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15 female. (sorry its super long, but please read!)
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hey everyone! well, last night i went to a homecoming with the boy i like. me and him have been reallly good friends since forever. and he knows i like him and sometimes i think he likes me too. well, anyways.. a week before the homecoming he asked me when i go trick or treating, if i get him 10 reces he will give me a surprise. well i did, and he told me he had a surprise for me. i believed him.
then also before homecoming we were talking on msn like on webcam. and i dont remember what we were talking about but he said i looked pretty. and then i wrote something to him like : i want you to be ____ ! ; and he put your boyfriend? and i was like psf, i wish. so he put i wish you were my girlfriend... and so i thought he was gonna ask me out! but he didnt.. that night of the homecoming we went to his house before we went.
we messed around, sexually. and then when we were at the homecoming he kissed me a couple of times in front of all his friends, which that never happens. so i thought, okay maybe he is going to ask me out! but he didnt.
that night after we got home, we almost had sex, but it hurt wayyyyy tooo much only after he put the head of his dick so we didnt do it.
which is another thing, im not a virgin, but ive only had sex once which was like 9 months ago.. so that can explain why it hurt so much??
well, thanks for reading and i would like to know what you think about this situation. i reallllly like him, alot! and i wanna be his gf. but idk whats going on in his head :/ also can you let me know why it hurt so bad for the sex part. and how much more times do i gotta do it so it wont hurt?!
thank you so much!!!
xoxox
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do you know what i honestly think, is that you should play some hard to get. He is gonna end up hurting you, because he seems to be all straight up into things that lead to sex. You do not deserve to get hurt by this guy. What I think that you should do just distance yourself a little, and play hard to get. It'll make him want you even more. Like flirt with other guys and stuff like tht. Don't make it seem like you want him so bad and you gotta have him.But don't ignore him completely. Usually things that go by too fast, don't last too long or they don't work out. Yeah..... I've had friends who say that about your third time, it doesn't hurt, so that is probably whats happening to you.
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Okay. First of all I can't help you with the sex part. Hey, i'm only 14! Okay, well I don't think he is going to ask you out. If your willing to give it all up without the label then why would he need you to be his girlfriend. While you two aren't going out he can mess with others TOO and nothing can happen. But while you are going out he can't do anything with others. Basicly, stop giving it up so easily. Also, try asking him. Be like are you going to ask me out or are you using me for sexx. See what he says, that will be your anser.
good luck!
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