shouldn't matter your age, unless your like 12. I personally think that if you wait your in a better position because your smarter, and actually know when your ready, if the guys right(not just using you). So you had sex at 21? well, thats fine. I'm unsure of your age right now but it doesn't matter when it actually happens all that matters is that when it does its with the right guy at the right time.
Younger people don't realize that when its right you'll know.
BUt, when you your older you do realize this and your less likely to regret it.
Hope i helped and if i didn't fully explain it feel free to leave me a question and i'll gladly go in more debth.
-E
im at school i have alot of friends i have gotten four prezzys im wondering if im bein horrid to other people im giving them to my closest friends and i wasent goinmg to give anybody else any
am i being horrible do you think my friend will hate me or do you think they will not be bovererd if theres so many of us ??
They will only be mad if they give you something and you don't give them anything. Because then it shows that they think about you but you don't think about them, understand? What you could do is get all of your friends to do secret santa. Then you only buy for your person. ALso, then you could just give your really close friends the gifts you already bought. You really can't give these gifts infront of everyone, because if you didn't get t hem anything there going to feel like an idiot. You know what i mean?
Well, i hope i helped!
-E
my friend cheated on her boyfriend. her boyfriend forgave her and they are on a break now. so i want to have a talk with her but i dont know what to say to her. we already know she made a mistake and all that stuff. but now i want her to make sure she appreciates everything her boyfriend is doing. for example: he is still talking to her, texting her and appreciates her. i just want to talk to her about that and remind her. how do i do that or what do i say?
Okay, well this is tricky. You don't want to make it sound like he was making a wrong choice by taking her back. Why not be like 'your so lucky *name* took you back' and if she goes why or i know. If she says i know, then i think that she pretty much understands what she did wrong. If she says why then be like its wrong to cheat on your boyfriend/girlfriend. Just be like you found a great guy and i don't want to see you get hurt. Tell her that thus guy must reallyyy care about her to take her back after being un faithful. Be careful with your word choice, because some may upset her.
Good luck
Hope i helped
And if you would like more detail on what you should say then feel free to leave me another question!
-E
My nails are just so brittle and soft...I just cant seem to maintain long nails... How do i make my nails long and stronger... I just chipped of a nail right now and so i had to trim all of them!! Its a really stupid question but I am obsessed. Should I get a french manicure even though my nails are really short right now?
I wouldn't get a french manicure yet. Try drinking lots of milk or stuff that can provide your body with a lot of calcium. You could get fake nails on but that can make your nails more brittle if you don't have calcium in your body. The person before me took a lot of my ideas but i thought i would write in about the calcium thing because it is true, and it does really make your nails stronger.
Hope i helpedd!
-E
when you hang out with a boyfriend girlfriend what are some fun things you can do together in a house or outside at night besides watch movies?
bonfire
walk
look at stars
rockband
cook
eat
dance
find funny youtube videos
make a funny youtube video
play games
I can't think of anymore, but if i do i'll add them to my answer.
hope i helped
-E
17/f in a relationship of 1 year...
yes... not too long but i love this kid to death...
and i want to support him in anything he pursues as a career... but he wants to be, a cop. something i'm kind of against... i really dont know why. it's a great job, but *sigh* that whole risking your life thing isnt really working for me... me and my boyfriend have ARGUMENTS over this... i just dont know what to do? Back off? keep telling him to not do it? ='/ ... it's his life, but GAHHH i'm just so confused...
he feels the same on me joining the marine corps, which is why i decided not too... also b/c of my parents... someone please shed some light on this for me?
Okay, every carrear has a way of people dieing. Even people who sit behind a desk 24/7. But, every carrear take precassions to help prevent these things from happening. You need to understand that a cop, is no different. My grandpa was a cop and it sounds really cool. What kind of girlfriend would you be if you don't support your boyfriend with what he wants to presue. If you want to go into the marine corps. Go for it. They have more risk of dieing, but a high rate of preventing it with practice etc.
Let your boyfriend do what HE wants to do.
hope i helped
-E
ok heres the situation, im in love with my fiance, and my parents hate him, wont let me be with him, talk to him or see him. we've been together for 2 years, i know im going to marry him, i love him. im a 16 years old, and im pregnant. i want to run away and marry him, hes 19 years old in the navy, when youre married you get free housing for your family and everything along with being paid more. I read that in maryland you can get married without parental consent if you are pregnant. i want to run away from home and marry him, how will this work out, can this work out? wut will happen legal wise, i want to leave a note or something and just pack my bags and be very gone before they can do anything about it, i know my parents will call the police, will i get put in juvie as a runaway? will the charges be dropped and me be ok to be with him since we're married if we can in deed get married without parental consent? will anything happen to him for taking me in? please let me know asap. thanks!
Your fiance can go to jail for having sex with a minor. The lowest ruling i've heard of was 18 months of not being within 50 ft. of the other person. Thats now what you want, huh? Do your parents know your pregnent? Seriously, ask your parents to have him over for dinner. what don't they like about him? Listen to what they have to say. But make sure that they know that ultimetly who you love/like/marry/be with is up to you.
hope i helped
-E
I am not sure what color shirt to wear under it. I was thinking brown. Help! :)
Any colors work. The best would be brown(like you said) navy, and black. Personally, I would stay away from light colors, becuase the jacket is light.
Hope i helped!
-E
14/f
so my friend is techniqually a virgin. but she almost lost it the other night. the guy jacked off then stuck in hand down her pants, not fingered but she heard that sperm travels no matter what. so now she is freaking out if she had a miscarriage. she had her period normally two weeks ago (she has had her period for years, so she is normal and not irregurlar). well last night she started bleeding but it is not period blood, it is reddish, brownish, pinkish and she had cramps. i was told that you can have a misscarriage when you are a week pregnant and she would have been 3 weeks pregnant, but we aren't even for sure becuase we haven't bought the pregnacy test yet. is there any way that she could have been pregnant and can she be pregnant now?
Your best bet is to just go and get a pregnancy test. The person before me is right. But, it sounds like you seriously belive that she is. So get a test. Its the best bet to give you a clear answer(Yes/No) not maybe you know?
Good luck
-E
15 female. (sorry its super long, but please read!)
:)
hey everyone! well, last night i went to a homecoming with the boy i like. me and him have been reallly good friends since forever. and he knows i like him and sometimes i think he likes me too. well, anyways.. a week before the homecoming he asked me when i go trick or treating, if i get him 10 reces he will give me a surprise. well i did, and he told me he had a surprise for me. i believed him.
then also before homecoming we were talking on msn like on webcam. and i dont remember what we were talking about but he said i looked pretty. and then i wrote something to him like : i want you to be ____ ! ; and he put your boyfriend? and i was like psf, i wish. so he put i wish you were my girlfriend... and so i thought he was gonna ask me out! but he didnt.. that night of the homecoming we went to his house before we went.
we messed around, sexually. and then when we were at the homecoming he kissed me a couple of times in front of all his friends, which that never happens. so i thought, okay maybe he is going to ask me out! but he didnt.
that night after we got home, we almost had sex, but it hurt wayyyyy tooo much only after he put the head of his dick so we didnt do it.
which is another thing, im not a virgin, but ive only had sex once which was like 9 months ago.. so that can explain why it hurt so much??
well, thanks for reading and i would like to know what you think about this situation. i reallllly like him, alot! and i wanna be his gf. but idk whats going on in his head :/ also can you let me know why it hurt so bad for the sex part. and how much more times do i gotta do it so it wont hurt?!
thank you so much!!!
xoxox
Okay. First of all I can't help you with the sex part. Hey, i'm only 14! Okay, well I don't think he is going to ask you out. If your willing to give it all up without the label then why would he need you to be his girlfriend. While you two aren't going out he can mess with others TOO and nothing can happen. But while you are going out he can't do anything with others. Basicly, stop giving it up so easily. Also, try asking him. Be like are you going to ask me out or are you using me for sexx. See what he says, that will be your anser.
good luck!
-E
there is this guy at school that is obssessed with me and i really want him to stop that becausee hes freaking me out i told him that i hate him but he says he will love me till the last day of his life what should i do?
Ignore him. This guy sounds like a freak. What I would do is just have absolotly nothing to do with him. Don't talk about him to anyone and if someone comes up to you and is like blah blah blah said blah blah blah about you just be like ohh, and change the subject. Make it so its VERY clear that nothing is going to happen and that you aren't interested. He'll get it eventually or just stop bothering you.
-E
Okay, I need an idea for my boyfriends 18th birthday gift.
im 15 and im turning 16 in december.
hes into cars, and fixing them. but he already has the stuff to fix cars.
he likes money, so i was thinking of getting a 100 dollar debit card that works anywhere?
just let me konw your ideas.
oh yeah! and the borat movie because we both love it =]
You could do that. Or make it more personal. Get him the Borat movie, bucket of popcorn, a bunch of his favorite candy and like a $20 blockbuster giftcard. He'll love it. Then he'll obviously invite you to watch it with you so you guys can spend time togeter. Also, it's cheaper.
-E