Q: I'll start by describing myself as I have been described by people:
I write amazing songs on guitar. I'm the best actor in my high school's theater company. According to many I'm the smartest kid they know. According to a similar number I'm extremely attractive. They claim that I'm also one of the nicest, easiest-going and can hold stupid and intellectual conversations with anyone equally well.

Okay. I'm not an egotistical selfless son of a bitch. These are things people have said to me. Here's something that bothers me: I have never had a girlfriend. I've never even been on a real date. Ever. I came close a few times, but then one girl decided to tell me yes when she really meant she didn't like me that way, and then another got as far as telling me what to tell her dad when I came to pick her up, but then changes her mind an hour later, because. No real specific reason, end of two or three weeks of getting to know eachother and whatever.

I keep trying. I generally don't like to approach girls like that unless I make eye contact and float a smile across once or twice and have one returned. Everyone else says that works, and then you go talk to them. I can't even make eye contact.

So, am I just an unlikely kid who should shut up and stop bitching and moaning, or is there some insight anyone might have here? I'm inclined to believe the first one, really.

Q: Alright, so im 15, a female, and i think i might be gay. im still 'exploring' my options, if that makes any sense. but i want to let my friends know that there is a possibility that i could be, but everytime i get close to tellin them, ill start out with something about one of my gay friends, and they are automatically grossed out. how could i hint to them that i could be, without losing their friendship, yet not being to revealing?

Q: what is your sn.. and what is your email.. i dont know how to do it im new at this..

Q: i have been dating my bf for 5 months and just recently we were at his friends house walking down the road and he had his arm around me and when his aunt picked him up he told me she was freaking out about there not being a chaperone there (but there was) and about his arm being around me (which is soooo stupid!) his aunt told his mom. and now im getting the hint that his mom and stepdad basically hate me bcuz they wont let us just sit and watch tv in his room anymore we cant even go in his room at all really, also today when he asked if he could go to the beach with all our friends his stepdad asked him if i was going to be there and he said yea and his stepdad told him to make good judgement. what does that mean?? i think they basically dont want me around him. they say they like me but they are probly just being nice. how do i get them to let me be with him?

Q: ok so i dont eat i cant sleep my hairs falling out and i dunno whats going on...even the thought of food disguists me and i cant sleep i try but i cant i sleep at like 9 in the morning every day and now i touch my head and id find some hair come out its starting to scare me im not sure what i have ...ive been having a hard time lately and been goin through some kind of depression im not sure if thats part of it ..ok thx Biii!

Q: heyy ik this isnt advice but do you have AIM or email.. so i can email you to help me more? if you want?

Q: Well, My mother is trying to read my mind. She sets me up without "knowing" and then says im doing it because (some weird hatful things im doing) and it`s making think shes nuts. She is crazy tho. I could get her put away in a M.H.

But, I have sleeping problems. I have this annoying ring in my ears. But it goes away with white noise(or any noise) but a fan puts me asleep with ease. So i get home for being on my own, after all my shit was stole. And i ask for a fan, she says i have a fan. The ceiling fan i have is the most annoy! Its quite, I have to sleep on my back(which i almost never do, like 1-50) Cuz if i turn my head the ringin in my ear is there.I almost died cuz i was so sick of sleepin on my back i slept face down with a pillow on my forehead so i could have air, i wake up coughin to death drownin in my own drool!!! On my back my whole mouth is dry, it takes me hours to fall alseep. And i have to be tired. Like missin a good amount of sleep. Im missing so much sleep i keep seeing things, plus im really paranoid. Im now missing over 40 hours. I tell this to her she flips out and thinks im lying. Im a Buddhist so im not lying, i cant! And she hates the fact im Buddhist when she has no religion. What can i say for her to shut her trap and listen for more then 30secs. And i tell her this and she says im not doing this, but im doing some complex plan to make her mad or something? So help!

Q: i have been friends with "sarah" since i was a little kid (we're both 15 now). recently sarah wanted to make a myspace. i practically made the whole thing for her since i am better with computers. i posted her first comment saying "heyy sarah whats up?". i looked at her myspace a couple days later it was gone. i assume she deleted it because sarah is really popular in school, and well im not. i think that she did not want to be associated with me because im a geek. i was really upset by this and havent talked to her in a while, and i dont if i want to. should i forgive her for being 2-faced? and if i should, should i tell her i know what she did?

Q: so theres this guy.. that ive liked since i was little.. and im 13 now and when we were little he use to come over alot. because he was my brothers best friend. and then he liked me too so we flirted alot.. and we really started to like eachother.. and he is 17 and i know its bad but i really think i loved him. and we dated for a month wihtout my mom knowing.. and then he broke up with me because he liked soemone else and because his dad with the age difference.. and we sitll talk alot and hang out and when we hang out we flirt but when i ask him if he likes me he says yes alot.. but he doesnt want to date .. but he might want to when we get older.. what do i do? do i just wait?

Q: 16/f.
im sooo confused
there is this guy that i like and but he has a girlfriend but everytime we hangout i always forget that and sometimes it seems like he does too or something because he always starts flirting like last night he was like punching me in the stomach lightly and like getting close and then he wouldnt give me my phone so i jumped on him and then like he was on the bed and i was sitting on the floor and he got really close and started talking to me =) there are other people there too but i dont know! then i had to leave for a little bit but then i came back and then he started flirting right away again! we say we are "best friends" but we arent really..just friends! anyways he lied to me like jokingly and im like UHHHHH! best friend dont talk to me dont look at me dont associate with me. i was totally joking and im pretty sure he knew because we always joke like that and then i was sitting on the couch and hes on the other one and comes over and pulls me by him and is like come on we have to have a talk and im like nope nope what do you want to talk about? and then he like just got really quiet and i was sitting on the same couch as him and he put a pillow like by his head to block me so he couldnt see me and later i like pull it off and say you suck at trying to be mad at me but then he tried grabbing it back and was like no forreal come on im not playin! and then i was like okay =( then i went and layed on the floor while we all watched tv and i think he fell asleep or something but then when he got up he left without saying anything to me! and he usually does. what is going wrong here i am really sad because i mean later i might ask were you really mad or what happend? because what do you guys think what should i do. everytime i dont see him for a bit i cant stop thinking about him and how i want to see him and now that was the last time i will see him for like a week beause im going on vacation tomorrow! the whole girlfriend deal sucks because he says he loves her but then what about me. i cant help myself!

thanks.

Q: I just moved in to a house in Lake Park, NC. I have lived here for a week and I like this girl that lives across the street. I don't have the nerve to ask her out. Can someone tell me a good way to ask her out.

Signed,

newkid

Q: Well, I failed this school year for personal reasons, and yeah it is my fault that I failed, but I didn't even get to go to summer school to try and bring up my grades. Anyways, I hated the teachers in this grade, and now I'm going to have to see them again. And I'm going to loose so many friends because I'm in a different grade then them. I'm just worried about this year. I know a lot of people that will be in this grade, but they will all ask why I failed and stuff. I don't want to have to face the same teachers I had to face last year.
Do you have any advice for me?
Things that might help?
Thanks so much for your help.

Q: In England our summer holiday has only just started and my friends and I need ideas as to what we can do. None of us have much money and we're all bored of picnics and barbeques so we need cheap, preferably outdoor activities that we can all do together.

Q: i've noticed that in movies/pictures from like 100 years ago, women had extremely small waists (like 20 inch waists). i was wondering if they were just wearing corsets that made them extra skinny, or if they were just naturally that skinny? because i'm 15/f, 5'3", and my waist is like 28 inches, and my friends are the same. have women evolved that much?

Q: I just got my period today. It sucks because these cramps are killing me and I feel like I want to die. What can I do so the cramps don't hurt as much? I know they sell pills or medicines or something but I don't know where they sell them or what they are called. Any excersizes or something I can eat? The only thing I know about is a heating pad, which I'm already using and it's helping a little bit, but not much. Any help would be appreciated.

Q: is there any shampoos that will make your hair straight? cuz my hair is wavy and takes a long time to get it completely straight..so i was wondering if theres any shampoos or something like that will make my hair straight? thanks!!

Q: I am going to be a freshman as of aug. 24 and i really want to make a good impression on everybody.What would be a good outfit to wear on orientation and the first day? i wear mostly peppy clothes i guess rather pricey brands: like a&f ae juicy and hollister but i am going to a school that is very mixed so i dont want to look like a snaob or a slut.
Also what type of back back is best for HS right now i bought a northface backpack that is all black. would a messanger bag be good what is trendy?

Q: 40s - f - uk.
I've recently been diagnosed with COPD which is Chronic Obstructive Lung Disease. I also have unstable asthma. Due to this I have to take steroids quite often which makes me put on weight. The extra weight is not good as it puts more strain on my lungs. I am trying to be careful with what I eat. I'm not fat as such, but definitely under height for my weight!
I find it very difficult to exercise, walk far etc, due to the lung disease, but I need some form of exercise to try to keep the COPD at bay as long as possible.
Also, due in part to the steroids I have early onset osteoporosis, so exercise would be good for that as well. Doctors have not really been much help. Any suggestions please?

Q: I live at a horseback riding stable and my mom is an instructor there. I have these friends and everyday after they are done working at the summer camp they come up to our house and eat lunch. Some days it feels like they just are my friends so they can come to my house. for the majority of them i know thats not true. And then they are always asking if they can eat or have something of ours and i cant exactly say no. A couple times in a row they have like cleaned our house because it is a little messy and they just clean it but they are really rude like oh we have to do it its to gross i cant look at it anymore,kind of rude. so then it makes me feel really bad. So my question is what do i do? They are being rude,esspecaily to my little sister. she is 12 (most of ther ages, im 14) but she is easy to pick on. how do i stand up to them and any other advice you have would be great

Q: i let my bf down by not going to see him i didn't mean to but it took me awhile to get to the first place i was going...well now he's actin funny when i talk to him and he hasn't called me i have to call him. I'm really sorry but i keep doing dumb s**t and sayin sorry and i think the word is a little overused. Please help me i really don't know how to handle this i think it's going too far. (just to say i'm 14/f and have know him since 4th grade,i'm going to 9th)

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