so theres this guy.. that ive liked since i was little.. and im 13 now and when we were little he use to come over alot. because he was my brothers best friend. and then he liked me too so we flirted alot.. and we really started to like eachother.. and he is 17 and i know its bad but i really think i loved him. and we dated for a month wihtout my mom knowing.. and then he broke up with me because he liked soemone else and because his dad with the age difference.. and we sitll talk alot and hang out and when we hang out we flirt but when i ask him if he likes me he says yes alot.. but he doesnt want to date .. but he might want to when we get older.. what do i do? do i just wait?
Additional info, added Wednesday August 2 2006, 8:33 pm: and that guy.. when ever im with him.. he will act like he likes me and lead me on.. but he still wont date or anything.. and he is mean to me when hes in a bad mood.. and nice to me when he wnats to be....
naturally_sadie answered Monday July 31 2006, 3:49 pm: I think you should move on. You should date other guys because you're probably going to have to wait until you're around 20 so that means you'll be waiting for 7 years. Do you really want to wait 7 years to date again? I know I wouldn't! And by the time you're older, he might have found someone else thats his age and then you're left with no one. Every year you keep waiting, you'll be letting all these guys that could have been "Mr. Right" just walk away. Just try to move on and find other people.
blodat answered Monday July 31 2006, 3:45 pm: all older guys want is someone new, someone younger...hes playing you. hes messing with you. find someone new. [ blodat's advice column | Ask blodat A Question ]
missmissgurl answered Monday July 31 2006, 2:39 pm: I would try to move on because if your going to wait you'll be waiting for a while. I'd move on. You can still be friends with him, but try to find differnt guys you like your age. I'd just move on and if some day you two end up getting back together when your older thats great, but I'm not thinking it's going to be for a while. Sorry!!! Good Luck!! [ missmissgurl's advice column | Ask missmissgurl A Question ]
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