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my friend needs help ! ! !
14/f
so my friend is techniqually a virgin. but she almost lost it the other night. the guy jacked off then stuck in hand down her pants, not fingered but she heard that sperm travels no matter what. so now she is freaking out if she had a miscarriage. she had her period normally two weeks ago (she has had her period for years, so she is normal and not irregurlar). well last night she started bleeding but it is not period blood, it is reddish, brownish, pinkish and she had cramps. i was told that you can have a misscarriage when you are a week pregnant and she would have been 3 weeks pregnant, but we aren't even for sure becuase we haven't bought the pregnacy test yet. is there any way that she could have been pregnant and can she be pregnant now?
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Your best bet is to just go and get a pregnancy test. The person before me is right. But, it sounds like you seriously belive that she is. So get a test. Its the best bet to give you a clear answer(Yes/No) not maybe you know?
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To be at risk from getting pregnant, the semen from the male must at least make contact with a woman's vaginal fluids.
Semen can't fly, leap through the air, or survive for more then about 15 minutes outside of a human body. It's not smart, and it doesn't have much 'egg radar'. It pretty much just swims vaguely forward if it finds itself in a warm liquid it can move in.
That means, if he fingered you with semen on his hands, there is a very slim chance you could be pregnant. However, if his hand didn't make any contact with her labia at all, it's ludicrously unlikely that she could be pregnant.
Also, your timeline is a bit fuzzy however, it's good to remember that you count the number of weeks a women is pregnant from the date of intercourse or conception, NOT from her previous period.
She could have had a miscarriage, if she were actually pregnant. But she probably wasn’t to begin with.
What is probably happening is that her level of stress and attention is causes her to have an irregular cycle. Have you ever been so upset or scarred you felt sick to your stomach? So embarrassed that you felt feverish or had a migraine? It’s the same thing, only with your period.
If she actually does become late for her period, she can buy a pregnancy test to make sure. For the time being, she just needs to be told to calm the hell down and let her body run its course. Panicking will not change anything, except give her more to panic about.
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